UMary Allen
Ukuqonda Izinja Ezingumama kunye nokuziphatha kwazo okukhulayo
Izinja ezingoomama zaziwa ngokuba ziwakhusela ngokuqatha amantshontsho azo. Babonisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokuziphatha zokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwamantshontsho abo, kubandakanya nokugquma. Ukukhula yindlela yendalo yokunxibelelana kwizinja ezinokubonisa iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo okanye iinjongo. Kubalulekile ukuqonda izizathu ezibangela inja egqumayo ibhekisa kumantshontsho ayo ukuqinisekisa ukhuseleko kunye nokuphila kakuhle.
Iindidi zokuKhula ngooMama bezinja
Izinja zoomama zinokugquma ngokwahlukileyo ngokusekelwe kwiimvakalelo kunye neenjongo zabo. Ezinye iintlobo eziqhelekileyo zokugquma kwizinja ezingumama ziquka ukukhwaza okulumkisayo, ukukhala okudlalayo, ukukhungatheka, kunye nokukhala okukrakra. Nganye kwezi zigquma zinesandi esisodwa kunye nomxholo onokunceda ekuchongeni imeko yengqondo yenja kunye neenjongo.
Izizathu zokuba ooMama bezinja zikhulele kwiiNjana
Kunokubakho izizathu ezininzi zokuba kutheni inja engumama ikhala kwiinjana zayo. Ezinye zezona zizathu zixhaphakileyo ziquka ukukhuselwa, ukungathembeki kukhuseleko lwabantwana, imfuno yendawo, ukongamela kunye nemiba yomhlaba, uloyiko kunye nokuxhalaba, kunye nokutshintsha kwehomoni. Ukuqonda ezi zizathu kunokunceda ekujonganeni nemiba esisiseko kunye nokuqinisekisa ukhuseleko lwenja engumama kunye neenjana zakhe.
Ukhuseleko lwendalo lweZinja zikaMama
Esinye sezizathu eziphambili zokuba kutheni izinja ezingumama zigquma kwiinjana zabo kungenxa yemvelo yazo yokukhusela. Bafuna ukugcina iinjana zabo zikhuselekile kwaye zibalumkise ngengozi enokubakho okanye izoyikiso. Isilumkiso sokugquma kukuziphatha okuqhelekileyo okuboniswa zizinja ezingumama xa zibona ingozi okanye zibona isoyikiso.
Ukungathembeki kuKhuseleko lweNtjana
Izinja ezingoomama zisenokugquma kumantshontsho azo ukuba aziyithembi indawo ezihlala kuyo okanye zivakalelwa kukuba iinjana zazo zisengozini. Oku kuziphatha kunokubonwa xa umama wenja engaqinisekanga ngokusingqongileyo okanye ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba iinjana zisengozini yokwenzakaliswa.
Umama Izinja kunye nesidingo sazo seNdawo
Izinja zoomama nazo zifuna indawo yazo, kwaye ukugquma kunokuba yindlela ebonisa ukuba zidinga indawo eninzi okanye ubumfihlo. Oku kuziphatha kunokubonwa xa inja engumama ingakhululekanga ngokusondela kwamantshontsho okanye xa ifuna ukushiywa yodwa.
Ulawulo kunye neMiba yeNdawo yeeNja zoMama
Izinja ezingumama zisenokugquma kwiinjana zazo ukuze zimisele ubukhosi okanye zibonise igunya lazo phezu kwazo. Oku kuziphatha kunokubonwa xa inja engumama ivakalelwa kukuba iinjana zayo zicela umngeni kulawulo lwayo okanye zizama ukuhlasela ummandla wayo.
Uloyiko kunye nokuxhalaba njengezinto ezibangela ukukhula
Uloyiko kunye nokuxhalaba kunokubangela ukuziphatha okugqumayo kwiinja ezingumama. Oku kuziphatha kunokubonwa xa inja engumama isaba okanye ixhala malunga neemeko okanye iimeko ezithile. Ukukhula kunokuba yindlela yokubonakalisa ukungonwabi okanye uloyiko lwakhe.
Ukuxhatshazwa kunye noTshintsho lweHormonal kwiiNja zoMama
Izinja zikamama zinokubonakalisa ubundlongondlongo bokuziphatha ngenxa yotshintsho lwehomoni ngexesha lokukhulelwa nasemva kokubeleka. Oku kuziphatha kunokubonwa xa inja engumama iziva isongelwa okanye icela umngeni, kwaye kubalulekile ukusingatha iimeko ezinjalo ngononophelo.
Ukuphatha njani iiNjana zikaMama eziNjala
Ukuphatha inja egqumayo kubantwana bayo kufuna ukuqonda izizathu ezisisiseko kunye nokujongana nonobangela. Kubalulekile ukubonelela ngendawo ekhuselekileyo nekhuselekileyo yenja engumama kunye neenjana zayo kwaye uthintele iimeko ezinokuthi zibangele ukuziphatha kwakhe okukhulayo. Ukuba inja engumama iziphatha ndlongondlongo okanye ibeka isoyikiso kumantshontsho, kungcono ukuba ufune uncedo lwengcali kugqirha wezilwanyana okanye kwi-dog behaviorist.