UMary Allen
Nokuba yeyiphi i-portal yokuthandana okuyo, kungekudala okanye kamva uya kuthatyathwa kwiifoto zabantu abanokuba ngabalingane abathandanayo kunye nezilwanyana zasekhaya. Ngokukodwa ethandwa: izinja. Kodwa iikati nazo ziwela kwiprofayili enye okanye enye. Kodwa ngaba izilwanyana ziyanceda ekufumaneni iqabane?
Umhla oyimpumelelo kunye nenja - obu buchule bubonakala busetyenziswa ikakhulu ngamadoda. Kwii-portals zokuthandana, nabo bathanda ukuzibonakalisa kunye nabahlobo abanemilenze emine kwiifoto zabo. Ayinamsebenzi nokuba yeyakho okanye yomnye umntu. Kukho negama elahlukileyo kule nto: "Ukuloba izinja".
Oku kubonakala kuyimpumelelo: amadoda anezinja athathwa ngokuba anenkathalo. Kwabaninzi, indlela amadoda aphatha ngayo izilwanyana ngokucacileyo luphawu olubalulekileyo lweempawu zabo njengamaqabane anokwenzeka.
Ayizizo Zonke Izilwanyana ezikulungeleyo Ukuthandana
Ke, lilonke, ngaba kufanelekile ukuquka izilwanyana kwi-intanethi yakho ukuthandana profile? Ngezinja, ewe, kodwa kungekhona ngeekati. Ii-polls ezimbini ezahlukeneyo zibonisa ukuba abanini beekati banamakhadi ambalwa alungileyo xa kuziwa kwi-intanethi.
Indoda efanayo yabonakala inomdla ngakumbi kubafazi abaninzi xa yazibonakalisa ngaphandle kwekati kunokuba ikati yayisesithombeni. Isizathu: Abathathi-nxaxheba baqaphela ukuba amadoda aneekati angenabudoda kwaye bawalinganisela ukuba anemithambo-luvo ngakumbi. Kodwa kwakukho imibutho emininzi emihle: babekholelwa ukuba abanini beekati baya kwamkeleka ngakumbi ekuhlaleni kwaye bavule ingqondo.
Kukho iziphene ngokoqobo kuphononongo. Ngenxa yokuba ukuvavanya "ukufumaneka kwedatha", abathathi-nxaxheba baboniswa kuphela iindidi ezimbini, nganye kunye nangaphandle kwekati. Zombini zineminyaka efanayo, zimhlophe kwaye zinxibe ngeendlela ezifanayo. Ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka ukuba amadoda, ngokubanzi, akazange ahambelane nohlobo lwabaphenduli. Ngoko ke, kuhlelo lwesibini, ababhali bafuna ukubonelela amadoda ahlukeneyo "anokukhetha kuwo".
Iikati ziluncedo ngakumbi xa ukhangela i-Gay Partner
Impembelelo embi yeekati nayo yaboniswa ngokuhlolwa kwendawo yokuthandana "Match". "Amantombazana akafuni inkwenkwe enekati," ingcali yokuthandana ephezulu uRachel DeAlto uthe kwisishwankathelo seWall Street Journal. Abanini bekati abangamadoda baqokelela ngokwe-avareji ezintlanu zeepesenti ezimbalwa ezithandwayo kwindawo kunabanye abantu abathandana nesini esahlukileyo. Kumabhinqa athandana nesini esahlukileyo aneekati, eli zinga lingaphantsi nangeepesenti ezisixhenxe kunamanye amabhinqa.
Yiloo nto yokuthandana kwabantu besini esingafaniyo. Kwelinye icala, kumadoda angama-gay, iikati zingaba lixilongo kwihlabathi lokuthandana. Uhlalutyo lukaMatcha lukwabonisa ukuba xa amafanasini ebonisa iikati zawo, umyinge wenani lokuthandwa lonyuka ngeepesenti ezintlanu.
Ukuba Ufuna Ukuba Sithandwa Sam Udinga Inja
Nangona kunjalo, njengomhlobo wokuthandana, inja iphumelele. Ngokutsho kwephephancwadi elithi "Chron", ukukwazi oku kumadoda - zombini i-gay kunye ne-heterosexual - inyuka ngomyinge wama-20 ekhulwini ukuba inja inja. Ibhonasi yezinja ingaphantsi kancinane kwabasetyhini: inja ibanika umyinge wepesenti ezintathu kuphela.
Oku kusixelela kona: Amadoda athandana nesini esahlukileyo akabonakali engakhathali kakhulu malunga nokuba amaqabane awo athanda inja. Kukho ezinye iintsingiselo ezibalulekileyo...