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“Nceda, Inja yam iyazingela”: Yintoni onokuyicebisa abanini

Indlela yokuziphatha yokuzingela yinxalenye yesiqhelo sokuziphatha kwezinja. Iba yingxaki ngakumbi kwaye ibe yingozi xa zileqa umdlalo okanye ezinye izinja, iimbaleki, iimoto, kunye neebhayisekile.

Xa uzingela, ulandelelwano olwahlukeneyo lunokwahlulwa, oluthe kratya okanye lungabizi kakhulu: ukukhangela, ukukhangela, ukulungisa, ukusukela, ukunyathela, ukungxama, ukupakisha, ukubulala/ukungcangcazela. Ngamanye amaxesha ukuthutha ixhoba kwindawo ekhuselekileyo okanye ukuyidla kubalwa njengenxalenye yokuziphatha kokuzingela.

Indlela yokuziphatha yokuzingela yindlela yokuzihlaziya. Ukukhwela kunye / okanye ukungxama kunokuba nomvuzo kwinja kangangokuba iya kwenza ukuziphatha rhoqo kwixesha elizayo ukuba inikwe ithuba. Indlela yokuziphatha yokuzingela kunzima kakhulu ukuyeka xa sele isunguliwe. Ngezinja ezilusayo, kuhlala kukho ukuguqulwa kwendlela yokuziphatha yokuzingela kugxininise ekuchwechweni, ukungxama, kwaye mhlawumbi kwakhona ukuhlutha amalungu (ukuziphatha kokwalusa).

Thatha amanyathelo okuthintela kwangoko!

Eyona ndlela ingcono yokuyeka ukuziphatha kokuzingela okungafunekiyo kukuthintela kwasekuqaleni. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukusebenza ngokuthe gqolo kwezi ngcebiso zilandelayo kuphawu lokuqala lokuzingela:

  • Ukwalathisa kwezinye iindlela zokuziphatha (kuxhomekeke kwinto ekhethwa yinja, umz. ukulanda, impumlo kunye nomsebenzi womkhondo, ukuphapha, njl. njl.).
  • Inja kufuneka inyanzeliswe ukuba icinge ngezinye iindlela zokuziphatha ukuze ingangeni kwindawo ephezulu yokuvusa. Oku kukwanqanda ukuziphatha okukhobokisayo okunokwenzeka malunga neethoyi, umz.
  • Ukuthintela ngokuqhubekayo nayiphi na impumelelo yokuzingela (kubandakanywa nokukhawuleza okucocekileyo) ukuze inja ingaqhubeki ukufunda ukuzingela. Ulawulo olupheleleyo kufuneka lwenziwe kuphawu lokuqala (umz. ngokufaka intambo).
  • Chonga ezo zichukumisi ngokuchanekileyo (umz. ababalekayo, abakhweli beebhayisikile, njl.njl.). Ukuphepha izinto ezibangela ukuba kubekho ukuphikisana okwaneleyo okanye ukuhanjiswa kwakhona kwenzeka.
  • Sebenza kwi-counterconditioning kwinto ebangela ukuziphatha kokuzingela.
  • Qinisekisa ukuba inja yakho iyasebenza ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo ngokubanzi.
  • Uqeqesho lokulawula impembelelo.

Xa abantwana behlala ekhaya

Abantwana nezinja akufuneki zishiywe kunye zingajongwanga! Izikhalo kunye nokuphazamiseka, iintshukumo ezihlala zingalindelekanga zabantwana zinokubangela ukuziphatha kokuzingela ezinjeni. Ngokukodwa xa umntwana ewela kwimeko enjalo, inokukhawuleza ibe yingxaki enkulu, njengoko ulandelelwano olongezelelweyo lokuziphatha kokuzingela njengokumbamba, ukungcangcazela okanye ukubulala kunokulandela.

Kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, umntwana osandul 'ukuzalwa unokuvusa umdla wenja yokuzingela, mhlawumbi ngenxa yokukhala kwayo. Ngenxa yesi sizathu, inja kufuneka ijongwe kwaye ilawulwe ngononophelo ngokukodwa kwiintsuku ezimbalwa zokuqala kunye nosana olutsha.

Uqeqesho lomzingeli aluyiyo i-panacea

Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, abanini bezinja zokuzingela bayacetyiswa ukuba bahambe ngoqeqesho lwezinja zokuzingela kunye nezilwanyana zabo ukuze bafundise ukuziphatha kokuzingela ngendlela ehlelekile. Nangona kunjalo, eli qhinga alikhuthazwa ngokubanzi, kuba linqabile kakhulu ukuphumelela.

Umbuzo obuzwa rhoqo

Kutheni inja yam ileqa ezinye izinja?

Izinja zinxibelelana ngokwahlukileyo kunabantu. Ulwimi lomzimba wenja yakho kunye nokuziphatha ziindlela zakhe zokunxibelelana. Ukutshintsha kwindlela aziphatha ngayo kusenokuthetha ukubonakaliswa kwentlungu. Ukuzikhusela ekuchukunyisweni ngamanye ama-conspecifics, ngoku isabela ngokukrakra.

Ndiyiphazamisa njani inja yam kwezinye izinja?

Vumela inja yakho ukuba ijonge ngokuzolileyo imeko. Mnike ixesha lokugqiba ukuba enye inja ayihlaseli. Mvuze ngako oku ukuba ubukela ngokuzolileyo aze agcine umgama owaneleyo kwenye inja. Ukungaqiniseki kwizinja kukwabangela ukuba ziqalise ukukhonkotha.

Itshintsha nini indalo yenja?

Ubuntu obupheleleyo benja bunokumiselwa kuphela malunga neminyaka emi-2 ubudala, ke thina njengabalimi asinakutsho ukuba yeyiphi injana eya kuba yinja yonyango, intshatsheli yobuchule, njl.

Inja izola nini?

Abanye bazifumana emva kweminyaka emi-2 ngenxa yokuba amanqanaba ehomoni ngoku azinzile. Xa sele kufikelelwe ekukhuleni ngokwasengqondweni nasemphefumlweni, indlela yokuziphatha yenja nayo iyazinza. Ngoko unokugweba kakuhle ukuba inja yakho iya kusabela njani kwiimeko ezithile. Oku kuya kuzisa uxolo oluninzi kubomi bakho bemihla ngemihla.

Uliqeqesha njani ithuku lokuzingela?

Izinto ezothusayo, imidlalo yokukhangela, ukuzilolonga okanye imidyarho yenza uqeqesho oluchasene nokuzingela lube luyolo kwinja yakho. Ngale ndlela uya kufunda ukuba uhlala efumana into enomdla ngakuwe. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba inja yakho ifuna ukuzingela, bonisa inja yakho ukuba kukho enye indlela enomdla ngakumbi.

Ndingayilawula njani ithuku lenja yam yokuzingela?

Uphawu lokuqala lokuziphatha kokuzingela kuxa inja iqandusela. Wandula ke aqonde ixhoba lakhe, alilalele, aze alichwechwe. Ukuba ixhoba - nokuba ngumvundla okanye intaka - liyibonile, iqala ukuyiphuthuma kwaye iyihluthe ngokukhawuleza.

Inja eyongamileyo izibonakalisa njani?

Ukuma kwakhe kumile, uhamba ngokuzithemba kwaye ngokuzinzileyo, kwaye intloko yakhe neendlebe ziphakanyiselwe phezulu. Umsila opinkiweyo okanye umqolo ongqukuva, oko kukuthi, iimpawu zokuba inja iyoyika okanye inovalo, azifane zibonwe kwizinja ezilawulayo.

Zeziphi iindidi zezinja abazingeli bamehlo?

Iisighthounds zinamandla ngakumbi kwaye zileqa ngokukhawuleza kunye nabazingeli bamehlo. Bakwaphakathi kwezona zidalwa zasemhlabeni zikhawulezayo. Apha sikwazisa ngezinye zezinja zinika umdla ezifana neSaluki, iBorzoi, kunye neGreyhound.

UMary Allen

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