UMary Allen
Wonke umntu uyazi ukukhwela konyango-njengezinja zonyango okanye ihlengesi lokudada. Izilwanyana ezininzi zinobuchule obunokusinceda siphile kwakhona. Kodwa ngaba iikati zingayenza loo nto nazo?
“Ewe, banako,” utsho uChristiane Schimmel. Ngeekati zakhe uAzrael, uDarwin, kunye noBalduin, ubonelela ngonyango lwekati kwiikliniki zokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo nakumakhaya abongikazi. Kodwa ikhangeleka njani loo nto? "Unyango lwenziwa ngokwenene ziikati," utshilo uSchimmel kudliwanondlebe kunye nengcali yaseDeineTierwelt uChristina Wolf. Andiyonyanga, iikati zithatha indawo.
Iindlela zakhe zonyango ngokuyintloko zimalunga nezinto ezimbini: “Kukuba abantu bavuleleke okanye bakhumbule into entle,” utsho uSchimmel. Enyanisweni, ukudlala nje nekati kunokukhokelela kubantwana abaneengxaki zengqondo ukuba bazolile, kwaye abahlali abanesifo sengqondo esiyingozi kumakhaya ahlala phantsi banokukhumbula iziganeko zexesha elidlulileyo ngokusebenzisana neekiti. Izigulana zestrowuku kwi-rehab nazo zinokuncedwa ngokufuya iikati.
Ingcamango emva konyango oluncediswa zizilwanyana: izilwanyana ziyasamkela njengoko sinjalo ngokwenene. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba impilo, isimo sentlalo, okanye inkangeleko - kwaye ngaloo ndlela usinike imvakalelo yokwamkelwa nokuqondwa.
Ngubani Onokunyanga Izilwanyana?
Yaye oko kunokuba nemiphumo emihle kuthi bantu. Unyango oluncediswa zizilwanyana lunokuthi, umzekelo, luvuselele iimvakalelo ezintle, lukhanyise umoya, luphucule izakhono zentlalo kunye nokunxibelelana, lubonise ukuzithemba, nisombulule uloyiko kunye nokunciphisa iimvakalelo ezifana nesithukuthezi, ukungazithembi, umsindo kunye nosizi, wabhala "iZiko loNyango laseOxford. ”, iklinikhi yaseMelika yokuhlaziya, amahashe asetyenziselwa iinjongo zonyango.
Kwaye abantu abanemifanekiso eyahlukeneyo yeklinikhi banokuzuza kule nto - umzekelo, abantu abanesifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo, ukuxhalaba okanye ukuphazamiseka emva kokuphazamiseka, kunye nezifo zentliziyo.