UMary Allen
Ngaba inja yakho ayifuni ukubethwa? Izizathu zoku zisenokwahluka. Kweli nqaku, siza kuchaza ukuba yintoni na.
Njengathi bantu, izinja zifuna ukuhoywa ngakumbi ngezinye iintsuku kwaye ngaphantsi kwezinye. Abanye, kwelinye icala, baphantse bacenge ukubethwa, kubhetele ukuba bajikeleze imini. Kodwa kuthekani ukuba inja yakho ayikuthandi ukuphululwa? Ngamanye amaxesha oku kusenokuba ngenxa yomntu inja engamfumaniyo okanye indlela inja ebethwa ngayo.
Inja Ijika Ngesiquphe
Ukuba inja yakho iyakuthanda ukugonwa kodwa ngequbuliso ibonisa ukuba ingathanda ukushiywa yodwa, kusenokuba kungenxa yokuba inja isezintlungwini okanye iyagula. Ukuba ukuziphatha okungaqhelekanga kuyaqhubeka, inja kufuneka iboniswe kugqirha wezilwanyana. Ngaloo ndlela, unokufumanisa ukuba kukho into engekhoyo kumhlobo onemilenze emine.
Intloko kunye neziThupha
Izinja ezininzi ziyakuthanda ukuchukunyiswa kunye nokugona, kodwa kungekhona ngentloko kunye neempuphu. Kubonakala kumnandi kakhulu ukubetha umhlobo onemilenze emine entanyeni, esifubeni, kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, esiswini.
Inja ithatha uMgama
Nalapha, nakwizinja, imeko iyafana neyabantu. Izinja ezininzi ziwuxabisa umgama othile. Ungayithatheli ngqalelo into yokuba abahlobo bakho abanemilenze emine bakwelinye icala lesingqengqelo okanye bahlukane “nokwanga ngenkani”.
Qonda Ulwimi Lomzimba Wenja
Nazi iimpawu ezahlukeneyo ezinokubonisa ukuba inja yakho ayikhululekanga ngendlela ebethwa ngayo:
- yawn
- inja iyajika
- inja ikhawuleza izonwaya
Ngokubanzi, kunjalo, imeko kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo xa utolika ulwimi lomzimba lomhlobo othandekayo onemilenze emine. Nangona kunjalo, kusoloko kulula ukubona xa inja iyakuthanda ukufuywa.