UMary Allen
Ingakumbi abahlali basezidolophini banezazela ezimbi amaxesha ngamaxesha kuba kufuneka basoloko beyigcina “ikati elihlwempu” “itshixiwe”. Okanye bazincame uvuyo lomntu ohlala naye endlwini ukuze bamsindise kobu bomi “bungekho ngokwemvelo”.
Kuba kufuneka baphume, babaleke, babambe iimpuku, okanye nantoni na oyenzayo njengekati. Ewe…zamile zombini, kodwa akukho thelekiso? Kodwa. Isihloko kusenokwenzeka ukuba sahlule isizwe ngenxa yokuba iikati ezingaphakathi zinobomi obungqiniweyo obuphinda kabini ubude njengoko iikati ngaphandle zihlala zingabalulekanga xa kuziwa kumbuzo: ukubanjwa endlwini, intambo ende (igadi), okanye ubomi obufutshane? "Kungcono ukuba mfutshane kunye nolonwabo" kuvame ukuviwa ngaphandle kokuba umntu aqonde ukuba "mfutshane" ingaba mfutshane kangakanani. Uninzi lwabanini beekati sele bephulukene nezithandwa zabo besebancinci, kwaye kubanini beekati abaninzi, inye into eqinile: soze, nanini. Ngoku, ngubani oneengxoxo ezingcono?
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Iikati zikonwabela kakhulu ukuzulazula ngaphandle, ukubamba iimpuku, kwaye uzitye (okanye uzinike abantu bazo). Bathanda ukwenza nantoni na abanqwenela ukuyenza. Zonke izakhono ezizezendalo kuhlobo lwazo kwaye ngokusengqiqweni azinakuze zisebenze ngendlela efanayo ngaphakathi kwiflethi zivuselelwa ngokwethuku kungekudala. Iikati “azilibali”, ziyaziqhelanisa. Oku ibikukugqwesa kwabo okulinganayo kangangamawaka eminyaka, eye yaqinisekisa ukusinda kwabo, kunye noko, ngaphandle kwayo yonke into, abaze bazilahlekele. Yiyo loo nto iikati zangaphakathi zinokonwaba kakhulu - nje "zahlukileyo".
YeMpambano eqhelekileyo
Kungenxa yokuba ngowuphi umthandi wekati ongayaziyo imizuzu “emihlanu” edumileyo kwindlela yemihla ngemihla ye-velvet paw? Ubaleka ngokukhawuleza kangangoko anako, ajike iikhabhathi ezihla zinyuka, kwaye enze amaqhinga kwisithuba sokukrwempa- ngokuxhomekeke kugqatso kunye nobunzima bokulwa, yonke le flethi iba yindawo yokomelela, indlela eyimfihlo yokudlala ngeekhaphethi ezifumbileyo. Kwaye konke oko ngaphandle kwengca yengca, ngaphandle kweentyatyambo, amatyholo, imithi, kunye namabhabhathane. Akunakubakho mbuzo wokumosha…
Ikhaya Lam Yinqaba Yam
Abanini beekati akufuneki nje bondle abahlobo babo abanemilenze emine kakuhle kwaye ngokufanelekileyo, baqinisekise ukuba banokukonwabela ukutya kwabo ngoxolo kwaye benze ishishini labo bengaphazamiseki, bababambe, babafunqule kwaye babaphathe ngononophelo, kwaye babeke iliso kwimpilo yabo, isithuba sokukrwela ngokundilisekileyo esinazo zonke iintlobo zokuzonwabisa - kubandakanywa into enye/eliqela elithile - ukuthenga - abanini beekati kufuneka nabo - ngokwenyani yegama - bavumele i-velvet paw "iphile".
Oko kuthetha ukuba: Kufuneka silungelelanise ubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla kunye nekhaya lethu kwinto yokuba sinekati - isilwanyana esinezidingo ezikhethekileyo (nangona kulula ukuyizalisekisa) kwaye sinokufumana ukusetyenziswa okwahlukileyo kwi-knick-knacks kunathi. Kwaye ukuze sazi ukuba ezi mfuno zinokubonakala njani, kufuneka sizame ukufumanisa ukuba yintoni eyenza iikati ngokubanzi - kodwa ezethu ngokukodwa-zithikishe, kuba zonke ziyimvelaphi.
Isifuba
Iikati kufuneka kwaye zifune ukuba ngamaqabane athandwayo (kufuneka) ahluke kuphela kumaqabane anemilenze emibini ngokuqwalasela kunye namalungelo amele anikezelwe kubo kwaye ukuhlala kunye kufuna. Ngoxa ngokufuthi esebenza njengokuthabathel’ indawo into esiye sakhanyelwa bubomi, akukho nto iphosakeleyo ngaloo nto—ukuba nje sibahlonela yaye sibaphatha ngendlela abayiyo. Emva koko umhlobo onemilenze emine uya kulunga, uya kuziva elungile, aneliseke kwaye ajabule kwaye angaphuthelwa nantoni na. Kaloku thina bantu kuphela esikwaziyo ukulangazelela into esingayaziyo okanye esingazange siyibone. Oko akwanelanga njengesizathu sokukhanyela iikati "inkululeko yegolide"? Ayiyiyo yonke ingwe yesofa enokuvuyela ukutshintshiselana ngale nto imangalisayo, kodwa ikwanobungozi kwaye ithandabuzekayo ulonwabo lwenkululeko kunye nokufika kwayo kwikhaya elikhuselekileyo kunye nomntu onothando, noqondayo ovumela ukuba ibe yile nto iyiyo: ikati.