UMary Allen
Ukuqeqeshwa kweempuku kumnandi kuzo zombini izilwanyana nakubantu. Ngokuziqhelanisa okuncinci, iimpuku zinokumangalisa abanye ngamaqhinga abo kunye nezinto ezintle ezithandekayo. Ungafumana indlela yokufundisa ibuzi imiyalelo yakho enkulu apha.
Phambi koQeqesho
Ukuze uqeqesho lweempuku lusebenze ngokutyibilikayo, kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo unikele ingqalelo kwizinto ezimbalwa. Ewe kunjalo, kufuneka ube nobudlelwane obuhle kakhulu nesithandwa sakho. Ukuba impuku yakho iseneentloni kwaye ilumkile, eyona nto ilungileyo onokuyenza kukwakha ngokuthe chu ukuthembela kuyo. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba uziqeqeshe kuphela ngempuku enye ngexesha. Ukuba uqeqesha ngokwamaqela amancinci, kunokwenzeka ukuba izilwanyana ziphazamisane kwaye zingazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba zeziphi ngoku ekufuneka zenze umyalelo. Kuyo nayiphi na imeko, qiniseka ukuba uchitha ixesha elifanayo kunye neempuku zakho nganye, nokuba kuqeqesho okanye ukudlala nje, ukuze kungabikho namnye kwintanda yakho oziva engoneli. Ngaphambi kokuba uqale uqeqesho, kufuneka ufumane unyango oluthandwa yimpuku yakho. Iimpatho zisebenza njengomvuzo xa into yenziwe ngokuchanekileyo nanjengenkuthazo yokuphumeza umyalelo. Ke ngoko, qiniseka ukuba usebenzisa impatho ethandwa yimpuku yakho.
Imiyalelo Elula Ukuqala Ngayo
Ukuze ungagqithisi impuku yakho, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka uqale ngemiyalelo elula kakhulu kunye namaqhinga. Umzekelo omhle wale nto ngumyalelo othi "Yima!". Injongo kukuba isithandwa sakho sime ngemilenze yangasemva kwaye sihlale ngaloo ndlela imizuzwana embalwa emva kokuba uthe: "Yima!". Thatha into oyithandayo, uyibonise ngokufutshane kwimpuku yakho, emva koko uyibambe phezu kwentloko yakhe ukuze yolule ukuyifikelela. Nje ukuba iphakame ngemilenze yakhe engasemva ukuze ibambe into emnandi, yithi “Yima!” Kwaye umnike impatho. Kuya kufuneka ngoku uphinde le nkqubo amaxesha ambalwa ukuze impuku yakho idibanise umyalelo nento elungileyo, oko kukuthi i-snack oyithandayo.
Sukuncama!
Ziqhelise lo myalelo yonke imihla kunye nesithandwa sakho, kodwa kungcono ungaze ube ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-20. Kungenjalo, unokuyoyisa impuku yakho kwaye iya kulahlekelwa ngumdla kuqeqesho. Ngokufanayo, akufanele uqeqeshe imiyalelo emininzi ngexesha elifanayo ukuze ungabhidanisi isilwanyana sakho. Musa ukudimazeka ukuba ukuzilolonga kwakho akuqhubeki ngokukhawuleza njengoko ubucinga ukuba kuya kuba njalo ekuqaleni. Impuku nganye ifunda ngesantya esahlukileyo kwaye impuku yakho inokufuna ixesha elingakumbi lokusebenzisa umyalelo wakho ngokugqibeleleyo. Ke ngoko, akukho phantsi kwazo naziphi na iimeko kufuneka uyeke injongo yakho, kodwa unike igundane lakho ixesha elifunekayo lokuqonda umyalelo wakho. Emva kweentsuku ezimbalwa kunye nomonde omncinci, iqhinga lokuqala liya kusebenza ngokuqinisekileyo!
Imingeni emitsha
Ngokuhamba kwexesha uya kuqaphela ukuba isilwanyana sakho sasekhaya sonwabe kangakanani kuqeqesho lweempuku. Ngoko ke, ukuze uphephe ukumkruqula, musa ukumfundisa iqhinga nje elinye. Nje ukuba ucengceleze umyalelo kwaye uwenze ngokugqibeleleyo, lixesha lokufunda amaqhinga amatsha. Eyona nto ingcono onokuyenza kukucinga ngeendidi zemiyalelo eyahluke ngokupheleleyo komnye. Oku kwandisa ulonwabo kwimpuku yakho kakhulu ngenxa yoluhlu olukhulu. Unako kwakhona ukwandisa ngokuthe ngcembe into yobunzima. Ukuba uqale wafundisa ibuzi lakho kuphela umyalelo othi "Yima!", Emva kweeseshoni zoqeqesho ezimbalwa, inokukwazi ukubuyisela izinto okanye ukugqiba iikhosi zomqobo. Ubuchule bakho abunamida!
Imizekelo eSebenzayo yoQeqesho lweempuku
Ukukunika iimbono ezimbalwa zoqeqesho lweempuku, siza kukubonisa amaqhinga ambalwa ongawasebenzisa kunye neempuku zakho ukuze uqalise ngoqeqesho.
“Spin!” Okanye “Jika!”
Ukuze ufunde eli qhinga, kuqala uthathe unyango esandleni sakho kwaye ubonise i-rat yakho. Hlala ngokuphatha phambi kwempumlo yakhe kwaye uyikhokele ngokuthe chu kwintshukumo ejikelezayo phambi kwakhe. Utsho umyalelo othi "Spin!" Okanye “Jika!” Ngelizwi elivakalayo kanye. Nika unyango kwimpuku yakho kwaye uphinde le nkqubo amaxesha ambalwa ngokunjalo de impuku yakho ivule umyalelo.
“Hamba!” Okanye “Hamba!”
Eli qhinga lakha kwisiseko esithi "Yima!". Ukuba impuku yakho ime ngemilenze yayo yangasemva ngokomyalelo, usenokuyifundisa ukuba ithathe amanyathelo ambalwa eme nkqo. Ukwenza oku, kuqala, yibambe impatho phezu kwesithandwa sakho de ime ngemilenze yangemva, kwaye ngokucothayo usikhokele kude nempumlo yayo ngokuphakama rhoqo. Ukuba igundane lakho lilandela ukunyangwa kwemilenze emibini, yithi umyalelo "Hamba!" Okanye “Hamba!” Ngokukhwaza kwaye umnike impatho.
“Uxolo!” Okanye “Landa!”
Kumyalelo othi "Hollow!" Okanye “Landa!” Udinga into eyongeziweyo kunyango onokuthi impuku yakho ikuphathele yona. Ibhola elincinci, umzekelo, lifanelekile kule nto. Ekuqaleni, qhelanisa impuku yakho kunye nebhola kwaye udlale ngayo kancinci. Hlala ulungele ukunyanga, kuba nje ukuba igundane lakho lithabathe ibhola kwaye linike lona, utsho umyalelo othi "Fumana!" Okanye "Landa!", Thatha ibhola kwaye uyinike unyango.
Ingcebiso yethu: Sebenzisa ibhola enemingxuma emincinci kwaye unamathele ukunyanga phakathi. Oku kuya kwenza impuku yakho ukuba iyiqonde ngakumbi ibhola kwaye iya kuzama ukuyifumana ngokwayo ibhola. Olu luncedo olusebenzayo, ngakumbi ekuqaleni koqeqesho.
Iinzuzo zoQeqesho lweempuku
Uqeqesho nempuku yakho lukunika ngaphezu koncedo olunye. Kwelinye icala, yindlela entle yokugcina impuku yakho ixakekile kwaye inomngeni. Iimpuku zizilwanyana ezikrelekrele kakhulu kwaye zithanda izinto ezahlukeneyo kubomi babo bemihla ngemihla, yiyo loo nto zihlala zivulekele amaqhinga kunye nemiyalelo emitsha. Kodwa ayisiyiyo kuphela into emnandi edlala indima ebalulekileyo ekuqeqesheni impuku yakho. Ubudlelwane phakathi kwakho nesithandwa sakho nabo bukhula ngeseshoni yoqeqesho nganye. Igundane lakho liya kuqaphela ukuba unomdla kuye kwaye uchitha ixesha kunye naye kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo uya kuba nombulelo kakhulu kuwe. Uya kubona: akukho xesha ungabahlobo abangcono kunangaphambili! Okokugqibela kodwa ubuncinci, uqinisekisiwe ukuba uza kumangalisa bonke abahlobo bakho kunye nezalamane ngamaqhinga ahlukeneyo onawo kunye nempuku yakho.