Ava Williams
Ukuze amacala omabini anandiphe ukuhlala kunye, kufuneka kubekho iqhina elizinzileyo phakathi kwabantu nezinja. Ngoko ke, xa injana ifudukela kwikhaya layo elitsha, ifuna ukuhoywa, umonde kunye nokungaguquguquki.
Ngale ndlela, unokubathemba abantu “bakhe,” yaye umanyano luya kukhula ngokuthe ngcembe. Ukudlala kunye nako kunokuba negalelo elikhulu.
Ukuvuselela umdla: Umqeqeshi wezinja uKatharina Queiber uyazi: “Iithoyi ezisoloko zifumaneka ngesisa ziyadika. Abanini bezinja ke ngoko kufuneka bagcine into yokudlala yesilo-qabane sabo esitsha ebhokisini, umzekelo, kwaye bayikhuphe imizuzu embalwa amaxesha amaninzi ngemini. Oku kwenza umdla kwinja encinci kwaye ifunda ukuba inkosi kunye nenkosikazi yakhe ayisoloko ifuna ukuzulazula nayo.
Yakha ukuthemba: Ukusondela kunye nokunxibelelana ngokomzimba ngexesha lomdlalo kwakha ukuthembana. "Abanikazi bezinja banokugoqa phantsi, bakhuthaze injana ukuba idlale, kwaye ivumele ukuba ikhwele phezu kwabo," ucebisa uQueißer. "Injana kufuneka ihlale ithatha isigqibo sokuba ifuna ukusondela kangakanani na." Ukuba umdlalo uba nomsindo kakhulu, kufuneka urhoxe ukuze ubonise inja imida yayo.
Nikeza ngendidi: Kwanohambo lwemihla ngemihla lungamava kwi-pup ukuba abantu "babo" bongeza umdlalo ngezikhathi ezithile: Ukugijima kunye nemidlalo yokunyakaza igcina inja ifanelekile kwaye yenza umhlobo onamanqindi amabini abe liqabane elinqwenelekayo. Khangela imidlalo ngokuphatha umngeni ngengqondo kumhlobo onemilenze emine kwaye ukhuthaze ukuya kwabo.
Bandakanya imfundo: Izinja ezincinci zisenokufunda ngokudlala imiyalelo yazo yokuqala. UQueiber uthi: “Ukufundisa iinjana zabo indlela yokukhupha amaxhoba, umzekelo, abanini bezinja banokuzikhuthaza ukuba zibeke izinto zabo zokudlala ezandleni zabo ngokutshintshiselana ngazo. “Kamsinya nje yakuba inja iliyekile ixhoba, kuvakala umqondiso othi, 'Suka!' kwaye ufumana umvuzo wakhe.
Ingaba idlala okanye kwiimeko zemihla ngemihla: Abanini bezinja ezintsha kufuneka bazenzele "iqabane leqela" elinomdla, elithembekileyo kwinjana ngaphandle kokubahlukumeza. Emva koko kubekwa isiseko somanyano oluhle.