Ava Williams
Abanini bezinja bayayazi imeko: izinja zabo zidlala nje ngokonwaba kunye kwaye ngequbuliso imo iyatshintsha: imeko yokudlala iyatshisa kwaye i-romp ephilayo ijika ibe ngukuzingela. Inja iyaleqwa, ikhonkothe ize iqwengwe zizo zonke ezinye. Inja engcungcuthekiswayo iba sesichengeni sokutsalwa nokuxhatshazwa lihlokondiba elingcungcuthekisayo yaye iphantsi koxinezeleko olukhulu. Iingcali zinika iingcebiso malunga nokuba ngabanini bezinja banokwenza ntoni kwimeko enjalo.
Ngena phambi kokuba imeko inyuke
Nangona ngokuqhelekileyo kuthiwa izinja zenza iimeko ezinjalo phakathi kwazo, oku kuyinyaniso ngokuyinxenye. Izinja ziyahluka ngobukhulu, amandla, unyamezelo kunye nobuntu. Ukuba izinja zokulwa zinesimo esifanayo kunye nomzimba, zinokusombulula ingxabano phakathi kwazo. Nangona kunjalo, imeko iyahluka ukuba Isilwanyana esixhatshaziweyo siyakwazi ukuzikhusela kwaye asikwazi ukumelana naso ngohlaselo lwabaxhaphazi abanemilenze emine. Apha ukungenelela komnini wayo kuyimfuneko. Kufuneka akhuphe inja yakhe kwimeko engathandekiyo okanye amnike ukhuseleko kwaye aqinisekise ukuba uyazola kwakhona.
Abanye abanini bezinja kufuneka bangenelele, bahlule izinja zabo kwiqela, kwaye "ziphole". Ngokwahlukileyo kwinja ekumgangatho ophantsi, izinja ezihlaselayo ngamanye amaxesha azikwazi ukuthomalaliswa lula ngokukhwaza. Kule meko, ukungenelela kuyafuneka. Thatha inja yakho izolile kwaye ngokuqinileyo ngaphandle kweqela. Ngaloo ndlela imeko inokuthotywa.
Iziphumo ezinokubakho zokungangeneleli
Zeziphi iziphumo ezinokusilela ukunika uncedo okanye ukusilela ekungeneleleni kunezinja? Inja exhatshazwayo inokulahlekelwa yintembelo kumntu wayo kwaye ihlala idibanisa iimeko ezinobungozi kunye nobukhulu kunye nokubonakala kwezilwanyana ezihlaselayo. Inja exhaphazayo, kwelinye icala, ifunda ukuba kulungile ukuxhaphaza ezinye izilwanyana kwaye ayiyi kumisa kumgqatswa obuthathaka olandelayo.
Iimbangela zokuxhatshazwa phakathi kwezinja
Baninzi oonobangela bokuxhatshazwa. Kwelinye icala, oku kunokuba lugqithiselo lwe ngqondweni phakathi kweqela, kodwa isenokuba malunga nokuhlawulela ubuthathaka bukabani. Ekugqibeleni, izinja ngelishwa zifunda ukuba ukuxhatshazwa kumnandi. Yingakho kubaluleke kakhulu ukuyeka izenzo ezinjalo ngokukhawuleza, ngaphandle koko, izinja ziya "kusindisa" kwaye zifune ukwenza kwakhona kwaye kwakhona.
Thintela iimeko zokuxhatshazwa
Ukuphepha iimeko zokungcungcuthekiswa kwasekuqaleni, kuyacetyiswa ukuba uyiqwalasele inja yakho ngokusondeleyo kwaye ungenelele ngexesha elifanelekileyo ukuba ezo ntshukumo zeqela ezingathandekiyo zisongela ukukhula. Xa udlala, unokubona kwiinja ukuba wonke umntu uyonwabile, nokuba iindima ziguqulwa ngokuphindaphindiweyo: ozingelwayo uba ngumzingeli kwaye ngokufanayo. Kuhle okanye kuyinzuzo ukuvumela izinja zidlale kunye iimfuno zomzimba ezifanayo, njengezinye, kwaye ziyahambelana ngokuthe ngqo.