Iikati kunye nabantwana

Iikati zingamaqabane axabisekileyo ebantwaneni. Kodwa abantwana kufuneka baqale bafunde ukuthwala uxanduva lwesilwanyana nokuhlonela iimfuno zaso. Unokufunda apha indlela abantwana abaneminyaka emingaphi abanokuxhasa ngayo abazali babo ekunyamekeleni ikati kwaye yeyiphi imigaqo emele ibekho.

Ukukhula kunye nekati kuneziphumo ezininzi ezintle kubantwana. Kwelinye icala, bafunda kwangethuba ukuthwala uxanduva lomnye umntu ophilayo, nto leyo ebenza bazithembe ngakumbi kwaye bavuleleke engqondweni. Ukongezelela, kunye nekati ecaleni kwabo, baneqabane lobomi bonke: iikati zithuthuzela umphefumlo, izazi zengqondo kwii-velvet paws. I-purr yabo iyapholisa, ukubabukela bedlala kuyonwabisa.

Kodwa ngayo yonke imiphumo emihle ekhoyo xa abantwana bekhula kunye neekati, umntu akufanele akhohlwe iimfuno zekati. Abantwana kufuneka baqale basebenzise ukujongana nekati kwaye bafunde ukuhlonipha iimfuno zabo. Kufuneka uqonde ukuba iikati azizozilwanyana ezixutywe. Ngoko ke, kufuneka ufumane ikati kuphela ukuba uye wazichaza ngokweenkcukacha kwangaphambili kwaye ufundise abantwana bakho indlela yokujongana nesilwanyana ngokufanelekileyo.

Umntwana ulungele ikati xa eneminyaka emingaphi?

Ukuba ikati sele isendlini xa umntwana ezalwa, umntwana uya kukhula ngokwemvelo kunye nekati. Ukuba ugqiba ekubeni ube nesilwanyana sasekhaya emva kokuba umntwana ezelwe, kunengqiqo ukulinda de umntwana abe malunga neminyaka emithathu ubudala ngaphambi kokuthenga enye. Kule minyaka, unokukwazi ukuchazela umntwana ukuba ikati ayiyona into yokudlala engaphiliyo, kodwa ingumntu ophilayo kunye neemfuno zayo, ongafanele uvuke nje, umzekelo, xa uziva uthanda ukudlala nesilwanyana. Kakade ke, oku kunokwahluka ukusuka kumntwana ukuya kumntwana.

Umntwana kunye nekati

Nabantwana besikolo sangaphambi kokufunda banokufunda indlela yokuphatha iikati ngobumnene nangendlela efanelekileyo kwiintlobo zabo. Kubalulekile ukuba abazali bafundise umntwana ngokufanelekileyo, bambonise indlela yokubetha ikati ngokufanelekileyo, indlela yokuyithabatha ngokucophelela, kunye nokuchazela umntwana iimpawu zobuso ezibaluleke kakhulu kunye neempawu zolwimi lomzimba wekati.

Umntwana osesikolweni, phantsi kwesikhokelo kunye nokujongwa kwabazali, unokunceda kancinci ngokunyamekelwa kwekati, umzekelo ukunika ikati ukutya okomileyo okanye ukuhlanjululwa kunye nokuzalisa isitya samanzi. Ngale ndlela, umntwana ufunda kwangethuba ukuba isilwanyana sasekhaya asiyonwabisi nje kuphela kodwa nomsebenzi ekufuneka wenziwe rhoqo.

Abantwana beli xesha bathanda ukudlala neekati kakhulu. Intonga yekati, umzekelo, ifanelekile ngokukodwa njengento yokudlala, njengoko kukho ingozi encinci yokuba umntwana uya kukhatywa yikati edlalayo. Ukudlala ngebhola encinci kuyathandwa ngokufanayo. Abantwana abaninzi abancinci bayakonwabela ukugonwa nekati esofeni ngokuhlwa. Ukubetha uboya, kunye ne-purr ethambileyo, kukhulula kwaye kukuvuyisa.

Abantwana abadala kunye nekati

Ukukhula komntwana, kokukhona kukho amathuba onxibelelwano phakathi kwekati nomntwana. Ikati idla ngokuba ngumntu othembekileyo ophulaphulayo xa umntwana eneengxaki, umntu onokuthetha naye ngomfundisi onyamezela ngomonde xa ubuhlungu bokuqala bubunzima emphefumlweni, kwaye umntu omncinci ufuna "ukuthetha".

Izifundo ezininzi sele zibonise impembelelo entle yeekati kubantwana. Ikati inokwenza imimangaliso, ngakumbi kubantwana abakwiimeko ezinzima zobomi, njengoqhawulo-mtshato lwabazali babo okanye iingxaki esikolweni.

Abantwana abahamba isikolo ngokuthe ngcembe banokubandakanyeka ngakumbi nangakumbi ekunyamekeleni nasekunyamekeleni ikati. Kulapho ukutya kunye nokuzilungisa kunceda khona. Isenokufunda nokucoca ibhokisi yenkunkuma rhoqo emva koko. Ngale ndlela, umntwana ufunda ukuthatha uxanduva lomntu ophilayo.

Nangona kunjalo, abantwana abangaphantsi kweminyaka eyi-16 akufanele balindeleke ukuba banakekele ikati ngokuzimeleyo kwaye ngaphandle koncedo lwabazali babo. Ngoko ayilongcamango ilungileyo ukufumana ikati nje “yabantwana”. Intsapho yonke kufuneka ibe nomdla ngeekati, kuba uninzi lomsebenzi, njengokunyuka kwemigudu yokucoca ngenxa yenkunkuma yekati kunye neenwele zekati ezijikelezayo, zishiywe kubazali.

Imithetho Yabantwana Xa Usebenza Nekati

Abazali kufuneka babeke imithetho ecacileyo yokuphatha ikati ukusuka ekuqaleni ukuphepha ukuba umntwana agxininise ikati kakhulu, nto leyo enokubangela ukusabela okukrakra kwisilwanyana. Umzekelo, zinokujongeka ngolu hlobo:

• Ukuba ikati ilele okanye idla, akufanele uyiphazamise.
• Akufunekanga uhlekise okanye ukulimaze ikati, kungenjalo, iya kuzilwela, ikukrwempa, okanye ikulume.
• Ibhokisi yenkunkuma ayivumelekanga. Asiyobhokisi yesanti yokudlala. Ukuba ikati ifuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese, akufanele uyimise kwaye akufanele uphazamise ikati ngelixa "isenza umsebenzi wayo".
• Ipowuti yokukrwela yindawo yetaboo. Xa ikati ilele apho, ifuna ukushiywa yodwa.
• Ukunyuka kwisithuba sokukrwela akuvumelekanga, oku akukhuseli kuphela indawo yokuphumla kwekati kodwa kukhusela umntwana ekuweni.
• Ingaba ikati ivunyelwe kwigumbi labantwana okanye ayixhomekeke kuncinci kwiminyaka yobudala kunye nomoya wekati kunye nothando lomntwana lomyalelo. Izilwanyana ezincinci ziyathanda ukuhlafuna iithoyi zeplastiki ezincinci kwaye zinokwenzakala empilweni ukuba iindawo ezincinci ziyaginywa.
• Imeko ifana nombuzo wokuba ikati ingakwazi ukulala kwi-cot okanye cha. Abazali abaninzi banenkxalabo yococeko apha, kodwa ngokulungiswa kakuhle, ukugonywa, ukugonywa, kunye nekati engenama-parasite ehlala kuphela endlwini, akukho nto inokuthi ithethwe ngayo.
• Umntwana kufuneka afunde ukukulumkela ukuba angayitshixi ikati engacinganga kwigumbi okanye isilwanyana sinokungavunyelwa ukungena kwindlu yangasese.
• Ngokunjalo, umntwana kufuneka ayalelwe ukuze afunde kwiikati zangaphakathi ukuba angavele avule iingcango ezikhokelela ngaphandle.
• Emva kokuphulula ikati kwaye rhoqo ngaphambi kokutya okanye ukulala, hlamba izandla zakho kakuhle.

Icebiso: Nokuba uyiphatha ngononophelo ikati, imikrwelo enye okanye emibini iya kuba yinto engenakuphepheka kungekudala. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ube nesibulali-ntsholongwane esandleni esingatshi ngokungathandekiyo xa sisetyenziswa. Ngaphandle koko, kuya kubakho iinyembezi ezingakumbi. I-Octenisept engenambala izibonakalise apha.

Ukulunywa kwekati kusoloko kuyingozi ngenxa yeentsholongwane ezikhoyo kumqolo womlomo wekati kunye nejelo elimxinwa lokugqobhoza elishiywe ngamazinyo. I-Disinfect ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kwaye, ukuba uyathandabuza, qhagamshelana nodokotela wabantwana, kuba, nangona ukukhutshwa ngokukhawuleza kwe-disinfection, ukuvuvukala okukhulu kudla ngokukhula, okudinga unyango.