UMary Allen
Ukuba ikati yangaphandle ibonakala kancinci nangaphantsi, inokuba ifumene elinye ikhaya. Nantsi indlela yokuphepha oku kwaye wenze ntoni ukuba ikati yakho iqala ukubhadula.
Ukuba umntwana wakho ufika engenakhaya rhoqo, kukho into engalunganga. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zokuba iikati zihlala ngaphandle iintsuku ezininzi, kwaye akusoloko kuyimbangela yokukhathazeka. Kodwa ukuba ikati ihlala kude nekhaya ixesha elide kwaye ixesha elide kwiiveki, inokuba iyafuduka. Funda apha into onokuyenza ngoku.
Kutheni Iikati Zifuduka?
Iikati aziwatshintshi amakhaya ngaxeshanye – yinkqubo kancinane iiveki okanye iinyanga. Ikati ibonakala incinci kwaye incinci kwaye ngexesha elithile yada yanyamalala ngokupheleleyo. Ukuba ikati ayisaziva inamathele kumntu wayo okanye kwikhaya layo, oku kuhlala kubangelwa zezi zizathu zilandelayo:
- Abantu abangabaziyo bayondla ikati yakho kwaye bayingenise endlwini.
- Utshintsho ekhaya luyongamela ikati.
- Ikhaya lakho liyadika kakhulu.
- Ubudlelwane nomntu wereferensi bubuthathaka kakhulu.
- Ezinye iikati zikhuphisana nomhlaba kunye nekati yakho.
Le yindlela owenza ngayo ngoku
Nokuba sithini na isizathu sekati sakho sokufuduka kunye nokukhetha ikhaya elitsha, unokuhlala ukuthintela okubi kwaye uphumelele ikati yakho. Fumana isizathu sokuba ikati yakho ifuduke kwaye wenze ngokufanelekileyo.
Abantu ongabaziyo Yondla Ikati Yakho
Kukungahambeki ngokupheleleyo, kodwa ngelishwa, kuyenzeka kwakhona: Abasemzini bondla ikati engeyoyabo kwaye mhlawumbi bayivumele ingene kwigumbi okanye endlwini. Ukuba ikati ifumana ukutya okungcono okanye ingqalelo engaphezulu apho kunasekhaya, oku kunokuba sisizathu sokuba ifuduke.
Ukuba ukrokrela ukuba kukho umntu otyisa ikati yakho, kufuneka umfumane ngoko nangoko loo mntu. Ngembeko jongana naye kwaye umchazele ukuba oku akulunganga. Ukondla iikati ezingaqhelekanga akulotyala ngokwalo. Nangona kunjalo, ungafaka isikhalazo ukuba ikati yakho ihlala yondliwa ngokucwangcisiweyo kwaye itsaliwe.
Uthathwa njengomnini wekati kwaye unelungelo lokuchitha ixesha kunye nesilwanyana sakho. Ukurhwebesha ikati yakho kunyhasha amalungelo akho epropathi. Emva koko unokhetho lokufakela i-suit suit kwaye wenze ukuba ikati yakho ivalwe ukuba yondliwe ngabantu ongabaziyo.
Kwangaxeshanye, kufuneka uzame ukwenza ikhaya lakho libe nomtsalane kwaye linomdla kwakhona kwikati yakho.
Utshintsho eKhaya
Isilwanyana esitsha, umntwana, okanye iqabane elitsha linokugxininisa ikati. Ngenxa yokuba iikati ngokuzenzekelayo ziphepha iimeko ezingathandekiyo, ikati ephazamisekileyo inokufuna ikhaya elitsha.
Kakade ke, ezinye iinguqulelo ekhaya azitshintshi, njengokuba nosana okanye iqabane elitsha. Kodwa unokwenza imeko ibe mnandi ngakumbi kwikati yakho: zama ukumphatha kakuhle ngaphandle kwayo yonke into kwaye uqhubeke usebenza naye. Kuba ukuba ufumana ikati, unoxanduva lwesilwanyana ubomi baso bonke.
Unako kwakhona ukuqhela ikati ngokuthe ngcembe kwiqabane lakho elitsha. Ekuqaleni, uyeka nje, emva koko umntu uhlala nawe kunye nekati yakho ixesha elide. Kungoko kuphela abanokusondelana ngokucothayo bobabini. Ukutya okuncinci kuya kunceda ukuqhekeza umkhenkce.
Kuyadika Ekhaya
Rhoqo, iikati zasimahla zihamba xa zidiniwe ekhaya. Ayikho ikati ethanda ikhaya elinyumba! Izilwanyana zifuna iindawo zokukhwela kunye nezizimele. Isithuba sokukrwempa esifanelekileyo sinokubaluleka. Yonke ikati ifuna iqonga elincinci lokujonga apho inokubona igumbi lonke.
Iikati ubukhulu becala zibona imeko yazo ngeempumlo. Izityalo ezithile zinevumba elimnandi ezithanda ukusezela iikati. Oko kuyamonwabisa. Nokuba ikati yakho ingaphandle, ikhaya elinomdla, elinomdla libalulekile kuye.
Ubudlelwane obubuthathaka noMnini
Ukuba ibhondi kunye nomnini wayo iyancipha, kunokwenzeka ukuba ikati ifuduke. Abanini beekati bahlala becinga ngempazamo ukuba akufuneki bajongane neekati zabo ngaphandle. Ngapha koko, ikati iyazinyamekela. Le ngcinga ayilunganga: neekati zangaphandle zakha ubudlelwane obusondeleyo kunye nomnini wazo.
Ukuba uqaphela ukuba ikati yakho incinci kwaye incinci ekhaya, kufuneka udlale ngayo kwaye uyilobe rhoqo. Zininzi iindlela zokubonisa uthando lwekati yakho. Zama ukunxulumana naye ngaphandle kokutya ukuba kunokwenzeka.
Ezinye iikati ezikuMmandla
Ezinye iikati zinokukhupha izilwanyana zazo kwindawo yazo. Ikati yakho nayo inokufuduka ngenxa yoku. Idla ngokuba ziikati ezincinci ezigxotha izilwanyana ezindala. Kule meko, unokwenza indawo ikhuseleke ngakumbi kwikati yakho.
Ucango lwekati luvumela ikati yakho ukuba ibuyele kwikhaya elikhuselekileyo nangaliphi na ixesha xa kukho ingozi. Ukuba ume phambi kocango oluvaliweyo xa ikati iziva isongelwa, uya kukhangela enye indawo yokuzimela kwixesha elizayo.
Ngaphambi kokuba uvumele ikati yakho iphume kwindlu, kufuneka ukhangele ukuba kukho ezinye iikati ezikufutshane ezinokuba yingozi kuyo. Sondela kubo ngokukhuselekileyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza, iikati ezingaqhelekanga ngokuqinisekileyo ziya kurhoxa ngokwazo. Kuphela xa unxweme lucacile unokukhulula ikati yakho.
Ukubanjwa kweNdlu kubaKhululwa
Qaphela ukuba ikati yakho iya kubhadula ngokuthe ngcembe ukuba uyigcina ekhaya ixesha elithile. Kodwa oku kunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba ikhaya lakho lenzelwe umtsalane ngokwenene kwikati yakho. Ukuba le mfuno ifezekisiwe, kufuneka uthathe amanyathelo angaphezulu.
Ungazondla ngemilinganiselo emincinci rhoqo ukuthintela ukukruquka. Kwakhona, iikati ezininzi ziyathanda ukuzilungiselela ukutya. Oku kusebenza, umzekelo, kunye nezinto zokudlala zobukrelekrele okanye iipads zokuphunga.
Iikati ziyathanda ukusezela: zinike ivumba elimnandi nelinika umdla ngezityalo ezikhethekileyo. Kuya kufuneka uyikhathalele ikati yakho buqu: dlala kunye kwaye ubambe ngayo. Ukuba uhlakulela ubudlelwane bokwenyani kunye nekati yakho engasekelwanga ekutyeni kuphela, kukho ithuba elihle lokuba ikati yakho ayiyi kubhadula.
Kuphela kuxa ubudlelwane phakathi kwekati nomntu buzinzile kwakhona kwaye ikati ibonakala ngathi isekhaya inokuphinda ikhutshwe eflethini kwakhona.
Le yindlela Ikati Yakho Ehlala Ngayo Nawe
Kwimeko engcono kakhulu, ikati ayikhe ihambe kwasekuqaleni. Kubalulekile ukuba ikati ihlale ihleli ekhaya. Njengeekati zangaphakathi, iikati zangaphandle zihlakulela ubudlelwane obunzulu kunye nabanini bazo kwaye zifuna ingqalelo yazo.
Ukuba ikati ivakalelwa kukuba ikhuselekile ekhaya, ayinaso isizathu sokuhamba. Qinisekisa ukuba ikati yakho ingangena endlwini nanini na - umzekelo ngomnyango wekati. Ukuba kukho amathoyizi anomdla, iindawo zokufihla kunye nokunyuka, kunye nendawo ekhululekile yokulala, ikati yakho iya kuvuya ngokubuya.
Kuya kufuneka uyithathe ngokungathí sina ukuba ikati yakho ibonakala incinci kwaye incinci ekhaya. Fumana unobangela wokubhadula kwekati yakho kwaye wenze konke onako ukwenza ukuba ikati yakho ikhululeke xa nawe kwakhona.