UMary Allen
Yintoni eyona nto intle kunokwabelana ngobomi nenja? - Ewe kunjalo: ukwabelana ngayo nezinja ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu! Nangona kunjalo, ukugcina izinja ezininzi ngexesha elinye kuthetha umsebenzi kunye nokucwangcisa ngakumbi. Ngoko ke kubalulekile ukucacisa izinto ezimbalwa kwangaphambili ukuze kungabikho nto imisa endleleni yokuphila ekhululekile kunye.
Kufuneka Ibe Yeyiphi Inzala?
Unokunqwenela ukuba inja yakho yesibini ibe yintlobo eyahlukileyo kunenja yakho yokuqala. Emva koko umbuzo uvela malunga nokuba kufuneka kube yintoni. Ukukhethwa kweentlobo zezinja kukhulu, iimpawu zohlobo oluqhelekileyo zahluke kakhulu, kwaye iintlobo ezixubeneyo ngokuqinisekileyo zilungile: Ngoko ke uyachithwa ngenxa yokuzikhethela.
Kungcono ukuziqhelanisa nomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine: zithini iimpawu zabo? Ngaba ukhuthele, ukulungele ukudlala? Vula kubantu ongabaziyo okanye endaweni yoko uneentloni? Emva kokuba unike ingcamango kwinja yakho yokuqala, uya kukwazi ukugweba into oyifunayo kwinja yesibini. Mhlawumbi ufuna ukuba arhwebeshe “owokuqala” aphume kwindawo yakhe yokugcina izinto, abe ngumzekelo olawulayo nongqongqo kwindawo ethile. Okanye ngokuyintloko kufuneka abe ngumhlobo okanye umhlobo. Ukuba ungathanda ukusebenza kwimidlalo yezinja okanye ube neqabane lokuzingela, umbuzo wohlobo mhlawumbi ulula kancinci, ekubeni sele uneentlobo ezikhethekileyo engqondweni ezilungele ngokukodwa umsebenzi ochaphazelekayo.
Cinga ngononophelo malunga nokukhetha inja yakho yesibini kwaye wenze isigqibo malunga neemfuno zenja yakho yokuqala, ukuze ingagqithiswa ngokupheleleyo yimeko entsha, kodwa inokwenza into kunye nomhlobo wayo omtsha. Oku kungena kunokuba lula ukuba izinja ezimbini azifani kakhulu, kodwa zineemfuno ezifanayo. Kungenjalo, inokoyisa ngokukhawuleza inja ehamba ngokuzolileyo kwaye inomdla omncinci wokuzilolonga, umzekelo, ukuba ngequbuliso kufuneka ihambisane ne-husky efuna ukujikeleza iikhilomitha eziliqela yonke imihla.
Indoda okanye ibhinqa?
Omnye umbuzo obangela umdla uphakama xa kuthethwa ngesini solu kukhula. Kudla ngokuba yinyaniso ukuba inkunzi nemazi ziyavana. Kodwa qaphela: ukuba zombini izinja zilungile, kufuneka ucinge ngononophelo malunga nendlela yokuhlala kunye ngexesha lobushushu kufuneka ilawulwe! Ngokuzenzekelayo, akunjalo ukuba izinja zamadoda zinengxaki enye kwenye kunezinja zemazi enye kwenye. “Ubuhlobo bamadoda” obubalaseleyo bunokukhula phakathi kwamadoda amabini! Yiyiphi inja ehamba kakuhle nenye kwakhona umntu kakhulu. Ngoko ke kungcono ukujonga inja yakho yokuqala ukufumanisa ukuba kwaye yintoni na ukhetho analo. Zeziphi izinja adibana nazo ngokukhethekileyo? Kwaye zeziphi ezinokuthi zibangele ukungqubana? Kwenza ingqiqo kakhulu ukuba inja yakho yesibini inokuhamba kakuhle nenja yakho yokuqala. Oku kwandisa amathuba okuba "indlu ekwabelwana ngayo" iya kukhula ibe libhondi yokwenyani.
Kubalulekile ukuba unike izinja zakho ixesha. Musa ukulindela ukuba babe kunye kwingobozi emva kweveki okanye banxibelelane ngelixa belele. Nokuba nganye inja yakho idinga indawo yabo kwiintsuku zokuqala kwaye phantse ngoyaba omnye umhlobo ezinemilenze emine, oko akuthethi ukuba abayi kuqhelana kakhulu omnye komnye kwiiveki ezimbalwa okanye ngonyaka. Logama nje kungekho lugonyamelo lunamandla olunokubenzakalisa, yonke into iqhelekile okwangoku. Iiyantlukwano ezingephi zisenokubakho yaye akukho sizathu sakuxhalaba. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awuqinisekanga, funa icebiso lomqeqeshi wezinja ohloniphekileyo, onamava ukuze uhlolisise imeko.
Kufanele Ube Njani Umahluko Weminyaka?
Ngaba ifanele ibe yinjana okanye inja endala? Lo ngowona mbuzo unomdla kakhulu! Ukuba inja yakho yokuqala sele ikhulile ngeminyaka, injana okanye inja encinci inokumoyisa, kodwa mhlawumbi iphinde imhlanganise kancinci. Ukuba, kwelinye icala, sele ekhulile, unokuziva “ekhutshiwe etroneni” yinja ekubudala obufanayo okanye emdala kancinane. Omnye umbuzo oza kugqitywa ngabanye ukusuka kwinja ukuya kwinja, nangona ngokuqinisekileyo kuyacetyiswa ukuba usebenze kunye nenja yokuqala kwiindawo ezinkulu zokwakha ngaphambi kokuba kufakwe enye yesibini. Ukuba eyokuqala iphuma kwimeko enzima kwaye akusekho iingxaki kwimfundo nakwimpilo yemihla ngemihla, akukho nto imile kwindlela yesibini.
Enye indlela inokuba kukuthatha iinjana ezimbini kwilitha enye. Yingcinga entle leyo, kodwa iya kufuna umsebenzi omninzi kunye nomonde. Emva kwakho konke, ujongene nomngeni wokuzisa izinja ezimbini nge-puppyhood kunye noqeqesho olusisiseko ngaxeshanye, ukuze ube ne-"pubertalists" ezimbini ezinesiqingatha-eqinile ekhaya emva kwexeshana. Ngaba ukulungele okanye uyakwazi ukuqweba amandla ayimfuneko, ixesha, nokuzingisa? Ngelishwa, i-littermates ezimbini azithethi isiqingatha somsebenzi, kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo kabini umsebenzi.
Ukuba kukho ithuba lokuba zombini izinja zazane kwangaphambili, eli thuba kufuneka lisetyenziswe ngokuqinisekileyo. Ukuba bobabini badibana amaxesha amaninzi kwaye mhlawumbi bahambe kunye kunye ne-leash, ikamva elihambayo kwinja "entsha" linokukhululeka ngakumbi. Nika izinja zakho indawo eyaneleyo ukuze ziqhelane nale meko intsha. Ekuqaleni, gcina umgama xa bobabini bedibana okokuqala ngqa kwaye banciphise xa uqaphela ukuba bobabini bakhululekile kakhulu. Endlwini, zombini izinja kufuneka zibe nendawo yokurhoxa ukuze zikwazi ukuphephana nangaliphi na ixesha. Ngale ndlela, imeko enzima enokuthi inyuke ngenxa yokuba inja ayikwazi ukuphuma kuyo kwaye ivakalelwa kukuba icinezelekile ayiveli. Kufuneka kwakhona unikele ingqalelo koku xa utyisa kwaye udale indawo eyaneleyo phakathi kwezinja zimbini ukuze ubundlobongela bokutya bungabi ngumba.
Unokufumana ulwazi oluthe kratya malunga nombandela othi "ubunini bezinja ezininzi" kunye neendlela ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe xa ukhetha inja yesibini apha. Ukuba ubeka iliso kubahlobo bakho abanemilenze emine kwaye ubeke ingqalelo kwezi zinto, ukuhlala kunye namalungu entsapho yakho kuya kuba yinto emangalisayo. Sikunqwenelela ixesha elihle nelipholileyo "lokukhula kunye"!