UMary Allen
Xa imazi ingena ebushushwini okokuqala, imincili inkulu, ngakumbi kwicala lomnini.
Bubaleka njani ubushushu?
Ubushushu bokuqala buhlala ixesha elingakanani kwaye kufuneka ndiqwalasele ntoni ngeli xesha?
Ukuze wena kunye nenja yakho nidlule kweli xesha linzima kakhulu kwaye ngokukhuselekileyo, kweli nqaku siza kuchaza yonke into ekufuneka uyazi malunga nobushushu bokuqala benja yakho.
Ngamafutshane: igqabi liqala nini ukuba shushu?
Ibhinqa lidla ngokungena ebushushwini phakathi kwenyanga ye-6 neye-12 yobomi. Ekubeni izinja zethu zonke zizimele, ubushushu bunokuthatha ixesha elide ukuza.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha iiveki ezintathu. Ukopha kuqala phakathi kweentsuku ezi-3 kunye ne-17 zokuqala. Ezi ntsuku zi-3 ukuya kwezingama-21 zilandelayo zibizwa ngokuba bubushushu obumileyo. Ngeli xesha, i-bitch yakho yamkelekile iintsuku ezimbalwa.
Ukuba ungathanda ukufunda ngakumbi malunga nomjikelo wenja yakho kunye notshintsho kwindlela yokuziphatha ngexesha lobushushu, singakunika ugqirha wezilwanyana okwi-intanethi uGqr. Cebisa uSam. Apha ungafikelela kwiqela loogqirha bezilwanyana abanobuchule iintsuku ezingama-365 ngonyaka.
Bayakwazi ukubona inja yakho nge-WhatsApp ifowuni yevidiyo kwaye bakunike iingcebiso ezixabisekileyo malunga naliphi na ixesha lemini okanye ebusuku. Yizame, ukubonisana kokuqala kusimahla!
Imazi itshintsha njani xa kushushu kuqala?
Ngokufikisa kokuqala, injakazi yakho iya kukhula.
Uyalishiya inqanaba lokufikisa. Xa injakazi ishushu, ihlala ibonakalisa isimilo esingaqhelekanga. Utshintsho olusisigxina lokuziphatha lunokwenzeka okanye lungenzeki.
Amabhinqa ahlala encamathela kwaye ethanda ngexesha lobushushu, anobuvila, akanamdla wokutya kunye ne-melancholic okanye ngokuchasene ngokupheleleyo: nemincili, imincili, kwaye kubonakala kunzima ukuva.
Le ndlela yokuziphatha ikholisa ukusombulula njengoko umjikelo uphela. Ngoko akukho mfuneko yakukhathazeka!
Unokufumana okungakumbi malunga nokutshintsha kobuntu emva kobushushu kwinqaku lethu apha.
Icebiso:
Ukuba ufumana kunzima ukubuyisela inja yakho ngaphandle kwe-leash ngelixa ishushu, kungcono ukuyibopha kwintambo yokudonsa. Kufuneka umnakekele ngakumbi ngeli xesha ukuze angadibanisi ngempazamo.
Bubonakaliswa njani ubushushu bokuqala?
Ezona zichongi zobushushu zokuqala ngamadoda.
Xa i-bitch yakho iqala ukutshisa, amadoda anamathele kuwe-okanye i-bitch yakho-ngasemva.
Ukopha kuqala kwiintsuku ezi-3 ukuya kwezili-17 zokuqala. I-vulva iyadumba. Kweli nqanaba injakazi ayikakulungeli ukuzala.
Esi sigaba silandelwa bubushushu obumileyo malunga neentsuku ezi-3 ukuya kwezi-21.
Kwiintsuku zokuqala zokuma kobushushu, ibhinqa liyamkela!
Unokukuqonda oku nangenyaniso yokuba umbala wegazi uyatshintsha. Itshintsha ukusuka ekubeni bomvu kakhulu ukuya kumbala opinki okhanyayo kwaye ikholisa ukuba ne-slimy consistency. Apha kufuneka ulumke ngakumbi ukuba akukho nja iyindoda ephilileyo isondela kwimazi yakho!
Kuhle ukwazi:
Zonke iimazi zikhulelwa emva kobushushu. Nangona kunjalo, iimpawu ezinjengomnqweno wokwakha iindlwane, ukuba ngumama wezinto zokudlala ze-cuddly okanye ezinye izinto, kunye nobisi lungena ngamanqanaba ahlukeneyo kuwo onke ama-bitches.
Amanye ama-bitches ahlupheka kakhulu ngeli xesha. Ngoko nikela ingqalelo kwintombazana yakho kunye nokuba uneengxaki ngokutshisa okanye ngokukodwa ngokukhulelwa kobuxoki. Ukuba kunjalo, unokufuna ukuthetha nogqirha wezilwanyana malunga nokutshiza.
Kuthetha ukuthini ubushushu obuzolileyo?
Yinto eqhelekileyo ukuba ubushushu bokuqala benjakazi bungahambeli kakuhle kunye nobushushu obulandelayo. Oku kungenxa yokuba umzimba awukakhuli ngokupheleleyo kwaye kufuneka uqale ulungelelanise imeko entsha.
Ke amanye amantshontsho angena ebushushwini ngokuzolileyo nangokufihlakeleyo ngaphandle kweempawu ezibonakalayo. Kodwa usaphulaphula, ngoko ke ulumke uyacetyiswa nalapha!
Ukuba ukushisa kokuqala kwenzeka ngaphandle kokuphuma kwegazi okanye ukudumba kwe-vulva, kubhekiselwa kuyo njengobushushu obuthe cwaka.
Kuthatha ixesha elingakanani ubushushu bokuqala bemazi?
Njengomthetho, amabhinqa angena ebushushwini okokuqala phakathi kwenyanga yesithandathu kunye neshumi elinesibini yobomi.
Kwimeko yeentlobo ezinkulu zeenja kunye nezinto ezibizwa ngokuba "zii-bloomers emva kwexesha", ubushushu bokuqala bunokuba lixesha elide elizayo. Ihlala ixhomekeke kubungakanani bomzimba we-bitch kunye nenqanaba lokukhula.
Ubude bexesha kunye nobunzulu bobushushu bokuqala bubodwa kakhulu!
Umjikelo oqhelekileyo wokuya exesheni kwi-bitches unezigaba ezine kwaye uhlala malunga neeveki ezintathu. Ngeli xesha (i-proestrus/estrus) injakazi yakho iyopha kwaye iye yamkeleke ngexesha elibizwa ngokuba ziintsuku zokuma.
- Proestrus/pre-estrus: malunga. Iintsuku ezili-9, akukho ukulungela ukukhwelana
- I-estrus/oestrus: malunga. Iintsuku ezili-9, iintsuku ezimileyo/ubushushu obumileyo
- I-Metestrus/post-oestrus: malunga. 90 - 120 iintsuku, ixesha pseudopregnancy
- I-Anestrus/isigaba sokuphumla: malunga. 60 - 90 iintsuku, yonke into kuluhlu oluqhelekileyo
Kukangaphi izinja zingena ebushushwini?
Injakazi idla ngokungena ebushushwini kabini ngonyaka. Nangona kunjalo, umjikelo uyahluka kumntu ngamnye.
Nangona ezinye iimazi zingena ebushushwini rhoqo emva kweenyanga ezisixhenxe, isithuba esiphakathi kobushushu kwezinye iimazi sisithuba esingangeenyanga ezine.
Imazi iziphatha njani ngaphambi nangexesha lobushushu?
Kwanangaphambi kobushushu bakhe bokuqala, kukho iimpawu ezimbalwa ezibonisa ukuba inja yakho sele iza kuqola ngokwesondo.
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba iingxaki zokuziphatha kunye notshintsho ziqhelekile ngokupheleleyo ngeli xesha.
Umzekelo, ukuba inja yakho ibikhe wayimamela kakuhle imiyalelo yakho ngaphambili, kungenzeka ukuba ayilibale yonke le nto ngeli xesha. Unezinye izinto ezisengqondweni yakhe ngoku, njengokwazisa izinja eziyindoda ezimngqongileyo ukuba uphezu kwantoni na.
Ziziphi iiMpawu kunye neMiqondiso?
Nantsi indlela onokuthi ngayo ukuba i-bitch yakho iya kuba sebushushwini kungekudala:
- Inja yakho ibeka ithegi kwaye iphunga ngaphezu kwesiqhelo
- Uhambela kude kuwe xa ehamba
- Ufumana ezinye izinja, ngakumbi iinkunzi, zinomdla ngakumbi
- Ukugquma nokuxhwithana kwicala leenkunzi ezityhalayo akunto ingaqhelekanga
- Sala kakuhle intobeko esisiseko!
- ukulahlekelwa ngumdla wokutya kunye nokulala kakhulu
- Inja yakho izilungisa ngakumbi
- Isidingo esinamandla sokusondelelana kunye nokumbamba OKANYE
- inja yakho ihoxisa ngakumbi kwaye ifuna ukushiywa yodwa
- Umsila ujikele ecaleni
- I-vulva edumbile
- Ukukhutshwa kwegazi
Ngaba injakazi yakho ishushu okokuqala? Eli lixesha elinika umdla kuni nobabini. Ukuba awuqinisekanga okanye ufuna ukucela ingcebiso komnye umntu, sicebisa ugqirha wezilwanyana kwi-intanethi uGqirha Sam!
Iqela loogqirha bezilwanyana abaziingcali lifumaneka iintsuku ezingama-365 ngonyaka ukuphendula imibuzo emincinci ngeefowuni zevidiyo zikaWhatsApp. Mhlawumbi umrhumo unomdla kuwe ngeli xesha?
Icebiso:
Njengesithintelo, beka iingubo esofeni ekhaya kwaye ubeke iikhaphethi kwigumbi elingaphantsi kweli xesha. Kuya kufuneka wosule inja yakho amaxesha ngamaxesha okanye uyinxibe ibhulukhwe yayo xa ishushu. Ungayiphatha le nto nangona ufuna.
Ndingenza njani ubushushu bube lula kwimazi yam?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuziphatha okutshintshileyo kwenja yakho. Mvumele nje abe yiloo nto ayiyo kwaye ahlangabezane neemfuno zakhe ezizodwa. Ukuba ufuna ukuthula, loo nto ilungile ngokungathi uhlala ebambelele kwizithende zakho.
Ngokukodwa ekuhambeni, kufuneka ubeke ingqalelo ekhethekileyo kwintombazana yakho eshushu.
Iimazi ezinevumba elibi zisoloko zixhatshazwa ziinkunzi ezingxolayo nezityhalayo. Qinisekisa ukuba owasetyhini ukhuselekile kubakhweli abanesaqhwithi kunye nawe. Inja eyindoda iya ngakuwe, yima ngokukhuselekileyo phambi kwenjakazi yakho kwaye ngokuzolileyo kodwa ngokuqinileyo uyithumele kude le nja engaqhelekanga kuwe.
Ngeli xesha kufuneka uphephe ukudibana nezinja kwaye uhlale ugcina inja yakho kwi-leash. Yiya ngamaxesha kunye neendawo xa kuncinci okwenzekayo. Oku kwenza inja yakho ihambe ikhululekile ngakumbi kwinja yakho ebushushwini.
Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba intombazana yakho itya ngokwaneleyo!
Ngexesha lokushisa ngokuqinisekileyo kunokuba yinto ekhethekileyo yokuvuselela umdla wokutya. Thina mantombazana siyawazi umnqweno wokutya amashwamshwam ngeli xesha. Ngubani ongatyi itshokolethi kunemifuno? (Ngokuqinisekileyo hayi inja yakho!)
Ukondla imazi ebushushwini
Ukulahlekelwa ngumdla ngexesha lokushisa akuqhelekanga.
Ngoko ke akukho mfuneko yokuba ukhathazeke kakhulu ngaloo nto. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba inja yakho ayityi kwaye uziva unqabile, kufuneka udibane nogqirha wezilwanyana.
Kungenjalo, mondle nje ngokuqhelekileyo.
Mhlawumbi unokumnika izinto ezongezelelekileyo, njengehlafuna ayithandayo okanye inyama enencasa. Uyazi kakuhle into ethandwa yinja yakho kwaye ungayimosha ngoku.
Ingqalelo yengozi!
Kungenxa yokuba inja yakho ayifuni ukutya kwayo rhoqo akuthethi ukuba awukwazi ukuyifaka ngokutya okuyingozi! Kambe ke, oku kulandelayo kusebenza ngalo lonke ixesha: Iilekese zazo zonke iintlobo, iswekile, ixylitol, utywala, ityuwa, iziqholo ezinamandla, nokunye ukutya okunjengeavokhado, itswele, ikonofile, okanye iitumato azivumelekanga kuzo zonke izinja!
isiphelo
Akunjalo ngokungaqhelekanga, ukushisa kokuqala kuhamba kunye neenguqu ezingaqhelekanga zokuziphatha.
Qaphela ukuba ukunqongophala kokutya, ukonqena, ukuxhalaba, okanye nokuba nemincili efihlakeleyo kunye nokungazinzi yinto eqhelekileyo ngeli xesha. Njengomthetho, le ndlela yokuziphatha iyancipha emva kokushisa.
Imazi yakho iya kuba sebushushwini okokuqala phakathi kwenyanga yesithandathu neyeshumi elinesibini yobomi kwaye ke ngoko ikhule ngokwesondo.
Ngeli xesha kufuneka uzinakekele ngokukhethekileyo ukuze kungabikho iilitha ezingacwangciswanga eziza!
Ukuba ufuna umntu onxibelelana naye ngeli xesha likhethekileyo, nceda uqhagamshelane nogqirha wezilwanyana okwi-intanethi uGq. Sam. Emva kokubonisana simahla, unokuthatha umrhumo kwaye ubuze imibuzo phantse ubusuku nemini, iintsuku ezingama-365 ngonyaka. Oogqirha bezilwanyana abangqonge uGqr. Sam bangabona inja yakho ngekhamera yeselula kwaye bakunike iingcebiso ezifanelekileyo.