UMary Allen
Kunokuba nzima xa iimazi zakho zegusha zikundwendwela ukuze zikubulise.
Iinkunzi zegusha zakho zingumqamelo neengubo kwaye zikukhwelise? Ewe, uyazibuza, "Kutheni abafazi bebetha?"
Ngokuxhomekeke kuhlobo lwentombazana yakho, ukuyikhwela kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu kwaye kunokunkqonkqoza ngokukhawuleza abatyeleli abangazinzanga kakhulu kwizihlangu zabo. Ngoko ke, kubalulekile ukuba uqonde ukuziphatha kwenja yakho.
Kweli nqaku, siza kuchaza ukuba yintoni ukuziphatha okungafunwayo kwaye ungayinqanda njani inja yakho ekubetheni.
Emva kwayo yonke loo nto, ayinguye wonke umtyeleli othanda ibhulukhwe ene tattoos paw!
Ngamafutshane: Le yindlela okhupha ngayo ibhinqa lakho kumkhwa wokukhwela yonke into kunye nawo wonke umntu
Ukuba inja yakho ithanda ukugoba imiqamelo kunye neengubo rhoqo, okanye ikukhwelise kunye neendwendwe zakho, oku kunokucaphukisa ngokwenene!
Izizathu ezinokwenzeka zoku inokuba kukuqhuba kokuzala, iihomoni, indlela yokulawula, isithukuthezi, ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, ukutsiba iintshukumo, ukufikisa, ukudlala, ukurhawuzelelwa okanye umkhwa onyanzelekileyo.
Ukukhwela ngamaxesha athile yinxalenye yokuziphatha okuqhelekileyo kwezinja zethu kwaye ekuqaleni ayisosizathu sokukhathazeka. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba inja yakho igcina yonke into kunye nomntu wonke, kufuneka ufike emazantsi esizathu.
Uphando malunga nezizathu: kutheni abafazi bebetha?
Ngokubanzi, ukukhwela okanye ukukhwela ezinye izinja yinxalenye yesiqhelo sokuziphatha kwabahlobo bethu abanemilenze emine. Enoba ngamadoda okanye amabhinqa, zonke ziyabhonga! Omnye ngaphezulu, omnye ngaphantsi.
Ngoko akufanele ukhathazeke okanye ucinge ngayo ngoko nangoko!
Iba ngumnqa, nangona kunjalo, xa imilenze yabatyeleli kunye nefenitshala ethandwayo-kwaye ke-ngokuthandabuza-ipakishwe rhoqo kwaye inokwenzeka ukukrwempa kwaye ivuthwe.
I-ramming ayisoloko inento yokwenza ne-reproductive drive kodwa inokuba nezinye iinjongo. Iimbangela kunye nezisombululo ngabanye kwinja nganye.
Inokuba kungenxa yokuba:
- indlela yokuziphatha
- Uncedo loxinzelelo
- Umkhwa ombi/onyanzelekileyo
- tsiba isenzo
- Ukuziphatha kokufikisa/umdlalo
- Ukukruquka / ukucela umngeni
- kubetha
Amabhinqa ahlala eqala ukubonisa le ndlela yokuziphatha ngokukhawuleza nje ukuba ubushushu bungene. (Heyi mantombazana, asiyiyo yonke loo bluna?
Icebiso:
Jonga iimeko apho inja yakho ikhwelisa ezinye izinja, abantu, okanye izinto. Mhlawumbi ungafumanisa kule nto ukuba kutheni echeba? Ukuba unako ukulawula iingxaki zempilo kwaye ufumene unobangela, kulula ukufumana isisombululo esifanelekileyo!
Yeka ukungqunga - le yindlela oyisusa ngayo imazi yakho kumkhwa wokukhwela iinkunzi!
Okokuqala, kufuneka wazi ukuba ingaba inja yakho inja yakho iphakathi “kuluhlu oluqhelekileyo” okanye uyamfumana egungqa kakhulu.
Ukuba wenza oku ngamaxesha athile, myeke abe yinja. Ingaba uyahlupheka? Yizame ngolu hlobo:
Umyalelo othi “Cima!”
Ukuba inja yakho sele iwazi umyalelo, ungayisebenzisa ukumgxotha ekuziphatheni okungafunekiyo. Ewe kunjalo, unokusebenzisa omnye umyalelo onje ngo "Rammelstopp!" okanye “Woop Woop!” – Into ephambili kukuba ingabizwa kakuhle!
Indlela yokuziphatha ngokutsha
Ukuba sele uxelele inja yakho ukuba iyeke ukugoba, unokumnceda ukuba aphume kwimeko ngokuqondisa ukuziphatha kwakhe.
Into yokudlala oyithandayo, isilwanyana sasekhaya, ukukhumbula iqhinga olifundileyo, okanye ukunyanga konke kunokukunceda.
Kubalulekile ukuba ungayivuzi inja yakho de iyeke ukubetha, ukuze ungaqinisekisi ukuziphatha kwayo.
Umonde kunye nokungaguquguquki
ZIZIzixhobo kulo lonke uqeqesho lwenja. Ukuba inja yakho sele ingene kwi-bucking, mhlawumbi kuya kuthatha ixesha elide ukuyeka umkhwa.
Lawula iingxaki zempilo
Ukuba inja yakho igquma kakhulu kwaye ihlala ikhotha amalungu angasese, kufuneka ugqirha wezilwanyana ajonge impilo yakhe!
Ukunciphisa uxinzelelo, ukuchasana ngaphantsi komceli mngeni
Mhlawumbi uyaqaphela ukuba inja yakho ibetha ngakumbi xa icinezelekile? Mhlawumbi yintsimbi yomnyango okanye kuphithizela kakhulu epakini yezinja?
Zama ukusebenza ngokuthe ngqo kwiimeko ezibangela uxinzelelo lwenja yakho. Ingxaki inokuphucula kuphela xa ujongana nabo ngobunono ngezi meko.
Okanye ngaba uyahambahamba ekruqukile aze aqalise ukukhwela?
Kule meko, kufuneka ucinge kwakhona ukuba inja yakho inomthwalo owaneleyo womzimba kunye nengqondo. Mhlawumbi ungamfundisa amaqhinga amatsha okanye umgcine exakekile kukhangelo kunye nemidlalo yoxinaniso.
Ngaba inja yakho imazi ikukhwelise?
Okungonwabanga ngakumbi kunokukhwela izinto ezinje ngemiqamelo kunye neengubo kugquma kumalungu omzimba womntu.
Ngokungafaniyo nezinja zamadoda, xa inja yakho yabasetyhini ikhwela wena okanye isivakashi sakho, inokunxulumana nobushushu kunye namahomoni. Ukuba ubonisa le ndlela yokuziphatha rhoqo phambi okanye ngexesha lobushushu, musa ukumthethisa.
Isenokuvakala ingaqhelekanga, kodwa mhlawumbi uya kumfumana ibhere enkulu anokuyithanda?
Kuninzi lwabasetyhini, le ndlela yokuziphatha yeyokwexeshana kwaye inxulunyaniswe nobushushu.
Kuhle ukwazi:
Ukuba inja yakho yongamele kakhulu kwaye uyakrokrela ukuba kungenxa yoko ikubetha, kungcono udibane nomqeqeshi wezinja. Kuhlala kuluncedo ukuvavanya imeko kwisiza ukuze uze nesisombululo esifanelekileyo!
Ngamafutshane: Nantsi indlela onokuwophula ngayo umkhwa wokubethekisa inja yakho yasemazi!
Nje ukuba ufumanise ukuba kutheni inja yakho f@cks yonke into kwaye wonke umntu, isisombululo esifanelekileyo asikho kude.
Kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba ukukhwela kunye nokuhumping kukuziphatha kwenja yendalo. Zombini iimazi kunye namadoda ziyakwenza oku.
Ukunyuka kudla ngokuqala ngokudlala ngexesha lokufikisa kwaye kudla ngokunyuka kwabasetyhini phambi kobushushu bokuqala. Ukunqunqa kuyenzeka kwakhona kwaye kwakhona xa kudityaniswa nobushushu.
Mhlawumbi ukunyuka kwenja yakho sisenzo esinxulumene noxinzelelo lokutsiba okanye ukukruquka. Jonga into ayenzayo ngaphambi nasemva kokuba emkhwelisile ukuze ukwazi ukufumanisa inkuthazo yakhe.
Fundisa inja yakho ukuba iphendule kumyalelo othi "Phuma!" ukuyeka into ayidlayo kwaye amnike enye indlela. Oku kunokuba yibhere ye-teddy, kodwa kwakhona utshintsho olupheleleyo lokuziphatha, umzekelo, kumdlalo, ukubethelwa, okanye ukubiza amaqhinga.
Izisombululo apha kwakhona umntu ngamnye njengezinja zethu!