UMary Allen
Ingcamango ephosakeleyo yokuba iikati zingabantu abangabodwa, ngelishwa, iyaqhubeka. Ngapha koko, uninzi lweekati zizilwanyana ezihlala kakhulu ezithanda ukunxibelelana nezinye iikati. Sicacisa iingcamango ezintlanu eziphosakeleyo malunga nokugcina iikati zodwa.
Iikati ziziZodwa ezingqongqo
Kuyinyani ukuba iintlobo ezininzi zeekati zasendle ezifana ne-serval okanye i-ocelot zizilwanyana ezihlambulukileyo ezihlala zodwa. Ukhokho othe ngqo we-velvet paws yethu, ikati efusi, ihleli yodwa. Iikati zethu ezifuywayo zafumana ilifa elikhulu kwizinyanya zazo. Nakuba kunjalo, namhlanje ziphila ngokwahlukileyo kunezilwanyana zasendle. Owona mzekelo ubalaseleyo nguwe njengomnini: Iimpumlo ezininzi zoboya zithanda ukubambana rhoqo “nabo” abantu. Loo nto yayingenakuthethwa ngezalamane zabo ezingalawulekiyo. Kodwa abantu abanakukwazi ukuthatha indawo yokusebenzelana nezinye iikati. Inyaniso yokuba umenza akwazi ukuhlalisana ngoko ke ayiyobhonasi, kodwa iyinxalenye ebalulekileyo yesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo sokutya rhoqo kunye nokumisela ibhokisi yenkunkuma.
Nangona kunjalo, ukunxibelelana nezinye iikati akufanele kube yinto enyanzelekileyo (enenjongo entle)! Ngamanye amaxesha kukwakho nezilwanyana ezizimeleyo ezithanda ukuphepha ukudibana ne-conspecifics. Kwaye nekati enobubele kakhulu ifuna ukuphumla ngamaxesha athile. Ukurhoxa okufanelekileyo ke ngoko kufuneka kuhlale kukho. Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ikati yethu yasekhaya ayisonyani "isilwanyana sepakethe" nayo.
Amantshontsho eKittens Baba ngabantu ngakumbi xa Bemkelwe Ngamnye
Kubathandi bekati, akukho nto imnandi kunekati elincinci. Isigqibo sokufumana ikati ke ngoko senziwa ngokukhawuleza. Abaninzi bakhulisa intshontsho elinye kuba bekholelwa ukuba liya kuba nothando ngakumbi. Noko ke, kudla ngokuba njalo okwahlukileyo. Kuba xa iikati ezincinci ziba nesithukuthezi, zinokuba neengxaki ezinzulu zokuziphatha. Xa amantshontsho eshiya unina eneminyaka esibhozo ukuya kwiiveki ezilishumi elinesibini, ukuhlalisana kwawo kusekude ukuphela. Ngoko ke, kufuneka badibane neekati ezikwintanga yabo, abanokudlala nazo, baxabane, baze bagilane. Iikati zifunda ukuziphatha okubalulekileyo ukuze zikhule zonwabile kwaye zisempilweni.
Ukuba ikati encinci ikhula yodwa kwaye ayikwazi ukuhlangabezana nesidingo sayo sokusebenzisana namakati aneminyaka efanayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba ibonisa iingxaki zokuziphatha endaweni yoko. Mhlawumbi uya kuzama ukuzama imilo edlalwayo ayiqhelisela eneneni noogxa bakhe kubantu bakhe. Oku kubuhlungu kakhulu kwaye kudla ngokutolikwa njengokuziphatha ndlongo. Ngendlela, isilwanyana esikhulileyo sodwa asikho iqabane elifanelekileyo lekati, njengoko kunokufuna ukuphumla ngakumbi.
Iikati ezimbini zenza umsebenzi omninzi kabini
Ukuba ugcina ikati yakho njengekati engaphakathi, uya kufuna umsebenzi omninzi. Ukuzula-zula egadini, ukukhwela emithini, nokuleqa iimpuku - yonke le nto iyashiywa xa kuziwa kwizindlu. Apha kuxhomekeke kuwe ukwenza indawo yokutshintsha ngezithuba zokukrwempa kunye neendlela ezininzi zokudlala. Kodwa ke, awukwazi ukugcina ikati yakho yonwatyiswa imini yonke. Nokuba iikati zilala kakhulu, ziya kuba nesithukuthezi ukuba zihlala zodwa imini yonke. Awunayo ingxaki ngokukhawuleza kwikhaya elineekati ezininzi - iikati zakho zinokudlala kunye nokugonwana kwaye azikho isithukuthezi ngokulula. Ngoko ke akukho mfuneko yokuba ube nesazela esinetyala ukuba, kwiimeko ezizodwa, umyeka ngobusuku obunye – uhlala enokutya namanzi okwaneleyo, kunjalo. Ngoko ke iikati ezimbini kunokuba lula ukuzigcina kunekati enye.
Kodwa ikati yam yonwabile njengekati enye
Ngelishwa, izilwanyana azinakusixelela xa zingenzi kakuhle. Ikati yakho kwindawo yodwa ingabonakala yanelisekile kwaye ikhululekile, ngelixa eneneni, ihlupheka ngokuthula, ihoxisa, kwaye ilala kuphela. Ezinye iziphumo ezinokuthi zivele kamva: ukungacoceki, ukukrwela iphepha lodonga, okanye ukuziphatha kakubi ebantwini. Ukuqhagamshelana nawe okanye esinye isilwanyana esifana nenja asikwazi ukuthatha indawo yokunxibelelana nezinye izinja. Emva kwakho konke, wena okanye inja yakho uthetha ulwimi olwahluke ngokupheleleyo kuneempumlo zoboya. Nangona kunjalo, kukho ngokuqinisekileyo iikati eziziikati ezizimeleyo. Umzekelo, ukuba bebengahlalisana ngokwaneleyo xa bengamantshontsho ekati ngenxa yokuba behlukene nenkunkuma kwangethuba. Nangona unekati endala ehlala yodwa ixesha elide, ukuhlalisana kuyingozi. Ezo zilwanyana maxa wambi zonwaba ngokwazo yaye zifanele zigcinwe ngokwazo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuhlalisana kunokufanelekile ukuzama - ezinye izingwe zendlu zidubula ngokwenyani ngekati yeqabane.
Ikati yam ayivani nezinye iikati
Ikati yakho inokuba nengxaki kunye nekati yommelwane ngexesha elinye okanye kwelinye. Okanye ukhe wazama ukugcina iikati ezimbini kunye kwaye ayizange isebenze. Oku akuthethi ukuba ikati yakho yikati yodwa. Ikati entsha isoloko ibonwa njengomngeneleli kuqala. Ngokukodwa ukuba ugcine ikati yakho yodwa ixesha elide, udinga umonde omkhulu kunye nentlalontle. Uninzi lweekati zithatha ixesha lokuqhelana. Ngoko kuyinto eqhelekileyo ukuba kuvele ingxabano ekuqaleni. Kuphela emva kweenyanga ezintathu uya kuba nakho ukutsho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba iimpumlo zakho zoboya ziyahambelana okanye hayi.
Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuba kukho indawo eyaneleyo yenani leekati enihlala kunye ukuze kuqinisekiswe ukuba intlalontle injengoxinzelelo oluphantsi kangangoko kwaye kukho ixesha elide lokuhlala kunye. Njengomthetho, izilwanyana kufuneka zibe negumbi lokuhlala elinye ubuncinane kwikati nganye - amagumbi amaninzi angcono.
Kwaye nokuba i-socialization ayikasebenzi ngaphandle kwezi meko, oko akukabi bubungqina bokuba isilwanyana sakho sonwabile ngokwaso. Ngenxa yokuba isoloko ixhomekeke kukhetho olufanelekileyo lwekati yesibini: Ingaba ikati yakho ifaneleka ngakumbi kwi-hangover, kwi-agile okanye izolile, kwisilwanyana esilawulayo okanye esoyikisayo, kuxhomekeke ngokupheleleyo kumlingiswa ngamnye wempumlo yoboya.