UMary Allen
Ukuba unenja eyonwabileyo, enomdla, kunye nelula engathanda ukubulisa abanye, ngamanye amaxesha kunokuba nzima ukuqonda ukuba kutheni abanye abanini bezinja behamba okanye bathi hayi. Mhlawumbi uziva ukhubeke kancinane okanye ulusizi. Kodwa ungayithathi ngokobuqu, kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni umnini wenja odibana naye engafuni ukuba izinja zibulise.
Esona sizathu siqhelekileyo sokuba umnini wenja ayiphephe intlanganiso kukuba umniniyo ucinga ukuba “akuyomfuneko” ukuba izinja mhlawumbi azinakuphinda zidibane. Umniniyo usuka acinge ukuba inja sele inabo abantu ebaziyo. Intlanganiso yenja isoloko ithetha ingxabano ethile, izinja kufuneka zihlole enye kwenye, kwaye ukuba unelishwa, intlanganiso ayiyi kuba mnandi njengoko unokucinga. Ukuba izinja nazo zidibana kwi-leash, i-leash inokuthintela indlela yabo yokunxibelelana ngokwemvelo kunye nomnye okanye ibangele ukuba okanye abanini babo babanjwe. Emva koko kukho umngcipheko wokuba bazive bexinene kwaye baqhubeke nokuzikhusela. Ke ngoko, abanini bezinja abaninzi abafuni ukuthatha umngcipheko.
Ngoba kutheni
Ezinye izizathu zokuba kutheni ungafuni inja ibe sempilweni inokuba uyiqeqeshela loo nto kanye, hayi ukubaleka ukuya ebantwini okanye kwezinye izinja edibana nazo. Inja isenokugula, isandula ukwenziwa utyando, okanye ngenye indlela iphantsi, mhlawumbi iyabaleka okanye umniniyo akakho kweyona meko yakhe yasekuhlaleni.
Kwabo banenja engena lula kuxinzelelo, yoyika, okanye yenza ugqabhuko-dubulo, kunokuba nzima ukuxoxa ukuba kutheni izinja zingadibani. Ukuba enye inja "inobubele" okanye "injakazi ngoko ngokuqinisekileyo ihamba kakuhle" ayizizo iingxabano ukuba umnini wenja kufuneka aphendule, kodwa kufuneka nje ngentlonelo ugcine umgama wakho.
Eyona nto ingcono ukudibana neLouse
Kakade ke, kukho abanini bezinja abangathanda ukuba izinja zihlangane ngokunjalo, kwaye kwinjana encinci, kuhle ukuba idibana nezinja ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, nceda kunjalo. Indlela elula yokujonga imeko kukujonga ngamehlo kunye nomnini kumgama ofanelekileyo kwaye ubuze ngelixa izinja ziqelelene. Ihlala ingcono kakhulu ukuba izinja zinokudibana zikhululekile. Ukuba oku akunakwenzeka, qiniseka ukuba i-leashes iyancipha kwaye izinja zizolile xa zidibana.