UMary Allen
Ngaba unamava amancinci okanye awunawo kwaphela ngokuzoba, kodwa ungathanda ukuqalisa? Ngaba ujonge ulwazi olusisiseko malunga nomzobo kunye nokupeyinta kwaye uyazibuza ukuba abanye balawula njani ukubeka iimotifs ezintle kangaka ephepheni? Akukho ngxaki: Kwiingcebiso zam zabaqalayo, ndiza kuchaza indlela yokuba nobuchule ngakumbi ngepeni.
Awukhathali nokuba bazoba yintoni na abanye abantu. Unguwe kwaye yinto entle leyo, kwaye yiyo loo nto uzoba into oyifunayo. Umthi ononomatse, isitya seziqhamo esizele ziziqhamo, ilifu elifana nendlulamthi, okanye ummelwane wakho oze – akukho nto kwaye akukho mntu uya kukhuseleka kuwe. Hlala phantsi kwaye uqalise. Zoba nantoni na oyivayo. Yenza imizobo embalwa ekhawulezayo, kwaye ungagwebi umgangatho wayo ngokuchasene neminye imifanekiso. Sukuthelekisa nemisebenzi yobugcisa efumaneka kwi-Intanethi. Imifanekiso yabanye abantu ihlala ingcono. Ngalo lonke ixesha! Kufana nentengiso: Into oyifumanayo kumajelo eendaba ihlala ikhangeleka ingcono kunento oyidalayo. Kodwa, uyazi ntoni? Ayinamsebenzi! Into ebalulekileyo kukuba upeyinte le nto uvakalelwa kukuba uyenzile. Masihambe! Ukuzoba kwanele ngoku. Ubakhathalele ngantoni abanye? Zoba into oyifunayo kunye nento oyithandayo.
Ukuba umtsha ekuzobeni, ndincoma ukuba uziqhelanise nezinto ezilula ukuqala ngazo. Uqala ngokurhabaxa kwaye uqhubeke uphucula. Kufuneka uqale ufunde ukuhamba phambi kokuba uhambe uhambo lokuya kubhaqa. Ngoko ngaphambi kokuba uthabathe uhambo oluya kumajiko-jiko entabeni, uqale ufunde ukuzoba izangqa, imigca nezikwere. Ayingomdlalo lo. Zoba amanani ejometri. Iicones kunye neengqukuva ezidibanayo. Lo ngumsebenzi omhle ukuqala ngawo. Ngeentelekelelo ezininzi, zikwakhokelela kudederhu lweentaba apho ungashukuma khona emva koko. Ngoko ke zoba iingqukuva, iipoligoni, kunye neecones. Zive ukhululekile ukuvumela ezi zinto ziwelane kwaye zenze uluhlu lweentaba zodwa. Hatch kwiindawo ezimnyama kwaye ulinge njengoko umbono wakho uyalela. Qala ngemfundo yamabanga aphantsi, funda ukuhamba, kwaye uthe chu ukuya ezintabeni kunye nomzobo wendalo.
Jonga ingqukuva: Ingqukuva ngokwenene sisisangqa esijongeka macala-ntathu ngenxa yokukhanya nesithunzi. Ngoko ke zoba isangqa kwaye uqandusele elinye icala elimnyama kunelinye. Voila! Ibhola ilungile.