UMary Allen
Izilwanyana zilungele impilo yengqondo neyomzimba yabantu - oku kungqinwe ngokwenzululwazi. Iikati zonyango zinceda amaqabane azo ukuba anyange abantu abagula ngengqondo okanye akhusele abantu abadala kumakhaya abalupheleyo kubulolo. Funda ngezantsi ukuba oku kusebenza njani.
Kukho okukhethekileyo kunyango lwengqondo yomntu olubizwa ngokuba “lunyango loncedo lwezilwanyana”. Iintlobo ngeentlobo zezilwanyana zinceda iinkosi zabo kunye neenkosi zabo kunyango lwezigulana zabo ezinengxaki yokuxhalaba, ukudakumba, i-autism, okanye isifo sengqondo esixhalabisayo.
Izinja zonyango zihlala zisetyenziswa, kodwa idolphin okanye unyango lokukhwela kunye Amahashe ikwaqinisekisa ukuba aba bantu babangcono ngokukhawuleza. Iikati zonyango azikho ngaphantsi kwezilwanyana zazo.
Yeyiphi imisebenzi yeekati zoNyango?
Iikati zonyango zihlala kwi-psychotherapist okanye zihamba nazo xa zityelela izigulana. Akukho mfuneko yokuba wenze nayiphi na imisebenzi ekhethekileyo ukunceda izigulana. Kwanele ukuba bekhona kwaye baziphathe ngokuqhelekileyo, njengayo nayiphi na enye ikati. Bona bazigqibe ngokwabo into abaziva befuna ukuyenza. Iikati zonyango, umzekelo, zisondela kwizigulana ezitsha ngokuthanda ukwazi kwaye zizifunxe ngononophelo.
Abakhethi buso yaye ababagwebi abantu. Oku kunesiphumo sokuthomalalisa kwaye kunokunceda ukunciphisa uloyiko okanye iinkxalabo malunga nemeko yonyango okanye i-psychotherapist. Oku kwenza ukuba unyango lube lula kakhulu.
Ngaba yonke iPaw yeVelvet ingaba yikati yoNyango?
Ngokomgaqo, nayiphi na impumlo yoboya ingaba yikati yonyango. Nangona kunjalo, akucebisi kakhulu ukuzisa amahlosi aneengxaki zokuziphatha kunye nabantu ongabaziyo, kuba ezi kati zifuna kuqala. uncedo oluvela kwisazi sengqondo sekati. Ikati yonyango akufanelekanga ukuba yoyike iindwendwe kwaye ijolise kubantu ngokufanelekileyo. Ukuba i-velvet-pawed therapist ayincedi nje kuphela kwi-practice kodwa ibuye ihambe nokutyelela ekhaya, kubalulekile ukuba iyakunandipha ukuqhuba kwaye ngokukhawuleza azive esekhaya kwiindawo zasemzini.
Iikati kufuneka zibe sempilweni kwaye zigonywe ukuze izigulane zingabinakho ukosuleleka izifo ukusuka kubo. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu kubantu abadala kunye nabantu abakhubazekileyo. Kule meko, ukuba ube kwicala elikhuselekileyo, kucetyiswa ukuba ungabikho Ibarf ikati, oko kukuthi ukuyityisa inyama ekrwada. Kwaneyona ntsholongwane incinci inokuba yingozi kubantu abakhubazekileyo.
Iikati zonyango zihlala zivela ikhuselo lezilwanyana. Iyakwazi nokuba yi-velveted paws kunye nokukhubazeka, umzekelo, ubumfama. Ngoko ke iikati azinalo kuphela ikhaya elinothando kunye nomsebenzi obalulekileyo, kodwa zisebenza njengomzekelo kwizigulane zabantu. Ukusebenzisa izilwanyana njengomzekelo, abantu banokubona ukuba uloyiko, iziphene, kunye namava abuhlungu anokoyiswa.
Le yindlela iikati zonyango ezinceda ngayo abantu abadala
Abantu abadala abakumakhaya abadla umhlala-phantsi bahlala bengamalolo, baphathwa zizigulo ezahlukahlukeneyo zomzimba okanye ukuphambana kwengqondo. Iikati zonyango zinokunceda ukunciphisa ezi ngxaki zempilo. Ubukho babo bubodwa buzisa iindidi kunye nobomi kubomi bemihla ngemihla babantu abadala. Ukutyelelwa kwezilwanyana kukulibala isithukuthezi, kukuvuyisa kwaye ukhululeke.
Eminye imiphumo emihle yonyango oluncediswa sisilwanyana neekati:
● Uxinzelelo lwegazi oluphezulu luyehla
● Ukubetha kwentliziyo kuyehla
● Amadlala oxinezeleko egazini ayancipha
● Amanqanaba e-cholesterol ayancipha
Unyango loNcedo lwezilwanyana kubantu abanesifo sengqondo
Iikati zonyango zisabela ngokuthe ngqo kwindlela yokuziphatha komntu kwaye zinxibelelana nabo ngale ndlela - ngokunyaniseka, ngokunyanisekileyo, kwaye ngaphandle kweenjongo ezifihlakeleyo. Ekuhambeni kwexesha, ubudlelwane be Ukuthembana kuyakhula phakathi kwesilwanyana nesigulana. Ikati inokufunjathiswa, i-purrs, mhlawumbi ize izokugoqa emathangeni akho.
Oku kukhuthaza uvelwano, ukuzola, kwaye kunceda ukugxila kulo mzuzu. Ngaphezu koko, iimpumlo zoboya zibonelela ngesihloko sencoko, ukwenzela ukuba iintloni zesigulana kumnyangi womntu ziyancipha. Ukwamkelwa kwekati kunye nothando olungenamkhethe lukwayinto epholileyo kwimvakalelo eqhekekileyo yokuzithemba.
Ngale ndlela, iikati zonyango zinceda izigulana ezinezigulo zengqondo zilandelayo, umzekelo:
● Uxinezeleko
● Izigulo Zokuxhalaba
● Uxinezeleko Olusemva Kokwenzakala
Unyango lwekati lwabantwana abaneAutism
Unyango lwezilwanyana aluncedi kuphela abantu abadala, kodwa abantwana ngokunjalo. Abantwana abane-autism baxhamla ngokukodwa kunyango kunye namaqabane ezilwanyana. I-Autism iza kwiinkalo ezininzi ezahlukeneyo kunye namazinga obunzima, kodwa kukho izinto ezimbalwa eziqhelekileyo:
● Ubunzima bonxibelelwano phakathi kwabantu
● Ubunzima bokucinga ngokungekho ngqiqweni (iingxelo zidla ngokuthathwa ngokoqobo)
● Ubunzima bokutolika iimvakalelo zabanye abantu
Iikati zonyango zamkela izigulana zabo ezincinci zabantu ukuba zingubani. Abasebenzisi isigqebelo, akukho ngqiqweni kunxibelelwano, kwaye basoloko benika ingxelo ngokuthe ngqo ngokuziphatha komlingane wabo. Ubunzima obuvela kubantwana be-autistic ekunxibelelaneni komntu nomntu abuveli xa bedibana nezilwanyana. Oku kunceda abantwana bavuleleke kwaye babaqonde ngcono abantu abangoowethu.