UMary Allen
Ubulolo ebudaleni akuyonto ilula. Abantu abadala nabo banokufumana ubuqabane kwizilwanyana zabo zasekhaya. Kodwa ngaba abantu abadala baziva bengamalolo kunye naye: inja okanye ikati?
Izifundo ezahlukeneyo ngoku zibonise ukuba yintoni abanini abaninzi abakwaziyo ixesha elide: Izilwanyana zasekhaya zilungile kuthi. Ngokomzekelo, izinja zinokuchaphazela ngokufanelekileyo ubomi bethu. Abahlobo bethu abanemilenze emine bakwayinyani yokuphucula imo yengqondo yethu: basenza sizive singonwabanga kwaye sonwabile.
Zonke ezi ziziphumo ezilungileyo eziluncedo ngokuqinisekileyo kubantu bayo yonke iminyaka. Uninzi lwabanini bezilwanyana zasekhaya banika ingxelo, ngakumbi ngexesha lobhubhane, ukuba zibanceda kangakanani iikati kunye nezinja zabo. Ngelishwa, njengeqela lomngcipheko, ngabantu abadala abahluphekayo ngenxa yokuzimela kunye nemiphumo yayo yengqondo.
Izilwanyana zasekhaya zinokubanceda njani abantu abakhulileyo bajamelane nobulolo, yaye zeziphi ezona ziluncedo ngokukhethekileyo kubo? Isazi ngengqondo uStanley Coren sazibuza lo mbuzo. Ufumene impendulo kuhlolisiso lwakutshanje olwenziwa eJapan, olubandakanya abantu abamalunga ne-1,000 65 abaphakathi kweminyaka engama-84 nama-XNUMX ubudala. Abaphandi bafuna ukufumanisa enoba abantu abadla umhlala-phantsi abanenja okanye ikati baphila kakuhle na ngokwasengqondweni kunabo bangenazilwanyana zasekhaya.
Esi Silo-qabane sifanelekile kuBadla umhlala-phantsi
Kule nto, imeko yezempilo jikelele kunye neqondo lokuzihlukanisa kwezentlalo zaphandwa kusetyenziswa amaphepha emibuzo amabini. Isiphumo: abantu abadala abanezinja bangcono. Abantu abadla umhlala-phantsi abahlala bodwa abangabaniniyo nabangazange babenenja babonakele ukuba babe neziphumo ezibi ngokwasengqondweni.
Kwelinye icala, kuphononongo, abanini bezinja babenesiqingatha kuphela sokuba nesimo sengqondo esibi.
Kungakhathaliseki ubudala, isini, ingeniso, kunye nezinye iimeko zokuphila, abanini inja ngokwasengqondweni ngcono ukumelana ikheswa ekuhlaleni. Iingcali zenzululwazi azikwazanga ukufumana umphumo ofanayo kwiikati.
Ngamanye amazwi, iikati kunye nezinja ngokuqinisekileyo zinenzuzo yazo. Kodwa xa kufikwa kwisithukuthezi, izinja zinokuba lelona nyango lilungileyo.