UMary Allen
Enkulu okanye encinci, zonke izinja zinokuqhela ukutsibela abantu, abaziwayo nabangaziwa. Kodwa kukho izicombululo. Ezinye izinja zifunda ngokukhawuleza, ezinye zifuna ixesha elingakumbi.
Zama isandla sakho kwiingcebiso zethu!
1) Yenza ngexesha
Uyayazi inja yakho. Uyayazi ukuba ijongeka njani, ishukuma njani, okwesibini phambi kokuba ingxamele phambili kwaye ixhume. Oku kuxa kufuneka wenze xa inja icinga kodwa ingenaxesha lokwenza njalo. Beka ingalo phambi kwesifuba senja kunye nemilenze yangaphambili, nyathela ngaphambili, jika, ibhuleki ngelizwi kunye nomzimba. Imfihlelo kukufunda iimpawu zenja. Akukho nja inokufihla imiqondiso eyixelela ukuba yenze kwimizuzwana nje into eceba ukuyenza ngoku. Funda inja ukuze uyeke ngaphambi kokuba yenzeke.
2) Thetha nabantu
Thetha nabo bonke abantu onokuthi udibane nenja. Abo bafika ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva ukutyelela, ngokuqinisekileyo, kodwa nabamelwane, unoposi, abantwana esitratweni, ewe baninzi kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Into oyithethayo kubo kukuba:
“Ekuphela kwendlela yokwenza inja yam iyeke ukutsiba kukuba ungayijongi nokuyibona. Akukho ngqalelo kwaphela. Yenza ngathi inja yam ayikho. Olona phawu luncinci luvela kuwe lunokubangela ithemba. Ndincede ndisuse ingxaki! ”
Kanye ukuba, okukhona umntu ozayo enika ingqwalasela enganeno kwinja, kokukhona inja iya isiba nomdla wokwenza oku, “Ndikho, ndithande-ndinethemba”.
3) Wafa
Yiba nento ekufutshane enokuphazamisa inja. I-Candy kunjalo kodwa kunye nento yokudlala, itshungama, okanye enye into oyaziyo ukuba inja yakho iyayithanda. Ukuba wenza ngexesha kwaye unciphise inja, unokuphazamisa ngokukhawuleza / ukuvuza ngento enqwenelekayo. Emva koko inja ifunda ngokukhawuleza ukuba iyancedakala ngokuphazamisa ingcamango yethemba.
4) Enye ayikho yonke
Ekuqaleni, kufuneka usebenze ngendlela efanayo ngalo lonke ixesha xa inja izimisele ukutsiba umntu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ngubani na. Ngaphandle koko, fundisa nje inja ukuba ingatsibi kubantu abathile. Kodwa xa wenze into efanayo nabantu abaninzi abahlukeneyo, ulwazi luhlala, ke inja iyaqonda ukuba loo mgaqo usebenza kuwo wonke umntu.
Owona msebenzi wakho unzima kukuba ungaguquguquki ukusuka ngoku ukuya phambili. Ukutsiba kusoloko kungalunganga. Ngaphandle koko, inja ifunda ukuba akuvumelekanga ngamanye amaxesha kodwa kulungile ngoku kwaye emva koko.