UMary Allen
Ungaguquguquki, uvuze kwaye usebenzise amaqhinga ambalwa: Uqeqesho lwekati luhlala luvakala lula kunokuba lunjalo. Ngamanye amaxesha uziva ngathi awukwazi ukuya phambili. Isazi sengqondo sekati sinokunceda - kodwa kufuneka udibane nini?
Iikati zaziwa ngokuba neenkani kakhulu. I-velvet paw nganye inengqondo yayo kwaye ayikukhathalelanga ukukholisa abantu - ngokungafaniyo nezinja. Kunokuba nzima ngokuhambelanayo ukuba ufuna ukuqeqesha isithandwa sakho ziphatha ngendlela ethile okanye hayi. Le yingxaki enkulu ukuba, umzekelo, inzipho zakho zevelvet ziyakrwempa ifenitshala, uhlala echama kwigumbi, okanye akahambelani nezinye iikati endlwini.
Nazi ezinye iingcebiso kuCkuQeqesho
Emva koko lixesha lokufuna uncedo. Enye into enokwenzeka kukuba ufumane iingcebiso kwabanye abanini beekati - umzekelo kwi-Intanethi. Nangona kunjalo, khumbula ukuba ayingabo bonke abahlobo abanemilenze emine abafanayo. Iingxoxo kunye neeforamu ze-intanethi ziyindawo enkulu yokudweba kwizifundo ezifundwe kuluntu jikelele xa kuziwa kuqeqesho lwekati. Kodwa lumka: Isiqingatha solwazi oluyingozi lunokuphinda lubekho apha. Kuyacetyiswa apha naphaya ukuba kufuneka uthethise ngokuvakalayo okanye ucinezele okanye ubethe ikati ukuba ibonisa ukuziphatha okungafunekiyo kwakhona - kufuneka ukuphephe oku ngazo zonke iindleko! Kwakhona, isohlwayo ngokudutyulwa kwi amanzi umpu unga umva. Unokwenza ukuba ukuziphatha kube nzima kwaye ufake uloyiko kwikati yakho.
Ingaba iCat Psychologist inganceda nini?
Kufuneka usebenzise umgaqo womvuzo kuphela xa uqeqesha iikati. Ukuba isithandwa sakho sibonisa ukuziphatha okufunwayo, unokumkhuthaza ngokuncoma okanye ukunyanga, umzekelo. Ukuba awukaboni iziphumo ngolu qeqesho emva kweeveki ezine, kunengqiqo ukufuna iingcebiso kwisazi sengqondo sekati. Oku kudla ngokuba lula ukuthetha kunokukwenza. Ngenxa yokuba ubuchwephesha bengqondo yengqondo yekati okanye ingcali yezilwanyana ayikhuselwanga ngurhulumente - ithiyori wonke umntu unokuvele abanike esi sihloko. Nika ingqalelo kuqeqesho kunye neembekiselo zomfundisi wekati ozikhethelayo. Kwincoko yobuqu, ungafumanisa ngcono ukuba unaye na ingcali ekufutshane - themba amathumbu akho.