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Izinja zilungile kumntu wonke

I-10 ye-Okthobha luSuku lweZinja lweHlabathi. Yintoni abanini bezinja abayaziyo kumava abo nayo iqinisekisiwe ngokwesayensi kwiimeko ezininzi: Izinja zilungile kumntu wonke! Kwaye abo banenja abayi kumangaliswa ziziphumo zezifundo ezininzi: abanini bezinja abakho kuphela bomelele ngokwasemzimbeni kwaye besempilweni - ngaphandle kokuba bakhuphe inja yabo rhoqo ngokwabo - benza okuthile kwimpilo yabo yengqondo nenja.

Isazi ngengqondo uGqr. Andrea Beetz sithi: “Ukumbambazela inja kwandisa incindi yedlala ekuthiwa yioxytocin. "Inzululwazi ngoku icinga ukuba le hormone ikhuthaza unxibelelwano loluntu, ukuthembela, ukuncamathela, ukuvuselelwa, kunye nokuphila kakuhle, kunye nokunciphisa ixhala, uxinzelelo kunye noxinzelelo."

Imizekelo embalwa ibonisa indlela izinja ezixhasa ngayo usindiso lwethu: Ngenxa yokuba izinja zikhuthaza ukunxibelelana kwabantu, zinokuthintela iingxaki zengqondo ezivela kubulolo kunye nokuzahlula.

Abahlobo abanemilenze emine banokunceda ukuhlangabezana neengxaki zengqondo. Njengoko izinja zonyango, banokuwuqhawula umkhenkce phakathi kwe-psychotherapist kunye nesigulane, bakhuthaze ukuthembela kwiingcali zonyango kwaye ngaloo ndlela bakhawulezise impumelelo yonyango. Ukongeza, ukudibana komzimba nezinja kunciphisa amahomoni oxinzelelo kunye nokuxhalaba komguli kwaye kudala ukuziva ukhuselekile. Oku kubalulekile kuba ingqondo ayikwazi ukufunda xa kuziwa kwixhala kunye noxinzelelo. Umothuko kunye neengxaki zinokuphandwa kuphela kwaye kusetyenzwe ngokweenkcukacha ukuba isigulane siziva sikhuselekile.

Ukutyelela iinkonzo nezinja ezibhedlele, iiklinikhi zokubuyisela kwimeko yesiqhelo, kunye namakhaya abantu abalupheleyo kunceda izigulana ukuba ziphile ngakumbi. Izinja zisebenza kwaye zikhuthaze ukuba zisebenzise kwaye ziqhagamshelane nabanye abantu.

Ukuba ucinga ngeziphumo ezininzi ezintle izinja ezinazo kwingqondo yomntu, kunengqiqo ukuba i-10 ka-Oktobha ayilona nje usuku lweNja yeHlabathi kodwa kunye noSuku lweMpilo yeNgqondo.

Ukongezelela, izinja zenza umsebenzi oxabisekileyo kuthi bantu kwezinye iindawo ezininzi: Njengezinja ezikhokelayo okanye izinja zoncedo, zinceda abantu abakhubazekileyo ukuba bamelane nobomi babo bemihla ngemihla. Zikwasetyenziswa njengezinja zokukhangela, izinja zokugada, izinja zesiqhelo, kunye nezinja ezilumkisa ngesifo seswekile okanye zokuxhuzula. Kwaye le yimizekelo nje embalwa. Izizathu ezaneleyo zokunikezela usuku olukhethekileyo “kumhlobo osenyongweni womntu”.

Ava Williams

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Molo, ndinguAva Ndibhale ngobungcali iminyaka engaphezu kwe-15. Ndisebenza ngokukhethekileyo ekubhaleni izithuba zeblogi ezifundisayo, iiprofayili zohlobo, uphononongo lwemveliso yokhathalelo lwesilwanyana, kunye nempilo yezilwanyana zasekhaya kunye namanqaku okhathalelo. Ngaphambi nangexesha lomsebenzi wam njengombhali, ndichithe malunga neminyaka eyi-12 kumzi mveliso wokhathalelo lwezilwanyana zasekhaya. Ndinamava njengomphathi we-kennel kunye nomkhweli oqeqeshiweyo. Ndikwakhuphisana nezinja zam kwimidlalo yezinja. Ndikwanazo neekati, iihagu, nemivundla.

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