UMary Allen
Iintlungu ezininzi zinokudanjiswa ngobushushu okanye ngeepakethi ezibandayo. Thetha nogqirha wakho wezilwanyana malunga noko bakucebisayo kwimeko yakho ethile. Ngale ndlela ulapho inja yakho xa isentlungwini kwaye inokuthintela ukubandezeleka okuqhubekayo.
Ukuba ufuna ukufumana ikati kwindawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana, kufuneka ubenze bakubonise zonke iikati kutyelelo lwakho lokuqala. Eyona ndlela ilula kukufumana iikati, ezamkela iindwendwe ngokuthanda ukwazi kwaye zivumele ukuba ziphulule ngoko nangoko. Kodwa ngokukodwa kwindawo yokukhusela izilwanyana, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ingqalelo kwiikati ezizolileyo.
Iikati ezininzi zineentloni
Iikati ezilinde ngokuzolileyo ngasemva kwindawo yokuhlala aziyonto ngaphandle kokhetho lwesibini! Khawufane ucinge ufika ekhaya kodwa isitshixo sakho asisangeni. Usapho lwakho, yonke into ebibalulekile ebomini bakho iphelile. Ushiyeke ungenanto… Ngaba unokuba kwimeko yodliwano-ndlebe olunempumelelo ngoku? Le yimeko kanye imeko iikati ezikwiindawo zokuhlala ezizifumana zikuyo.
Izilwanyana ezimbalwa kakhulu apho ziziswa ngumnini onothando oye wazama ngelize ukuphepha ukwahlukana. Iikati ezifunyenweyo ziyongamele-ezilahliweyo, izilwanyana ezilahliwe ngenkohlakalo, ezothuke kakhulu kwaye zoyike emva koko zakufumanayo. Kodwa zilele iingonyama zesofa ezincamathelayo ezifuna kuphela ukunyibilika kancinci ngaphambi kokuba zinike umntu ithemba elipheleleyo kwakhona. Kodwa umonde unomvuzo.
Indawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana yimeko ekhethekileyo
Ngomntu oqondayo ecaleni kwabo, kwindawo ebenza bazive bekhuselekile, ikati iya kufumana amava angalunganga. Kodwa indawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana ayiyona ndawo ifanelekileyo kule nto, nangona yonke imizamo yabagcini. Kukho izilwanyana ezininzi kwindawo encinci, uxinzelelo oluninzi, amavumba amaninzi kunye nengxolo. Kwiikati ezininzi, iphupha labo elibi kwindawo yokuhlala lihlala lihlala.
Bafihla, bazame ukuzenza "bangabonakali". Abaninzi bazisindisa ngokuzihoya ngokupheleleyo kubo, ngokusuka nje bangahoyi ezinye iikati kwaye ngaphezu kwabo bonke abantu abangabaziyo abahlala bemi phambi kwabo. Ngelishwa, bafanele ukwenza "udliwano-ndlebe lwesicelo" kunye naba bantu malunga nokwamkelwa okunokwenzeka.
Kwakhona, khangela "Cinderella"
Abantu abafuna iqabane lokuhlanjululwa basenokuba nombono ocacileyo wokuba luhlobo luni lwekati abalufunayo phambi komnyango wokukhusela izilwanyana - kuphela ukulibala ngokukhawuleza emva komnyango. Kukho amantshontsho ekati agxalathelana ukuya kundwendwe enomtsalane womntwana kwaye (phantse asoloko) ngokukhawuleza asonge amanqina awo amancinci ngakuwo.
Ngezilwanyana ezindala, ezizithembileyo, ezongameleyo, zizityhalela phambili, ziyalibona ithuba lazo kwaye zilisebenzisa ngokuqhubekayo. Bakuphulula imilenze yakho, bafuna ukuwolwa, kwaye purr "Ndikhuphe apha" kuzo zonke ii-pitches kuba bayazi ukuba undwendwe olonwabileyo lunokuba litikiti labo lobomi obutsha.
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, abanamahloni, abanomdla, abadala, abalimele ngengqondo, abangakwaziyo ukuzibonakalisa ngokugqibeleleyo njengekati eliphuphayo, banesandla esibi.
Iingcebiso ezi-4 zokwenza ukhetho kwindawo yokuhlala
Nangona kunjalo, ukuqinisekisa ukuba uyifumana ngokwenene ikati yakho yamaphupha kwindawo yokuhlala yezilwanyana, kufuneka ulandele le migaqo ilandelayo:
- Cinga kwangaphambili ukuba yeyiphi ikati efanelekileyo ebomini bakho kunye nento onokumnika yona. Ungazibeki phantsi koxinzelelo njengokuthi “Ngale ntsasa ndiya kwindawo yokuhlala izilwanyana kwaye ndiza kufumana ikati”.
- Kwindawo yokuhlala, thatha ixesha lokujonga kwaye wazi iikati. Zive ukhululekile ukutyelela iikati apho iintsuku ezininzi.
- Musa “ukuqinisekiswa” yikati yokuqala ezithembileyo esondelayo.
- Thatha ujongo olukhethekileyo kwiikati ezigciniweyo ngasemva. Ukuba kuyimfuneko, yiza izihlandlo ezininzi - kungenjalo, unokuphoswa kukufumana ubomi bonke.
Musa ukukhetha ikati njengesipho seKrisimesi
Yinyaniso ebuhlungu: iikati ezinikelwe ngeKrisimesi ziphelela kwiindawo zokuhlala ngoJanuwari mva nje!
- Ixesha leKrisimesi, kunye neendwendwe ezininzi kunye nesiphithiphithi endlwini, lelona xesha libi kakhulu lokuthatha ikati kusapho.
- Abantwana kunye nabantu abancinci ngakumbi banombono ongalunganga wokuba ungakanani umsebenzi kunye nokuqwalaselwa kwezilwanyana ekhaya.
- Abantwana abancinci basonganyelwa luxanduva lwekati; abantu abadala abanalo ixesha elaneleyo lokunyamekela ikati. Kungcono ukuba unike incwadi malunga neekati, ivawutsha "yekati yovavanyo" (ukhathalelo lweholide), yonke intsapho iya kukwazi ukuba i-catsuits.
- Ungaze unike ikati njengeqabane elithuthuzelayo kumntu owalupheleyo. Ikati ayithathi indawo yomntu, kwaye ukubanyamekela kudla ngokuba ngumthwalo ngakumbi njengoko bekhula.