Ava Williams
Iiveki ezimbalwa zokuqala kwi-a injana ubomi bubaluleke kakhulu ekukhuleni kwabo ngokweemvakalelo. Ngeli xesha uyabunjwa aze alungiselelwe ubomi bakhe bonke ngumama wakhe, abantakwabo, kunye nabantu "bakowabo". Ingaba umncinci udibana nomnini wakhe wexesha elizayo ngokuthembekileyo kwaye ngaphandle kokukrokra ngokusingqongileyo okanye ngoloyiko nangentloni ukhetha ukuphepha yonke into, kuxhomekeke kakhulu kwiimeko zokukhulisa, kodwa nakwizinto zofuzo zabazali bakhe.
Uqhagamshelwano lomntu
Njengomthengi, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba umfuyi omkhethileyo uyaziqhelanisa nokukhulisa injana yakhe endlwini nasegadini. Oku kuqinisekisa ukuba iinjana zijongene neemeko eziqhelekileyo zemihla ngemihla kwaye, ngaphezu kwakho konke, uqhagamshelwano olusondeleyo nabantu. Ingakumbi le yokugqibela ibaluleke kakhulu: ukuba injana ifumana unxibelelwano lomntu njengomcimbi olungileyo kwasekuqaleni, ke eyona khosi ilungileyo isetelwe ukuqhelaniswa ngaphandle kwengxaki nomnini omtsha.
Khuthaza endaweni yokurhafisa kakhulu
Njengomnini wenjana, unokwakha kule nto kamva kwaye ujonge amathuba amaninzi kunye nenjana yakho ukuze ngokuthe ngcembe wandise i-horizons yentshontsho yakho. Ukusuka ekwazini ipakethe entsha ukuya kubamelwane kunye nabahlobo kwaye ekugqibeleni nezihlwele zabantu kwiimarike, kwiivenkile zesebe, kwiivenkile zezilwanyana zasekhaya, nakwizikhululo zebhasi, injana yakho kufuneka iqhelane neemeko ezingaqhelekanga kunye nabantu. Kodwa lumka: ungagqithisi. Unokumoyisa ngokulula injana yakho ngokubona okuninzi kwaye emva koko ufezekise okwahlukileyo. Injana yakho ayifuni ukwaziswa kwihlabathi lonke ngosuku lokuqala.
Ukuqhagamshelana noontanga
Kwigumbi lenjana, injana yakho yayisoloko idibana nabantakwayo kunye nomama wayo, kwaye mhlawumbi kunye nezinye izilwanyana ezazihlala kwikhaya lomfuyi. Kumdlalo, wakwazi ukuvavanya amandla akhe kunye nemida kunye nokuphendula kunye nolwimi lomzimba lwabadlali adlala nabo kunye nokuqeqesha kwizinto ezibalulekileyo ezifana nokuvinjelwa kokuluma. Kwakhona wayefanele afunde ukungxengxeza nokungxengxeza kwabachasi ababalaseleyo.
Ukufunda "njengenja"
Kuya kufuneka uvumele injana yakho ukuba iqhubeke nale nkqubo - intlalontle kunye ne-conspecifics - ngokuya rhoqo kwisikolo seenja esilungileyo kunye naye, apho amantshontsho akwiminyaka efanayo kwaye mhlawumbi neentlobo ezahlukeneyo anokudlala kwaye aqhuqha kunye ngamaqela amancinci ngendlela elawulwayo. "Ukufunda" ulwimi lomzimba lwezinye iintlobo kunye nokujongana nayo ngokufanelekileyo kunokubaluleka okuphezulu kumantshontsho kunye nobudala bezinja ezincinci ziziphatha ngoxolo kunye nentlalontle nakwiintlanganiso zenja zemihla ngemihla.