UMary Allen
Intshayelelo: Abantwana nezilwanyana zasekhaya
Abazali abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukuba nesilwanyana yeyona ndlela yokufundisa abantwana babo ngoxanduva novelwano. Izilwanyana zasekhaya zinokunceda abantwana bafumane ubuhlobo nenkxaso ngokweemvakalelo. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba nesilwanyana akusoloko kungumbono olungileyo, ngakumbi kwiintsapho ezinabantwana abancinci. Kukho izinto ezininzi ezingalunganga kubantwana abanezilwanyana zasekhaya ekufuneka abazali baziqwalasele ngaphambi kokuba benze isigqibo sokuzisa umhlobo onoboya ekhayeni labo.
Uxanduva: Umthwalo wokuKhathalela
Ukuba nesilwanyana kuyimbopheleleko enkulu, yaye abantwana basenokungakulungeli ukusiphatha. Izilwanyana zasekhaya zifuna ukhathalelo lwemihla ngemihla, kuquka ukutyisa, ukuzilungisa, nokuzilolonga. Abantwana basenokungakwazi ukusingatha le misebenzi ngokungaguqukiyo, nto leyo enokukhokelela ekungahoyweni nakwiingxaki zempilo kwisilwanyana sasekhaya. Abazali bamele bakulungele ukuthwala uxanduva oluninzi lwesilwanyana sasekhaya, kwanokuba bebenenjongo yokuba umntwana wabo abe ngoyena uphambili ekunyamekeleni isilwanyana.
Iindleko Zemali: Inkcitho Yokuba Nesilwanyana Sasekhaya
Ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya kunokubiza imali eninzi. Iindleko zokutya, izinto zokudlala, ukuzilungisa, kunye nokunyanyekelwa kwezilwanyana zinokunyuka ngokukhawuleza, kwaye iintsapho ezininzi zisenokungakwazi ukuhlawulela umthwalo wemali wobunini bezilwanyana zasekhaya. Abazali kufuneka baqwalasele iindleko zexesha elide zokuba nesilwanyana ngaphambi kokuba bangenise ekhaya, njengoko bengenako ukubonelela ngoncedo oluyimfuneko kunye nenkxaso yesilwanyana.
Ukwalana: Umngcipheko wokuphuhlisa iintshukumo zeAleji
Abantwana abaninzi abadibani nezilwanyana zasekhaya, kwaye ukuchanabeka kwizilwanyana kunokubangela ukuchasana kakhulu. Abazali kufuneka bathathele ingqalelo imingcipheko yempilo yobunini bezilwanyana zasekhaya, ngakumbi ukuba umntwana wabo unembali yokwaliwa. Ukwaliwa kusenokubeka ubomi esichengeni, kwaye abazali kufuneka bakulungele ukulawula naziphi na iingxaki zempilo ezinokubakho ezinxulumene nobunini bezilwanyana zasekhaya.
Ukhuseleko: Ukubanakho kokwenzakala okuNxulumene neSilo-qabane
Izilwanyana zasekhaya zisenokungacingelwa, yaye abantwana basenokungayiqondi indlela yokunxibelelana nazo ngokukhuselekileyo. Abantwana banokwenzakalisa ngempazamo okanye basicaphukise isilwanyana sasekhaya, nto leyo ekhokelela kukwenzakala kumntwana nakwisilwanyana. Abazali kufuneka babeke iliso kulo lonke unxibelelwano phakathi komntwana wabo kunye nesilwanyana sabo ukuze bathintele iingozi kunye nokwenzakala.
Ucoceko: Ucelomngeni LokuGcina Ucoceko
Izilwanyana zasekhaya zinokuba bubumdaka, kwaye abantwana basenokungakulungeli ukujongana nemiceli mngeni yococeko eza nobunini bezilwanyana zasekhaya. Izilwanyana zasekhaya zinokuphalaza uboya, zishiye inkunkuma, zize zisasaze iintsholongwane, nto leyo enokukhokelela kwiingxaki zempilo kumntwana nakwisilwanyana sasekhaya. Abazali kufuneka balungele ukucoca isilwanyana sabo rhoqo ukuze bahlale besempilweni kwaye bekhuselekile ekhaya.
ingxolo: Ukuphazamiseka kwengxolo yezilwanyana zasekhaya
Izilwanyana zasekhaya zinokuba nengxolo, kwaye abantwana basenokungakwazi ukumelana nokuphazamiseka kwemisebenzi yabo yemihla ngemihla. Izinja zinokukhonkotha, iikati zisenokugquma, kwaye iintaka zinokugquma, nto leyo enokuphazamisa kwaye iphazamise abantwana abafuna indawo ezolileyo negxile kwizifundo zabo kunye nemisebenzi.
Ixesha: UkuZibophelela Kwexesha Nengqalelo
Izilwanyana zasekhaya zifuna ixesha nengqalelo, kwaye abantwana basenokungakwazi ukunika ukhathalelo oluyimfuneko kunye nenkxaso kwisilwanyana. Izilwanyana zasekhaya zifuna umthambo, ixesha lokudlala, nokunxulumana, nto leyo enokuba nzima kubantwana abaxakekileyo okanye abasenokuphelelwa ngumdla kwisilwanyana sasekhaya ekuhambeni kwexesha. Abazali bamele bakulungele ukuthwala uxanduva oluninzi lwesilwanyana sasekhaya, kwanokuba bebenenjongo yokuba umntwana wabo abe ngoyena uphambili ekunyamekeleni isilwanyana.
Ukuncamathisela ngokweemvakalelo: Ubunzima bokuthi ndlela ntle
Izilwanyana zasekhaya ngamalungu athandwayo entsapho, kwaye ukuphulukana nesilwanyana kunokubaphazamisa ngokweemvakalelo ebantwaneni. Abazali bamele bakulungele ukunceda umntwana wabo akwazi ukuhlangabezana nokulahlekelwa sisilwanyana sasekhaya, nto leyo enokuba nzima yaye ibangele udandatheko kwintsapho iphela.
Ukuqukumbela: Ukuvavanya iiNgxaki kunye neeNgeniso zobuNini bezilwanyana zasekhaya
Ngelixa ukuba nesilwanyana sasekhaya kunokuba ngamava amnandi kubantwana nakwiintsapho, akusoloko yeyona ndlela ilungileyo. Abazali kufuneka baqwalasele ngononophelo izinto ezingeloncedo ngobunini besilwanyana ngaphambi kokuzisa umhlobo onoboya ekhayeni labo. Umthwalo wokunonophela, iindleko zemali, imingcipheko yempilo, iinkxalabo zokhuseleko, imingeni yococeko, ukuphazamiseka kwengxolo, ukuzibophelela kwexesha, nonxulumano olungokweemvakalelo olunxulunyaniswa nobunini bezilwanyana zasekhaya zonke kufuneka zilinganiswe ngononophelo ngaphambi kokuba kwenziwe isigqibo.