UMary Allen
Abantu abaninzi bayayifumanisa iphumla, abanye bayayicaphukela: ukubambana nenja okanye ikati esofeni okanye nokwabelana ngebhedi nabo. Kodwa isayensi ithini ngalo mbandela - ngaba silala ngcono ecaleni kwezilwanyana zethu zasekhaya?
Izimvo ziyahluka phakathi kwabanikazi bezilwanyana ezifuywayo xa kuziwa kulo mbuzo: Ngaba abahlobo abanemilenze emine bavunyelwe kwi-sofa - bayeke ebhedini? Malunga neekota ezintathu zamaJamani avumela ikati okanye inja yawo ukuba ize esofeni. Kwaye ngaphezu kwama-40 ekhulwini nabo bathatha izilwanyana zabo ukuya kulala nazo. Oko kwaba sisiphumo sophando luka-2013.
Ngendlela, iikati zinethuba elihle lokuzenza zikhululekile kwi-sofa okanye ebhedini. Ngokophononongo, abanini beekati abaninzi bavumele izilwanyana zabo ukuba zityelele kunabanikazi bezinja. Kwaye abantu abangabodwa abahlala bodwa babethanda ukugoba inja okanye ikati yabo esofeni nasebhedini.
Ngendlela: Indlela okanye hayi isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya esikubambayo xa ulele sityhila okuninzi malunga nobudlelwane bakho. Kodwa ngaba ilala ngcono ecaleni kwenja okanye ikati? Abaphandi base-US babuze izigulane zokulala malunga noku. Malunga nesiqingatha sabanini bezilwanyana zasekhaya phakathi kwabo bathi izilwanyana zabo zalala ebhedini kunye nabo. Isahlulo sesihlanu kubo sathi siphazamise isilwanyana saso ebuthongweni. Kodwa ngaphezulu kokuphindwe kabini baninzi abayifumananga inkampani yasebusuku iphazamisa okanye ilungile.
ULois Krahn, umbhali wesifundo sephephancwadi elithi “Geo” uthi: “Izifundo eziye zavavanywa zasixelela ukuba isilwanyana sasekhaya siya kubanceda bakhululeke. "Abantu abalala bodwa kwaye bengenaqabane bathi banokulala ngcono kwaye banzulu kunye nesilwanyana ecaleni kwabo." Ewe, ekugqibeleni kufuneka uzenzele isigqibo malunga nokuba ungalala kakuhle ecaleni komhlobo wakho onemilenze emine.
Ngaphandle: Ke izinja kunye neekati akufuneki zilale nawe
Izinja neekati azivumelekanga kukhuko. Ngenxa yokuba babeka umngcipheko omkhulu wokwenzakala kubantwana. Ukongeza, umntwana wakho unokuba ne-aleji, umzekelo, ngaphandle kokwazi ngayo. Kwanabo bavakalelwa kukuba basondele kakhulu kwiikati okanye izinja akufuneki bazise isilwanyana sabo ebhedini.
Kubalulekile: Ngaphambi kokuba uvumele isilwanyana sakho silale ecaleni kwakho, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba inja okanye ikati yakho ineentshulube kwaye akukho amakhalane okanye iintakumba. Ilinen yokulala kufuneka iphinde itshintshwe rhoqo ngakumbi kunokuba ingekho iqabane lesilwanyana.