Iikati kunye nezinja ziqhelene njani

Amacandelo amabini:

1. Yazisani inja nekati omnye komnye.
2. Ziqhelanise nezilwanyana.

Ngaba uyafuna ukufumana inja kodwa woyika ukuba ikati yakho ayiyi kuyithanda? Ngaba unayo inja kunye nekati ezihlala zisilwa? Izinja ezininzi kunye neekati azihambisani ekuqaleni, kodwa kukho iindlela zokusebenzisa ezi zibini. Thatha ixesha lakho kwaye ufunde ukuba zifuna ntoni izilwanyana zakho ezimbini kwaye unokwenza inja kunye nekati zihlale ngoxolo kunye.

Yazisani iikati nezinja omnye komnye

Nokuba uzisa ikati entsha okanye inja ekhaya xa enye ikati okanye inja sele ihlala apho, okanye uzama ukufumana izilwanyana zakho zasekhaya esele zikhona ukuze zihambelane ngcono, isiseko esihle siyinto yonke. Qinisekisa ukuba kukho indawo eyaneleyo endlwini yakho ukuvumela izilwanyana ukuba zihlukane nesinye. Kufuneka uzahlule izilwanyana ezimbini ngokwesithuba kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala kwaye ke kufuneka amagumbi amaninzi.
Qinisekisa ukuba inja yakho imamele. Ukuba akunjalo, mnike ikhosi yokuhlaziya ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukuvumela ukudibana kwekati yakho yokuqala kunye nenja yakho kuphele kakubi ngenxa yokuba inja yakho inobukhwele okanye inobudlova.

Ukuba uzisa inja entsha ekhaya okanye injana engekayazi imiyalelo yakho, kufuneka ulumke ngakumbi xa uzisa ikati.

Thatha kancinci. Musa ukuvumela inja ileqe ikati. Ekuqaleni, zigcine zahlukene izilwanyana kwaye ulinde iintsuku ezintathu okanye ezine ngaphambi kokuba uzazise. Izilwanyana zifuna ixesha lokuqhelana kunye namavumba akwikhaya elitsha.

Iikati kunye nezinja kunokwenzeka ukuba zilwe kunye okanye zingonwabi kakhulu ukuba ngequbuliso uzinyanzele ukuba zibe kunye. Bagcine kumagumbi ahlukeneyo ukuze bangabonani de bobabini bazole.

Xuba ivumba lazo zombini izilwanyana ngokuphulula ikati kuqala uze emva koko wenze inja okanye ngokuphambanayo (ngelixa zombini zisekumagumbi ahlukeneyo).

Guqula amagumbi ogcina kuwo izilwanyana. Injongo yoku kukuba wonke umntu athathe ivumba lomnye ngaphandle kokuba esinye isilwanyana sikhona. Amavumba abaluleke kakhulu ukuze izilwanyana zazane. Zicele zombini izilwanyana ziwazi amavumba azo phambi kokuba zihlangane.

Zama ukosula inja yakho phantsi ngetawuli, uze ubeke itawuli phantsi kwesitya sekati yakho. Oku kuya kunceda ikati iqhele kwaye yamkele ivumba lenja.

Vumela inja nekati zinukisene kucango oluvaliweyo. Oku kuya kunceda zombini ukudibanisa ivumba elitsha kunye nesinye isilwanyana ngaphandle kokuba ezimbini zikwazi ukubonana.

Yondla ikati kunye nenja enye kwenye ngocango luvaliwe. Oku kunyanzelisa ukuba zombini zifunxe kwaye zamkele ivumba lomnye.

Lindela de ikati ikhululekile kwaye ilungile ngaphambi kokuba uqalise ezimbini komnye nomnye. Ukuba ikati iyoyika rhoqo xa inja isondela emnyango wegumbi layo, ibaleka, kwaye ifihla, ngoko idinga ixesha elingakumbi. Emva kokuba ikati iqhelane nevumba lenja kunye nengxolo, lixesha lokwazisa ezimbini.

Bamba ikati de izolile kwaye ikhululeke. Emva koko cela ilungu losapho okanye umhlobo ukuba angenise inja eboshiweyo kancinane kwigumbi. Kancinci yiyeke inja isondele kuwe, ilindele ikati kunye nenja ukuba zizole emva kwenyathelo ngalinye ngaphambi kokuthatha elilandelayo. Izilwanyana akufuneki zivunyelwe ukuba ziphathane, ziqhelanise ubukho bomnye nomnye.

• Bamba ikati kuphela ukuba ifuna njalo.
• Nxiba ihempe enemikhono emide ukuze uzikhusele kwimikrwelo.
• Unako kwakhona ukufaka ikati kwi-carrier ukuba ukhokelela inja kuye ngentambo. Oku kuqinisekisa ukuba bobabini abayi kubambana xa beqala ukudibana.

Bonisa imfuyo yakho umlinganiselo ofanayo wothando. Izilwanyana, njengabantu, ziba nomona xa “intshontsho elitsha” lifumana ingqalelo engakumbi. Zibonise zombini izilwanyana ukuba uyazithanda kwaye awusoyiki esinye isilwanyana.

Yahlula izilwanyana zakho kwakhona. Musa ukumnyanzela ukuba nihlale kunye ixesha elide, njengoko oku kuya kunidina nobabini kwaye kunokukhokelela kuxinzelelo. Qinisekisa ukuba ukudibana kokuqala kuhamba kakuhle kwaye kugcine kufutshane kwaye kumnandi.

• Ngokuthe ngcembe zandisa ezi ntlanganiso

Qhubeka uzisa inja yakho kunye nekati kunye de zombini zikhululeke kubukho bomnye. Nje ukuba ikati ikhululeke ngokwaneleyo, mvumele azulazule ngokukhululekileyo kwigumbi ngelixa ugcina inja ibotshiwe. Emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, inja yakho kufuneka isetyenziselwe ukungaxoshi ikati kwaye unokumyeka aphume kwi-leash.

Ungasebenzisa iipheromones, oya kumiselwa ngugqirha wakho wezilwanyana, ukunceda izilwanyana zombini zihlale zizolile kwaye zikhululekile. Buza ugqirha wakho wezilwanyana ukuba iihomoni zokwenziwa zinceda izilwanyana ukuba ziqhelane.

Ziqhelanise nezilwanyana

Yahlula izilwanyana xa ungekho ekhaya. Kufuneka uyigcine le nto ixeshana ukuze aba babini bangalimazani.

Phazamisa inja yakho ukuba iziphatha kakubi kwikati. Oku kuquka imidlalo yasendle kunye nokukhonkotha. Esikhundleni sokuvumela inja yakho ukuba igxile kwikati, nika inja yakho ezinye izinto okanye uzisebenzise.

Musa ukuyithethisa inja yakho kule meko. Hlala unethemba kwaye inja iya kuba nonxibelelwano oluhle kunye nekati kwixesha elizayo.

Vuza kwaye udumise inja yakho xa iziphatha kakuhle malunga nekati. Oku kuquka ukuziphatha kakuhle okanye ukungahoyi ikati. Inja yakho kufuneka yonwabele ikati ingena egumbini kwaye ibaphathe ngobubele, ingabi ndlongondlongo okanye ibenze nzima kakhulu.

Thetha into enje, “Owu, jonga, ikati ilapha! Hola!” kwaye ndivakala ukuba ndonwabile. Ngale ndlela, inja yakho ifunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba neemvakalelo ezimnandi kwikati.

Nika ikati isithuba esivumela ukuba iphephe inja. Ipali yokukrwela okanye isango lomnyango kwelinye igumbi, nantoni na evumela ikati yakho ukuba ibaleke. Iikati ngokubanzi ziya kuhlasela inja kuphela xa zifakwe ekoneni kungekho ndlela yokuphuma.

Yiba ngqiqo. Ukuba inja yakho okanye ikati ayizange ihlale nesinye isilwanyana, akukho ndlela ekwazi ngayo ukusingatha imeko. Ude uzise ezi zimbini, awuyi kukwazi ukuba inja yakho ibona ikati njengento yokudlala, ixhoba, okanye into engaqhelekanga, kwaye awuyi kukwazi ukuba ikati yakho ibona inja njengento engaqhelekanga okanye isoyikiso. Kuya kufuneka uqonde ukuba ukuqhelana kwezi zibini kuya kuba yinkqubo ende.

Tips

• Musa ukuzama ukuthanda isilwanyana esinye. Ngamanye amaxesha amakhwele abangela imilo. Ukuba inja ibona ukuba ikati ifumana ingqalelo engakumbi kunayo, inokusabela kakubi.
• Kuyanceda ukwazisa izilwanyana enye kwenye zisencinci. Izilwanyana eziselula ziqhelana nesinye isilwanyana ngokukhawuleza. Nangona kunjalo, ngamanye amaxesha injana ayiwazi amandla ayo kwaye iyakuthanda ukudlala, ngoko ke ikati inokulimala ngengozi.

isilumkiso

Musa ukushiya imfuyo yakho yodwa ekhaya kunye de iqhelane. Awufuni ukubeka emngciphekweni nokuba wonzakala xa ungekho. Kulula kwaye kukhuseleke ngakumbi ukutshixa izilwanyana zombini kumagumbi ahlukeneyo ngelixa ukude nekhaya.