UMary Allen
Xa umhlobo obawayo onemilenze emine ephelelwa ngumdla ngequbuliso, oko kubangela inkxalabo kwiinkosi ezininzi. Kutheni inja iyeka ukutya? Esi sikhokelo sinika iimpendulo ezinokubakho.
Ukuba inja yakho ayisakuchukumisi ukutya kwayo, kufuneka uqale uyijonge ngononophelo indlela aziphatha ngayo. Kukho izizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo zokuba umhlobo onemilenze emine engasakwazi ukutya. Jonga amazinyo kunye nomzimba wenja yakho, ubone ukuba ukutya kulungile kwaye ukuba indawo engqongileyo inokuphazamisa inja yakho ngelixa isitya.
Ukuba umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine utsiba izidlo ezimbalwa kuphela kodwa ngenye indlela ukhangeleka esempilweni, awusoloko unexhala. Izinja zigubungela iimfuno zazo zesondlo ngokutya. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, oku kunokwahluka ngokuxhomekeke kumsebenzi womzimba okanye iminyaka. Ngokomzekelo, izinja ezindala zidinga ukutya okuncinci ngexesha elithile.
Nangona kunjalo, ukuba i-protégé yakho ibonise ukungabi namdla wokutya ixesha elide, inokuba kungenxa yesinye sezi zizathu zilandelayo:
Inja Yakho Ayikuthandi Ukutya Kwenja
Ngokuqhelekileyo esona sisombululo sicacileyo kukuba inja yakho ayikuthandi ukutya kwayo. Ngaba iphelelwe lixesha? Qiniseka ukuba ujonge umhla wokuphelelwa ukuze ukhuphe esi sizathu. Umbala kunye nevumba nazo zinokubonisa ukutya kwenja enqabileyo.
Ngendlela, ezinye izinja azithandi ukutya kwindawo engaqhelekanga, njengaxa zihamba. Kodwa kukwafanelekile ukujonga ngakumbi imeko yekhaya: inja yakho isenokuba itye into ekungafanelanga ukuba iyitye: iithoyi, iingceba zefenitshala okanye izityalo, okanye, kwimeko embi kakhulu, iziyobisi okanye iikhemikhali. Zonke ezi zinto zinokukhokelela ekugatyeni nasekugabheni. Kule meko: kugqirha wezilwanyana.
Inja ayityi ngenxa yeengxaki zamazinyo
Izinja ezininzi ziyayeka ukubamba ukutya ngenxa yokuqaqamba kwamazinyo. Yiyo loo nto kusoloko kufanelekile ukujonga emlonyeni womhlobo wakho onemilenze emine. Ngaba ufumene izinyo elaphukileyo okanye eligexekileyo okanye isifo seentsini apha? Emva koko ukutya kuyamkhathaza nje.
Kungcono ukujonga ngokusondeleyo kuwo wonke umzimba ngokunjalo. Uhlaselo lwezifunxi-gazi, amaqhuma angaphantsi kwesikhumba, ukutshintshwa kwedyasi, okanye irhashalala nako kunokubonisa imeko eyonakalisa inja yakho ukutya.
Khangela ezinye iimpawu
Ukuba umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine akaphelelwa ngumdla wokutya kuphela kodwa ukwabonakala ebhityile kwaye unengxaki yezinye iimpawu ezinjengokuhlanza, urhudo, okanye ukuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni, ngokuqinisekileyo kufuneka umse kugqirha wezilwanyana. Oku kunokubangelwa yimeko yempilo enzima efana nomhlaza, ukungaphumeleli kwezintso, iingxaki zesibindi, okanye usulelo.
Ukuba inja yakho ifihla emini, ukulala kakhulu, ayisafuni ukudlala okanye ukuhamba, ukulahlekelwa ngumdla kunokubonisa ukudakumba.