UMary Allen
Kwinxalenye yokuqala yenqaku uye wafunda ukuba iikati ngokuqhelekileyo zisondela kwiikati ezingaqhelekanga ngokukrokra, ukuba amava amabi kunye nomnye kufuneka aphetshwe ukuba umntu ufuna ukukhuthaza ubuhlobo phakathi kweekati. Ufumene iingcebiso malunga nendlela yokukhetha ikati eliliqabane elifanelekileyo.
Ngoku nazi iingcebiso ezisebenzayo zokudibanisa.
Igumbi lolwamkelo
Lungiselela igumbi lokwamkela umntu omtsha. Ineendawo zokuhlala ezipholileyo, amanzi kunye nokutya, iibhokisi zenkunkuma, kunye nezixhobo zokukrwela.
Apha ikati entsha inokuchacha kulonwabo lohambo kwaye ikwazi ngcono kancinci.
Nceda ukhethe igumbi lokwamkela elingabalulekanga kangako kwikati / iikati zakho ezikhoyo.
Ucango lwegumbi lokwamkela luhlala luvaliwe de ikati entsha ibonakala ikhululekile kwaye ikhululekile. Kulapho kuphela apho intlanganiso yokuqala phakathi kweekati zakho iya kwenzeka, ngaphandle kokuba ikati yakho ekhoyo ibonakala ikhululekile kunye nentsha emva kocango.
Ukuhlangana okukhuselekileyo
Kungcono ukulungiselela i-backup yentlanganiso yokuqala phakathi kweekati. Faka (ozenzele) umnyango welatisi okanye umnatha wekati kwisakhelo socango. Iikati ziyayibona indlela yazo kulo mqobo, kodwa akukho nto inokonakala. Kwimeko embi kakhulu, enye yeekati iya kutyhutyha kwisithintelo okanye enye iya kubaleka, kodwa akunakubakho ukusukela kwaye akukho ukulwa. Oku kukuqinisekisa ukuba iikati zakho azinawo amava amabi kakhulu omnye komnye. Eso sisiqingatha sedabi kwindlela eya kubuhlobo!
Ekuqaleni, yenza ukudibana okukhuselekileyo okukhawulelwe ngexesha ukuya kwimizuzu embalwa. Ikati nganye ixhaswa ngumntu owabelwe yona, oyinikezelayo iphatha kwaye isasaze umoya ozolileyo. Kukwakho nezibiliboco xa abantu bekhalisa, bebhomboloza, okanye bejongeka boyika okanye benomsindo. Injongo yokuphatha kweli nqanaba kukuphucula isimo sengqondo kwaye ngaloo ndlela wenze unxibelelwano lobuhlobo lube lula. Umyalezo kufuneka ube: "Xa ubona le kati, izinto ezinkulu ziyenzeka kuwe!"
Nika iikati ithuba lokubonana kumgama weemitha ezininzi, ngakumbi xa ziqala ukudibana. Inokuba ziimitha ezintlanu ukuya kwezintandathu ukuba oko kuyenzeka. Okungakumbi kuya kuba ngcono ngakumbi!
Intlanganiso yokuqala ngaphandle komqobo wokhuseleko olwahlulayo lwenzeka kuphela xa iintlanganiso ezininzi kumqobo ziye zakhululeka kwaye zinobuhlobo. Kubalulekile ukuba ubone ukuba iikati zidibana ngokwenene kunye nomqobo. Ukuba abajongani kwaphela okanye baphume emehlweni, ayingophawu oluhle olo, nokuba lubonakala lunoxolo. Ukuba iikati ziyakunqanda ngokwenene ukudibana nezinye nasemva kweentsuku ezininzi kunye neendlela ezininzi zokunxibelelana, ke nceda ufumane inkxaso ngokucebisa ngokuziphatha.
Ukudibana Ngokuthe ngqo
Zama ukunika iikati indawo eninzi yokudibana kwazo okokuqala ngaphandle komqobo okhuselayo. Igumbi lokuhlala elikhulu elineengcango zegumbi elivulekileyo kuyo yonke indlu libonelela ngeendlela ezininzi zokurhoxa kunye nokubaleka kunegumbi elincinci elivaliweyo. Yaye olu khetho lunokunika imvakalelo yonqabiseko yaye ngaloo ndlela lufak’ isandla ekuphumleni.
- Vula ucango banzi phakathi kweekati ukuze bangadibani emnyango slot. Thatha umoya ophefumlelweyo kwaye, kunye nomntu oncedisayo, usasaze ukukhululeka, isimo sengqondo esihle.
Phucula imo kwakhona ngokuphatha, amagama azolileyo, okanye, kwimeko yeekati ezincinci, imidlalo ezolileyo. - Musa ukurhwebesha iikati omnye komnye, kodwa bancede bafumane umgama omkhulu ngokwaneleyo omnye komnye xa izinto zithe thaa kancinci. Ukuba baziva benjalo, banokuphinda basondelelane bebodwa.
- Phelisa ukudibana ngelixa yonke into ikhululekile ngokufanelekileyo. Emva koko unike iikati ikhefu - kwakumnandi kakhulu kwaye kucinezelekile kubo - ngaphambi kokuba ulungiselele ukudibana kobuso ngobuso kwiiyure ezimbalwa kamva okanye ngosuku olulandelayo.
- Phinda oku kudibana de iikati zizolile kwaye zinomdla kwaye zinobuhlobo kunye amaxesha amaninzi. Emva koko bakulungele ukuhlala kunye ixesha elide phambi kwakho kwaye bazane ngcono.
Ukudityaniswa kwiKhaya leekati ezininzi
Ukuba ungathanda ukudibanisa ikati kwikhaya elikhoyo elineekati ezininzi okanye ukongeza iikati ezininzi ezintsha kwesele likho, nceda ulandele la manyathelo okudibana achazwe ngasentla ngamnye neekati ezimbini ngexesha. Nangona oku kuthatha ixesha, kukukhusela kwimingcipheko emibini emikhulu enokwenza ukuhlangana kwakhona kube nzima kakhulu: Ukuba ikati enye idibana neekati ezimbini okanye ngaphezulu ezisele ziqhelene enye kwenye, umngcipheko wokungaqiniseki kwaye ngoko ukusabela ngokugqithiseleyo kuphezulu kakhulu. Olunye umngcipheko luhlaselo oluqondiswe ngokutsha, apho endaweni yokuba umntu ofikayo afumane ikati ethandwa ngokwenene okanye eyamkelekileyo ihlaselwe.
Fumana Uncedo Kwangethuba!
Xa uyila ukudibana kwakhona, ubeka iziseko zobudlelwane bexesha elizayo. Kufanelekile ke ngoko ukuba kuqhutyekwe ngocoselelo nangocoselelo kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Umcebisi wokuziphatha kwekati unokukunika iingcebiso ezibalulekileyo kwangoko kwinqanaba lokucwangcisa, ngakumbi ukuba awukwazi ngokwenene ukuba ikati yakho inokusabela njani kwenye ikati. Unokukunceda ukhethe igumbi lokwamkela elilungileyo kwaye uyile umqobo osebenzayo. Ngaphezu kwako konke, unokukunika imiyalelo ecacileyo malunga nendlela yokusebenzisa ukuphatha kunye nokunye okufana nokuphucula ngokufanelekileyo isimo sengqondo. Kukho iinkcukacha ezimbalwa ekufuneka ziqwalaselwe ezingaphaya kwemida yeli nqaku.
Nceda ufumane inkxaso ukuba ufuna ukwazisa ngaphezu kweekati ezimbini enye kwenye. Okukhona iikati zibandakanyeka, kokukhona uyilo luba nzima ngakumbi.
Kwaye nceda uqeshe umcebisi wokuziphatha kwamva nje ukuba ukuhlangana kwakhona akuhambi ngokulula njengoko ubulindele kwaye enye yeekati ibonisa uloyiko olukhulu okanye kukho ukuzingela kunye nokuhlaselwa. Iikati zakho akufuneki zilwe nantoni na ngoku! Kufuneka uyeke ukuzijonga njengeentshaba ngokukhawuleza ukuba kukho naliphi na ithuba lobuhlobo.
Ngelishwa, akunakwenzeka ukuthetha ngokubanzi ukuba yiyiphi imilinganiselo eluncedo kwiimeko ezinjalo. Kuxhomekeke kwinto ebangela ukuziphatha kweekati:
- Ngaba luhlaselo lomhlaba?
- Ngaba ukuphoxeka kunendima?
- Ngaba indlela yokuzingela iyatshintsha okanye ikati iziphatha ndlongondlongo ngokuzikhusela?
- Ngaba ikati eyoyikayo yoyika ngokufanelekileyo ngenxa yokuba isoyikiswa?
- Aqine kangakanani amanqanaba okuvuseleleka kweekati ezibandakanyekayo?
- Yintoni obuya kuyidinga ukuze ungeneke kwaye uvuleleke?
Ufanele ukwazi: awukwazi ukwenza yonke indibaniselwano ibe yimpumelelo. Ngoko ke, kufuneka uhlale unesicwangciso esilungileyo B esilungile ukuba kunokwenzeka uyeke ukuhlangana kwakhona. Kodwa kukho iinkqubo zokudibanisa zobunzima bentlalontle enokuvelisa iziphumo ezintle ngexesha elaneleyo kunye namathuba okuvuza. Ukwenza oku, nangona kunjalo, kufuneka zisetyenziswe ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
imbonakalo
Into eluncedo kolunye umanyano lunokoyisakala olunye. Khumbula ukuba amanyathelo okudibanisa kufuneka ahlale ehambelana nabantu, amava abo angaphambili, iimvakalelo zabo zangoku, kunye neemeko zakho zobuqu.
Kuhlawula ngokwenene ukutyala ixesha lakho kunye nobuchule ekuhlanganiseni iikati kunye.
Ngaba iiveki ezine, ezintandathu, okanye ezisibhozo zokumanyana ngobunono zinde kakhulu xa uvuzwa ngeminyaka emihlanu, elishumi, okanye elishumi elinesihlanu yobuhlobo benkabi?
Kwangaxeshanye, utyala imali kumgangatho wobomi beekati zakho, zombini ngexesha lokuhlalisana kwaye kamva ebomini kunye.