UMary Allen
Ngamantshontsho, isajongwa njengentle, enezinja ezinkulu kuphela ezicaphukisayo: ukutsiba okanye ukutsiba. Kulula ukuyiphepha ngokwentelekiso.
Ukutsibela izinja akuthandeki kuluntu lwethu. Yiba ngenxa yokuba awufuni ukubeka emngciphekweni ibhulukhwe emdaka okanye ngenxa yokuba ukutsiba kugqalwa njengokucaphukisayo. Kodwa umntu uye wavusa kwaye waqinisekisa le nja yokuziphatha. Ingqwalasela efunyenweyo - kuphela ngokusabela komntu - imele impumelelo, ngakumbi kwinja encinci. Ukutsiba-tsiba okuqheliselwayo kuba yindlela eqhelekileyo yokuzihlaziya. De umntu ojongene nayo afune ukuyicima kwakhona.
Ulwaphulo-mthetho lwesikolo sezinja. Umnini wezinja u-Urs Frei * ucela uxolo ekuqaleni kweyure yokuqala ngenja yakhe, efuna nje ukutsiba kunye nomntu wonke. Umqeqeshi wezinja uqhelene nomsebenzi wokuziphatha. Uyalela abanye abathathi-nxaxheba abathathu ukuba bangayihoyi inja kwaye beme bekhululekile. Emva koko uxelela u-Urs Frei ukuba afihle umfanekiso wokutsiba kwaye akhuphe inja yakhe emotweni. Umgcini wenza njengoko axelelwa. Inja yakhe izidlikidla isuka emotweni ize ihambe isiya komnye umntu, iye komnye umntu, ihogele umlenze webhulukhwe, ihambe. Akukho ntetho yokutsiba.
Unxibelelwano lweCanine
Kutheni kunjalo? Inja ifuna ukujonga omnye umntu ngeempumlo zayo, kuphela loo nto, akukho nto - kodwa kaninzi umntu akabambeleli kuyo kwaye aphendule kuqhagamshelwano olufutshane. Injongo ifanele ibe kukuba inja iziphathe kakuhle iyodwa kwaye ingatsimi ngaphandle kokuba ilungiswe okanye ixelelwe ukuba “ihlale” ixesha ngalinye. Wonke umnini wenja uya kwenza kakuhle ukuqinisekisa ukuba akayenzi oku kunye nenjana. Oku kumsindisa inkathazo engeyomfuneko, imbonakalo yomsindo, amazwi arhabaxa, okanye ibhilikhwe yokucocwa kwempahla.
Injana iya kubulisa unina ngokutsiba emilebeni yakhe mhlawumbi ihluthe into etyiwayo kwinto ayibambisileyo. Ukuchukumisa umlomo nge-snout, ukuvumba, okanye ukukhotha ngokufutshane, oko kukunxibelelana kwe-canine - kunye nezinja ezithandanayo, ukubonakalisa uvelwano. Injana iphinda ifune unxibelelwano kwinqanaba lamehlo kunye nabantu ukuba lo mva unikela ingqalelo, ugoba kwaye ubethe, ukhuthaza ukudibana kwamehlo, izijekulo okanye amagama, kwaye uvuselela umdla.
Ngokuxhomekeke kwinqanaba lokuvuya kunye nokulindela, ukuxhuma kuba ngumzimba. Ngoko ke akukho malunga nokubulisa, kodwa malunga nemincili. Ukutsiba ngokukhawuleza okanye ukutsiba phezulu, ukuba kuyimfuneko ngeeclamps, kunceda ukunciphisa uxinzelelo kwaye kubhekiselwa kuyo njengesenzo sokutsiba ukuba inja ayikwazi ukujamelana nemeko. Umzekelo, ukuba umnini udibana nabahlobo ekuhambeni kwaye ayeke.
UThintelo Endaweni Yokohlwaya
Isiqalo sinokuba ngumntu ongenazigqibo, ogxininisekileyo ongenakuhlolwa kwaye aziphathe ngokuchasene noko kulindelwe yinja. Ke xa utsiba, ayikokulawula okanye ukuziphatha ngokuzithoba kumntu obizwa ngokuba ngowongamileyo, kwaye ayikokungabi nantlonipho, njengoko kubizwa ngokuba “zinja” kwisikolo sezinja sikaMartin Rütter.
Ukulungisa abantu ngezohlwayo kudla ngokuyenza mandundu imeko. Inja ayiyiqondi isohlwayo kuba ayikwazi ukuyibeka kwimeko yesenzo sayo, esivela kwimfuno yayo. Iindlela ezigwenxa ezifana nokunyuswa kwamadolo, ukunyathela kwe-paw, ukuphakamisa i-leash, okanye ezinye iindlela zobundlobongela ngabacebisi ababi. Zinokubangela ubundlobongela, zikhokelela kunxibelelwano lobuxoki kwaye ekugqibeleni zonakalise ubudlelwane bokuthembana phakathi kwenja kunye nomntu.
Ukufunda ukungaxhumeki kulula ngokwenene. Okokuqala, umntu kufuneka aqaphele iimeko kunye neemeko apho inja igxuma khona. Yintoni eyona nto iphambili, ngumbuzo. Uthintelo ke ngowona mlinganiselo ubalulekileyo. Abantu bafanele bayiqaphele imeko kwangethuba, bajonge indlela evakala ngayo inja yokuziphatha kwaye bangayivumeli ukuba itsibe konke konke.
Umgama kunye nokuhambelana
Umniniyo umele agcine umgama wakhe kumthombo wovuselelo, mhlawumbi aluphephe okanye aluthobe kwangethuba, kuxhomekeka kwinqanaba lochulumanco lwenja. Intambo ikhona ukuze ikhuseleke. Yile ndlela uxhasa ngayo inja kwaye ubeke umda - ngaphandle kwe-jolt. Ingongoma kukuba inja ayenzi iimpazamo kwaye ayiweli ekuziphatheni okungafunekiyo. Oku kwenzeka kumgama okhuselekileyo ekuqaleni.
Ukuba oku kuphumelela, ilizwi elizolileyo lokudumisa lidla ngokwaneleyo, elingasetyenziselwa ukuchaza "ukuhlala phantsi", mhlawumbi kudibaniswe nomvuzo wokutya. Inja ifunda indlela yokuziphatha efunwayo ngendlela elula. Kukho neendlela ezilungileyo apho inja inikwa enye indlela yokuziphatha. Ukuba ugcina amathupha omane emhlabeni, kukho umvuzo ngexesha elifanelekileyo elinxulunyaniswa negama.
Uphinda ezi meko zoqeqesho ixesha elithile kwaye uqinisekise ukuba inja akusafuneki ibonise ukuziphatha okungafunwayo. Emva koko, umgama wokutsibela-ukuya kwinto uyancitshiswa ngamanyathelo amancinci. Kuthatha umonde kunye nolawulo olungaguqukiyo ukulahla umkhwa wokuxhuma phezulu.
Kubalulekile ukuba abantu abaqhuba le meko okanye abajikeleze inja bayalwe kakuhle. Kufuneka ungayihoyi inja, ungayihoyi kwaye ukuba ifuna ukutsiba, yenza umgama, ujike kwaye usonge iingalo zakho.
Isandla Siba Intloko Yenja
Ukuba ufuna ukuvumela ukunxibelelana nenja phakathi kwabahlobo, yenza oko ngokuzolileyo, umzekelo ngokunika umva wesandla sakho kancinci ngelixa ugobile kwaye ngoko kwinqanaba lamehlo. UDorit Feddersen-Peterson, umphandi wokuziphatha kunye nombhali wencwadi oyingcali, uthetha ngemibuliso evuthuzayo yeempawu zothando. Esikhundleni sokuvalwa, ucebisa ukuba isandla somntu siye entloko kwaye siphulule injana, ngokuzola kwaye ingabi phezu kwentloko. Oko kuhla ekuthambekeni komlomo.
Wonke umnini kufuneka azenzele isigqibo sokuba inja yakhe kufuneka ibulise ngomdla kangakanani na. Ukuba awuyifuni, ungayihoyi inja kunye nemincili yayo, yijike kwaye uyihoye kuphela xa izithupha zayo ezine ziphantsi. Kufanelekile ukudala uhlobo lwendawo ethintelweyo kwindawo yokungena, umzekelo kunye nomnyango womqobo. Ukuba iindwendwe ziyafika, inja encinci iyabanjwa okanye isiwe kwelinye igumbi. Uvunyelwa kuphela ukujoyina abantu kwakhona xa wonke umntu ehleli etafileni kwaye imincili iphelile.
Nabani na owakha izithethe ezinjalo zokubulisa zihambelana kwaye akavumeli inja ukuba ifunde into engafanelekanga, ayiyi kujongana nesihloko sokuxhuma okanye phezulu ixesha elide.