UMary Allen
Ikati yakho ikufunela okanye izama ukukukrwela? Ngaba ikati yakho ihlasela imilenze yakho okanye ezinye iikati? Ukuba izingwe zasendlwini zinoburhalarhume, akuphumi bububi, yatsho ingcali yehlabathi yezilwanyana uChristian Wolf. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho enye into emva kwayo.
Ukuba iikati zinobundlongondlongo, kunokubakho izizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Iikati azizalwa zindlongondlongo kwaye zikwimeko embi; kukho izizathu zokwenyani zolu kuziphatha.
Kodwa yintoni? Iikati ezigulayo okanye ezonzakele ngokukhethekileyo zidla ngokusabela ndlongondlongo, ngokutsho kwengcali. UChristina uthi: “Intlungu iyafika, iintlungu ziyahamba, ngamanye amaxesha ziba namandla, ngamanye amaxesha ziba buthathaka. "Kodwa xa kuvela imeko apho intlungu inzima kakhulu, ikati ifuna ukuyichaza yonke into ngandlela thile." Iikati ezininzi ke zisebenzisa ubundlongondlongo njengendawo yokuphuma.
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba ikati yakho inomsindo ngokukhawuleza, kufuneka ngokuqinisekileyo umse kwi-vet, incoma ingcali yekati. Kuba: Le kuphela kwendlela onokuthi uqiniseke ngayo ukuba ukuziphatha mhlawumbi akubangelwa kukugula okubuhlungu okanye ukwenzakala.
Ikati Exinezelekileyo Inokuba Nobundlongondlongo
Nangona kunjalo, akufuneki kube njalo. Iikati ezicinezelekileyo okanye ezidiniweyo ngamanye amaxesha ziba ndlongondlongo, utshilo uChristina. Uthi: “Akukho nto imbi kwikati njengokukruquka. Kwaye oko kukhokelela kunxunguphalo olukhulu ekuhambeni kwexesha. Oku kuphazamiseka kunokubonakaliswa ngogonyamelo.
Umzekelo, uxinzelelo lunokuthi lwenzeke kumakhaya aneekati ezininzi. UChristina: “Iikati azivani, kukho isimo sengqondo esibuhlungu esingapheliyo, mhlawumbi kukho ukungcungcuthekiswa kokwenyani phakathi kweekati. Kwaye nalapha, iikati ezininzi zisabela ndlongondlongo. ”