UMary Allen
Ikati enye, ipere yeekati, okanye ngaphezulu kweekati ezimbini: uphando lubonisa ukuba uninzi lwabanini beekati lucinga ukuba lufanelekile. Unokufunda kwakhona into ekufuneka uyiqwalasele xa uthenga iikati ezininzi.
Ukuze ikati ingabi yodwa kwaye ikwazi ukuhlala idibanisa nezinye iikati, abaninzi abathandi bekati banquma ukugcina iikati ezimbini. Uphando lwabanini beekati lubonisa ukuba ukugcinwa kweekati ezimbini kuthandwa kakhulu.
Imiboniso yoPhando: Ipere yeekati zifanelekile
Ngokweziphumo zophando, abanini beekati ezimbini banelisekile ngokupheleleyo kwimeko yabo kwaye abafuni ukutshintsha nantoni na kwixesha elizayo. Amashumi asithoba anesithandathu ekhulwini abona iikati ezimbini njengelona nani lifanelekileyo leekati, yaye i-1.2 ekhulwini elincinane lingathanda ukuba nekati enye kwakhona. Okubangela umdla kukuba, abanini abaninzi beekati ezintathu okanye ngaphezulu bangathanda ukubuyela kwizindlu ezimbini.
Ngenxa yokuba ngaphambili kobunini bekati ngumnqweno wokunxibelelana ngothando kunye nezilwanyana kubo bonke abaphendulayo. Ukuba kukho iikati ezininzi, ngoko baya kubandakanyeka ngokunyuka kunye kunye nokushiya umniniyo yedwa - umnini wekati akafuni nokuba.
Ngaba kufuneka Uthathe iikati ezimbini ngexesha elinye?
Uphando luphinde lwabuza ukuba ngaba abanini beekati bathatha ngamabomu iikati ezimbini ngexesha elinye okanye ukuba ipakethi ikhula ngamabona-ndenzile? Iziphumo zibonisa ukuba isibini ngasinye seekati samkelwa ngamabomu ngumgcini njengendibaniselwano yabantu ababini.
Kwiimeko ezingama-20 ekhulwini kuphela apho kwakhethwa isibini esikhethekileyo ngokusekelwe kwizicelo ezikhethekileyo. Ubulili beekati bubonakala apha njengeyona nto ibalulekileyo efunwayo. Kwakusele kuma-70 ekhulwini kuphela ukuba kwenzeke ngamabona-ndenzile. Oku kuthetha ukuba abanye abahlobo beekati zasekhaya baye bagqiba ngabom malunga neenkunzi okanye iimazi ezivela kwi-litter yangasese okanye kwindawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana.
Ngaba ngamanye amaxesha iikati zithatha indawo yabantwana?
Ngokutsho kweziphumo zohlolisiso, izibini ezitshatileyo eziziikati zihlala ubukhulu becala, oko kukuthi, ama-80 ekhulwini, kumakhaya angenabantwana. Ngaphezu koko, nama-87 ekhulwini abanini beekati abathatha inxaxheba abazi okanye abathanda abantwana. Kwabo bahlala nabantwana, iikati ezingama-32 (izibini ezisisi-5.5 ekhulwini) ziyakuthanda ukugona nabantwana, yaye ezinye ezisisi-3.8 ekhulwini ziyakuthanda ubuncinane ikati enye.
Iingxaki kwiKhaya elineekati ezimbini
Abanini beekati ezimbini baziva beneengxaki ezininzi (i-22 pesenti) kwizilwanyana zabo kunabanikazi beekati ezininzi (i-5.8 ekhulwini). Lo mahluko ubangelwa kukuba abanini beekati rhoqo babecinga ngokuyintloko malunga neengxaki ezivela kubomi beqela kwaye abazange bakhankanye imiba yezempilo, umzekelo.
Abanini beekati ezimbini, kwelinye icala, badwelisa yonke into, ngokweenkcukacha ezi zazi:
- Ukumakisha
- uneentloni
- imikhwa emibi yokutya
- nokukhululeka
- Izifo
- nomona
- ukungazinzi
- Ukulola iinzipho kwiifenitshala
Nangona kunjalo, i-frequency jikelele yezi ngxaki iphantsi kakhulu, phakathi kwekati enye kunye nezine kwi-100.
Ukwamkele Ngaphantsi Kweekati Ezimbini?
Nangona malunga neepesenti ezingama-94 kumakhaya ali-155 ekwenziwa uphando kuwo ahlala neekati ezimbini ngaphandle kweengxaki, i-15 kuzo (phantse ishumi leepesenti) zikhetha ukuba neekati ezimbalwa. Yikati enye kuphela – kodwa akukho mntu kweli qela ufuna loo nto. Uninzi lwaba bagcini (30 pesenti) babona iikati ezimbini njengelona nani lifanelekileyo, ze ezintathu (15.5%) neekati ezine (10.3 pesenti) zisalungile. Inani elimangalisayo labanikazi beekati (i-8.4 ekhulwini) bathi: "Into ephambili yinani elilinganayo!".
Izizathu zeSigqibo: Yikati nje?
Kutheni abanini bekati enye bengafumani isilwanyana sesibini? Izizathu ezinikwe ngabagcini bekati enye abaphononongwayo zezi:
- Iikati mhlawumbi bezingayi kuvalana.
- Iqabane lam (okanye nabani na ongomnye) akalifuni.
- Iingxaki nomnini-mhlaba kumagumbi aqeshisayo
- iindleko eziphezulu kakhulu
- indawo encinci kakhulu
- ixesha elincinci kakhulu
- Ebesele enayo ikati yesibini, kodwa endala ayizange idibane nentsha.
- Lo ukhoyo unentloni kwaye wonwabile yedwa.
Lithini Elona nani Leekati?
Kukho imithetho emibini emidala yobhontsi malunga nenani leekati elinokubakho:
Umgaqo weGumbi: Ungaze ugcine iikati ezininzi kuneendawo zokuhlala.
Umthetho wezandla: Thatha kuphela iikati ezininzi njengoko kukho abantu abanokumbamba okanye izandla zokuzibamba.
Indibaniselwano yale mithetho mibini ilungile ngokuhambelana namava abanini beekati rhoqo:
- Ubuninzi beekati ezine bucetyiswa kubantu ababini kwigumbi elinamagumbi amane.
- Umntu ongatshatanga osebenzayo uya kuhlala ngokupheleleyo ngeekati ezimbini kwigumbi elinye. Kuye, “umthetho wesandla” uyasebenza, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uhlala phi.
Umntu ongatshatanga onexesha elininzi kunye nendawo yokuhlala kunye negadi ebiyelweyo ilungile ngomgaqo wegumbi kwaye unokubala amagumbi angaphantsi ukuba uyafuna.
Kodwa: Akukho mithetho ngaphandle kokukhetha. Intsapho enamagumbi amathandathu kwigumbi elinamagumbi amane inokubeka uphawu “luvaliwe ngenxa yokuxinana” ngeekati ezine. Nokuba ikati enye yanele kubo, kuba kusoloko kukho umntu wokufuya nokudlala naye.
Ngaphambi kokuba uthenge ikati enye okanye ngaphezulu, kufuneka usoloko ucinga ukuba ukulungele na ukuthatha uxanduva ngesilwanyana, ukuba kukho indawo eyaneleyo, ukuba unalo ixesha elaneleyo lokuhoya ikati, nokuba unolwazi olwaneleyo malunga nempilo, isondlo. kunye nohlobo olufanelekileyo lokufuya ikati luyafumaneka kwaye luluphi uhlobo lokufuya ikati kunye nekati olukufanelayo kunye nemeko yokuhlala.