Ava Williams
Ukuba usapho lunenzala, inja idla ngokucinywa ekubhalisweni. Ukuze iziko langaphambili lingabi nomona ngomntwana, abanini kufuneka baqhelane notshintsho oluzayo ngokukhawuleza. Eyona mpazamo inkulu eyenziwa ngabazali abaza kuba ngabanini bezinja kuxa bejongana nesilwanyana nelungu elitsha losapho ngaphandle kwesilumkiso.
Gcina isikhundla kwipakethi
Ukuhamba ixesha elide kunye neenkosi, ukugoba kunye neenkosikazi ngokuhlwa - izinja zithanda ukuchitha ixesha elininzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka nabantu bazo. Usana luzisa isiphithiphithi esikhulu koko bekukho ubudlelwane obugqibeleleyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba inja ayiluva utshintsho kakhulu, utshilo u-Elke Deininger ovela kwiAcademy for Animal Welfare. “Xa umntwana elapha, kufuneka inja baphathwe kwi ngendlela efanayo nangaphambili,” utsho ugqirha wezilwanyana waseMunich.
Ukuba inja ihlala ivunyelwe ukuba ilale ebhedini, abanini kufuneka baqhubeke beyivumela. Ukongezelela, i-stroking akufanele iyancipha ngokukhawuleza ibe yinto encinci, icebisa ingcali. Kubalulekile ukuba inja isoloko inxulumanisa umntwana nento eyakhayo. Ukuze iqhelane nobukho bayo, unokuvumela inja ukuba ifunxe umntwana ngomzuzu ozolileyo. Okwangoku, abanini banokunika izinja zabo uthando oluninzi ukuze baqinisekise ukuba indawo yabo kwintsapho ayikho emngciphekweni.
Abazali abancinci akufanele benze ngokukhawuleza begxininisekile kwaye bacaphuke phambi kwenja. UDeininger uthi: “Ukuba unina ubambe usana lwakhe ezingalweni zakhe kodwa alume inja kuba emi endleleni, oko kuluphawu olubi kakhulu kweso silwanyana. Inja kufuneka ibekho rhoqo xa abantu bayo benxibelelana nosana. Ukungabandakanyi umhlobo onemilenze emine kwimisebenzi edibeneyo kunye nokunikela ingqalelo yakho kumntwana yeyona ndlela imbi kakhulu. Ngethamsanqa, kukho rhoqo iimeko "zothando ekuqaleni kokubona", apho izinja zingabonisi nto ngaphandle kothando kunye nokunyamekela.
Ukulungiselela umntwana
"Izinja ezithintekayo ngokwemvelo sele ziqaphela ngexesha lokukhulelwa ukuba kukho into ethile," kusho uMartina Pluda ovela kumbutho wentlalontle yezilwanyana ezine Paws. “Kukho izilwanyana eziye zibe nenkathalo ngakumbi kumama oza kuba ngunina. Abanye, kwelinye icala, boyika ukuhluthwa uthando baze maxa wambi benze izinto ezithile ukuze batsale ingqalelo.”
Nabani na olungiselela kwangaphambili imeko entsha kunye nenja kunye nosana uya kuba neengxaki ezimbalwa emva koko. Ukuba kukho abantwana abancinane entsatsheni, inja inokudlala nabo ngokuphindaphindiweyo phantsi kweliso elibukhali ize ngaloo ndlela ikwazi ukuziphatha njengomntwana.
Kwakhona kunengqiqo ukulungiselela inja amavumba amatsha kunye nengxolo. Umzekelo, ukuba udlala ushicilelo lwengxolo yomntwana ngelixa isilwanyana sidlala okanye sifumana unyango, inxulumanisa izandi nento entle kwaye iqhelene nazo ngoko nangoko. Elinye icebiso elilungileyo kukusebenzisa ioyile yomntwana okanye umgubo wosana esikhumbeni sakho amaxesha ngamaxesha. Ngenxa yokuba la mavumba aya kulawula kwiinyanga ezimbalwa zokuqala emva kokuzalwa. Ukuba umntwana sele ezelwe kodwa usesibhedlele, unokuza nempahla egugileyo ekhaya kwaye unike inja ukuba iphunga. Ukuba i-sniffing idibaniswe nokunyanga, inja iya kukhawuleza ibone umntwana njengento enhle.
Kukwacetyiswa ukuba uziqhelanise nokuhamba nenja kunye nestroller phambi kokuba umntwana azalwe. Ngale ndlela, isilwanyana sinokufunda ukuhambahamba ecaleni kwepram ngaphandle kokutsala intambo okanye ukuyeka ukufunxa.
Ukhuseleko lomqondiso
Abantu bahlala besokola ngokugqithisileyo nezinja zabo ithuku elikhuselayo. Nabani na ozama ukusondela kusana ukhonkotha ngokungenalusini. Le asiyompendulo engaqhelekanga kwinja. Izinja ezininzi zinentshukumisa yemvelo yokunyamekela inzala yazo enokuthi idlulisele ebantwini. Kodwa le ngcaphephe ikwanalo necebiso: “Ngokomzekelo, ukuba umhlobo wentsapho ufuna ukumbamba usana ezingalweni, umniniyo unokuhlala ecaleni kwenja aze aluphulule.”
Ukuba inja ikhonkotha undwendwe, oko ikwenza kuba ifuna ukukhusela ipakethe yayo. Kwaye wenza oko kuphela xa ekholelwa ukuba ipakethe yakhe ayikho ukulawula imeko, uchaza umqeqeshi wezinja uSonja Gerberding. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba ufumanisa ukuba abantu bakhe bakhuselekile kwaye bazithembile, ukhululekile. Kodwa abahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo kufuneka banikele ingqalelo kwizinto ezimbalwa. Ukuba inja yayisoloko ibuliswa kuqala, esi sithethe sifanele siqhutyelwe emva kokuzalwa komntwana.
Kodwa nokuba ubudlelwane phakathi kwenja kunye nosana bulungile: awufanelanga wenze isilwanyana ekuphela komgcini womntwana. Abazali okanye umphathi omdala kufuneka abekho ngalo lonke ixesha.