UMary Allen
Ngaba ikati yakho iyakuncancisa, ingubo yakho, okanye ijezi yakho? Oku ayisosizathu se-alarm. Ngaphezu kwako konke, kubonisa ukuba uziva ekhululekile yaye ekhuselekile. Oku kuziphatha kukubambezeleka kwasebuntwaneni bekati yakho xa wayeziva ezithembile kakhulu xa encanca ibele likamama.
Kwiikati ezindala, nangona i ukuziphatha “Inzima kakhulu”, ayilophawu lwesifo okanye ukuphazamiseka. Kuphela lintshontsho lekati eligcine impumlo enoboya.
Kutheni Ikati Yam Incanca kum?
ngakumbi ukuba ukhulise usana lwakho ngebhotile, lusenokuncanca kamva. Indlela yokuziphatha inefuthe elizolileyo kumhlobo wakho onemilenze emine - efana kakhulu nokufunxa ubhontsi wakho okanye i-pacifier kubantwana abancinci babantu. Ke yithathe njengokuncoma xa ikati yakho ikufunxa: luphawu lokuba uziva ekhuselekile kwaye ekhuselekile kunye nawe.
Ngokuqhelekileyo, umama wekati uyawalumla amantshontsho akhe “kwindawo yobisi” nje ukuba ekhule ngokwaneleyo ukutya kwekati. Uhambisa iimpama ezithambileyo kodwa eziqinileyo (ngaphandle kokumolula uzipho ), tswina, kwaye iphakame kamsinya nje yakuba intshontsho lekati lisondela emibeleni yalo. Ukuba intshontsho alikhange libe naso esi sigaba sokulunyulwa ngenxa yokuba liye laphulukana nonina kwangoko, lahlukaniswa naye kwangethuba, okanye laliwa, liya kuqhubeka nokuncanca kamva njengekati ekhulileyo.
Xa uphulula ikati, ilikhumbuza ngolwimi lukanina lwekati, oluphulula uboya bayo ngothando ngoxa isela ubisi. Ngenxa yoko, ngokukhawuleza uqala ukufunxa eyona nto ilungileyo elandelayo. Umzekelo, kukho:
- umnwe
- indlebe
- T-shirt okanye ijezi
Ukuziphatha kokulunyulwa: Ngaba inokwenzeka?
Ukuba awufuni ukuba ikati yakho incancise, unokubambelela kwinqanaba lokulunyulwa. Okukhona indlwana yakho yevelvet ikhula, kokukhona kufuneka ube nomonde ngakumbi ukuze oku kusebenze. Ngokukhawuleza ukuba ikati iqala ukuncancisa, uyayitsala "i-spare pacifier" kwaye ume ngeenyawo. Emva kweeveki ezimbalwa, impumlo yoboya kufuneka iqonde ukuba ukufunxa akufuneki.
Nangona kunjalo, indlela yokuziphatha ayinabungozi nakubani na kwaye yenza ikati yakho izive ikhuselekile kwaye ikhuselekile. Endaweni yokumkhwelisa kulo mkhwa ngokupheleleyo, ulungelelwano lukwayindlela yokukhetha: nikeza umhlobo wakho onoboya into yokudlala okanye isikipa esidala esivela kuwe, umzekelo, anokuthi afunxe kumxholo wentliziyo yakhe. Ke ihlosi lakho elithandekayo lonwabile ngaphandle kokuba iijezi zakho ozithandayo zonakaliswe.