UMary Allen
Intshayelelo: Kutheni Ukukhetha igama eliLungileyo kwikati yakho emnyama ibalulekile
Ukukhetha igama elifanelekileyo lekati yakho emnyama sisigqibo esibalulekileyo esinokuchaphazela ubomi babo kunye nobudlelwane bakho nabo. Igama alikho nje ileyibhile, kodwa ukubonakalisa ubuntu bekati yakho kunye nendlela yokunxibelelana nabo. Igama elilungileyo linokunceda ikati yakho ukuba izive ithandwa kwaye ikhethekileyo, kwaye inokwenza kube lula ukuyiqeqesha kwaye ubize ingqalelo yayo. Ngaphezu koko, ikati elimnyama liyisidalwa esiyingqayizivele nesiyimfihlakalo esifanelwe negama elibonisa ubuhle kunye nomtsalane.
Ukuqonda iMbali kunye neSimboli seeKati eziMnyama
Iikati ezimnyama ziye zahlonitshwa kwaye zoyikwa kwimbali nakwiinkcubeko ezahlukeneyo. KwiYiputa yamandulo, iikati ezimnyama zazigqalwa njengezilwanyana ezingcwele ezazifuzisela ukuzala nokukhuselwa. KwiYurophu ephakathi, nangona kunjalo, iikati ezimnyama zazihlala zinxulunyaniswa nobugqwirha kunye nobubi, kwaye zazikholelwa ukuba zizisa amashwa. Le mbono imbi ngeekati ezimnyama yaqhubeka kangangeenkulungwane, nto leyo eyakhokelela ekutshutshisweni nasekufeni kwabo ebudeni bokuzingelwa kwamagqwirha ngenkulungwane ye-16 neye-17. Namhlanje, iikati ezimnyama ngamanye amaxesha zibonwa njenge-spooky okanye i-unlucky, kodwa zikwaxatyiswa ngobuhle bazo, ububele kunye nokudlala.
Iingqwalasela zokukhetha elona gama lilungileyo kwikati yakho emnyama
Xa ukhetha igama lekati yakho emnyama, kukho izinto ezininzi ekufuneka uziqwalasele. Okokuqala, cinga malunga nobuntu bekati yakho, inkangeleko, kunye nohlobo. Ngaba ikati yakho ineentloni okanye iyaphuma, iyathandeka okanye izimele, ibhityile okanye ithambile? Ngaba ikati yakho inalo naluphi na uphawu olwahlukileyo okanye iimpawu ofuna ukuziqaqambisa egameni labo? Ngaba ikati yakho ihlambulukile okanye ixubene, kwaye ufuna ukukhetha igama elibonisa ilifa okanye inzala yabo? Ukongeza, qwalasela izinto ozikhethayo kunye nesimbo sakho. Ngaba ukhetha amagama eklasikhi okanye aqhelekileyo, okanye ufuna ukwenza ngakumbi ukuyila kunye nentsusa? Ngaba ufuna igama elinentsingiselo ekhethekileyo okanye ukubaluleka kuwe, okanye ufuna ukukhetha igama elimnandi nelinomtsalane? Okokugqibela, qiniseka ukuba ukhetha igama ekulula ukulibiza kwaye ulikhumbule, kwaye ikati yakho iphendula ngokufanelekileyo.