UMary Allen
Ngaba injana yakho iyakhula kwaye iyatshintsha?
Mhlawumbi nawe uyazibuza xa injana yakho ingasekho injana.
Ngoko uzibuze umbuzo odlala indima enkulu ekuqeqesheni inja.
Eli nqaku lichaza ukuba inja yakho iyinja engakanani kwaye yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu ngeli xesha.
Yonwaba ngelixa ufunda!
Ngamafutshane: Inja yinjana ixesha elingakanani?
Ixesha elingakanani inja injana kwakhona kuxhomekeke kuhlobo kunye nesimo sayo. Iintlobo zeenja ezinkulu ngokukodwa zithatha ixesha elide ukukhula ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo. Ngabo, ixesha lenjana lidla ngokuphela emva kwexesha elincinci kuneentlobo ezincinci.
Kwiminyaka ephakathi kwe-16 kunye ne-18 yeeveki, nangona kunjalo, umntu ngokuqhelekileyo akasathethi ngenjana, kodwa uthetha ngenja encinci.
Nangona injana, kunengqiqo ukusebenza ngothando kwaye ngokungaguqukiyo ekuziphatheni okulungileyo. Uya kufumana iingcebiso ezininzi eziluncedo koku kwibhayibhile yethu yoqeqesho lwenja.
Ixesha lenjana liphela nini kwaye kwenzeka ntoni emva koko?
Isigaba esibizwa ngokuba yi-juvenile phase siqala malunga nexesha ukusuka kwinyanga yesihlanu yobomi, injana iba yinja encinci. Oku akwenzeki ngesiquphe ngobusuku nje obunye, kodwa yinkqubo yophuhliso. Inzala yenja yakho nayo idlala indima. I-predisposition yomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine nayo ibalulekile.
Izigaba zobudala zinokucalulwa ngolu hlobo lulandelayo:
ukuya kuthi ga kwimax. Iiveki ezili-18 - ixesha lenjana
Ukusukela kwiiveki ezili-16 – kwisigaba solutsha/uphuhliso ukuya kwinja encinane
Ukususela kwiinyanga ezi-7 - ukufikisa
Ukususela kwiinyanga ezili-12 - inja endala
Ngeveki ye-18 yobomi ngokuqhelekileyo uthetha ngenja encinci.
Olu phuhliso luhlala luhamba kunye nokutshintsha kwamazinyo. Inja yakho ngoku ayiyi kukhula ngokukhawuleza njengeenyanga zokuqala zobomi.
Kutheni le nto isigaba senjana sibaluleke kakhulu?
Xa uyinjana, uninzi lweziseko zokuziphatha kwenja yakho kamva zibekiwe.
Kubalulekile ukuba injana yakho iqhelane nezinto ezahlukeneyo ngendlela eyakhayo, okt ngaphandle koxinzelelo. Ngomfuyi olungileyo, uqhelana nabanye abantu kunye nezilwanyana kwangethuba, kunye nezixhobo zasekhaya kunye nezinto zokudlala ezahlukeneyo. Oku kuya kulungiselela inja yakho kubomi bayo bexesha elizayo.
Le ntlalontle kufuneka iqhubeke nasemva kokufudukela kwikhaya elitsha.
Ukususela kwiveki yesibhozo yobomi, injana idla ngokufudukela kwintsapho yayo entsha. Ngeli xesha ukwinqanaba lentlalontle.
Kufuneka usebenzise esi sigaba ukwenza injana yakho iqhele izinto ezininzi.
Ngeli xesha, inja yakho ifunda ngokulula nangokudlalayo, ngoko ke into oyifundileyo idityaniswe kakuhle. Ngenkxaso elungileyo uya kunceda injana yakho iziphathe kakuhle phakathi kwabantu kunye nezinye izinja.
Ngale ndlela, unokuphuhlisa izakhono zokulawula iimpembelelo zakhe, ukunyamezela ukukhungatheka kunye nokuphulaphula.
Ndingawuxhasa njani unjana ngeli xesha?
I-socialization ayipheli nakwikhaya lakho. Injana yakho kuya kufuneka iqhelane nekhaya layo elitsha kunye nabantu abatsha kuqala. Emva koko unokuhamba naye kwiindawo ezahlukeneyo ezifana neepaki, iindawo zokutyela okanye izitrato zokuthenga.
Kubalulekile ukuba inja yakho ifunde ukuba kukho izinto ezininzi ezahlukeneyo, kodwa ungazoyiki. Ngenxa yokuba iingxaki ezininzi zokuziphatha ezenzeka ngexesha lenja zibangelwa luloyiko. Ukuba udibanisa inja yakho ngaphandle koxinzelelo, unokulususa olu loyiko.
Ukuba sele uzise injana yakho ekhayeni lakho ineeveki ezisibhozo ubudala, luluvo oluhle ukutyelela iqela lokudlala lenjana. Ngenxa yokuba ngezinye izinto ezicacileyo, inja yakho inokuqeqesha inhibition yayo yokuluma, ifunde ukuba kunye ngendlela ekhululekile kwaye ngaloo ndlela ifumane indawo yayo kuluntu lwe-canine.
Ukuba injana yakho ibikunye nonina kunye nabantakwayo ixesha elide, ifumene la mava okufunda apho.
Icebiso:
Ngononophelo sebenzisa ixesha lenja ukuze usebenze kunye nenja yakho ekwakheni amabhondi kunye nemithetho yokuhlala kunye, ngoko udala isiseko sophuhliso oluhle.
Inja xa ibalwa njengenja encinci?
Ngaphambi kokuba inja yakho ikhule ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, ihamba ngeendlela ezininzi zophuhliso apho iqhubeka nokufunda.
Ukutshintsha kwamazinyo kubonisa ukuphela kobunjana kwinja yakho. Oku ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukusuka kwiinyanga ezine ukuya kwezintlanu.
Ukusukela ngeli xesha ukuya phambili, amanye amahomoni anefuthe elibukhali ngakumbi kwinja yakho kwaye ingqondo yakhe ngokuthe ngcembe iba “yindawo enkulu yokwakha”. Inja yakho iyaqhubeka izama kwaye ijonge imida.
Ukuba inja yakho ayizange ishiye icala lakho ekuhambeni ukuya kuthi ga ngoku, ngoku iya kuqala ukuhlola indawo engqongileyo ngokuzimeleyo.
Xa injana izolile?
Izinja eziselula ngokukodwa zibonakala zinamandla angenasiphelo. Kukho ukuzulazula endlwini, ukukrazula iithoyi kunye nokutsala ingqalelo ngokukhonkotha okanye ukuncwina.
“Zolile” kunye “nenjana”, la magama mabini akholisa ukuhamba kunye kuphela xa amehlo enja esencinci evaleleka. Kodwa emva kwayo yonke loo nto, injana ilala malunga neeyure ezili-18 ngosuku. Phakathi kukho amava kunye nokufunda.
Nakwinqanaba lenja encinci, izinja ezininzi zisenamandla amaninzi. Umoya, nangona kunjalo, kwakhona uxhomekeke kakhulu kwinzala. I-Cocker Spaniel okanye i-Basset Hound mhlawumbi iya kuba izolile ngaphezu kweJack Russell Terrier nangona kule minyaka.
Nokuba kuxhomekeke kakhulu kuhlobo ukuba angakanani amandla injana yakho inawo, izinja ezincinci ziyimiqulu yamandla ecocekileyo. Noko ke, ukususela kwiminyaka emalunga nonyaka omnye, inqanaba lamandla liye lehla kumntu wonke.
Kuhle ukwazi:
Ukurompiza kunye nokudlala kubalulekile kwizinja ezincinci. Nangona kunjalo, ukuziphatha ngokugqithisileyo kunokuba luphawu lokuba "imida yabazali" ayikho.
isiphelo
Ixesha lenjana lifutshane kakhulu. Kwiiveki ezimbalwa emva kokuba injana yakho ifudukele kuwe, esi sigaba sinobuthathaka sele siphelile.
Ukukhula kwenja yakho kuthatha ixesha kunye nenkxaso yakho. Ngokukhuliswa kakuhle, udala isiseko esizinzileyo soku. Kuya kufuneka ke ngoko usebenzise eli xesha ngononophelo ukuze ulungiselele inja yakho kangangoko kunokwenzeka kuyo yonke impilo yakhe kwaye ke ubomi benu kunye.
Ngoqeqesho olungenaxinzelelo kunye nenjana kunye nezinye iingcebiso zokuhlalisana, ndwendwela ibhayibhile yethu yoqeqesho lwenja.