UMary Allen
Nokuba ithambisa kangakanani na kwaye ithandeka kangakanani na - ikati iya kuhlala iyixhoba. Oku kucaca ngakumbi xa izingwe ezihlala endlwini ziluma. Ukunqanda ukwenzakala okumandundu, kufuneka ulumle inzipho yakho yevelvet kule ndlela yokuziphatha ngokukhawuleza.
Ngekati encinci kakhulu, isenokuba intle xa iluma isandla sakho ngesiquphe ngamazinyo ayo abuthathaka. Nangona kunjalo, kufuneka ukwaphule le ndlela yokuziphatha kwikati yakho kwangoko - kuba njengoko isiya isiba mdala, ukulunywa kunokuba buhlungu kakhulu. Ngoba ukuba umntu elunywe yikati, kunokuba nemiphumo emibi. Ngoko qalisa uqeqesho kwangethuba. Kumantshontsho ekati amancinci, ukutsala nje isandla sakho kude kuya kwanela ukuba aqala ukukungcamla ngelixa edlala. Kwiikati ezindala, kukho ezinye izinto ezimbalwa ekufuneka uyenzile.
Ungaze Ulume kwakhona: Ukuhambelana liLizwi lomlingo
Iikati zaziwa ngokoyika amanzi - sebenzisa eli thuba ukuba ufuna ukwahlukana nomkhwa wokuluma ikati yakho. Ngalo lonke ixesha inzipho zevelvet zitshonisa amazinyo ayo eluswini lwakho, zitshize ngamanzi athile, anje ngentengiso efumanekayo. umpu wamanzi kunye nebhotile yokutshiza. Lo mlinganiselo wemfundo ufuna ukunyamezela okukhulu kwicala lakho - isilwanyana siqhelana nokuluma kuphela xa sidibanisa la mava angathandekiyo kunye nayo rhoqo. Kwangaxeshanye, nangona kunjalo, ungaze ube nenzondo ukuba ufuna ukwaphula umkhwa wekati yakho: ukuba ikati yakho ifuna ukugonwa ngokukhawuleza emva koko, akufanele uyikhanyele imivumbo embalwa.
Nikeza iindlela ezizezinye zekati
Kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, ikati yakho iya kukuluma ngenxa yobundlobongela bokwenyani okanye nkqu. Oku kuyenzeka ngakumbi kuba efuna ukuphila ngokwethuku lakhe lokudlala. Le njongo unokuyibona ngokucacileyo kwizilwanyana ezincinci ngakumbi: ikati ibeka iindlebe zayo, amehlo ayo avulekile kwaye ihlasela ngokukhawuleza nangokuchanekileyo. Kwakhona kunokwenzeka ukuba ikati ngokukhawuleza isebenzisa amazinyo xa ukudlala ngabantu. Ukuba i-velvet paw yakho yenza oku kwaye ikulume isandla sakho, umzekelo, musa ukuyisusa ngokukhawuleza - oku kuya kukunika kuphela imikrwelo eyongezelelweyo. Kunoko, gcina isandla sakho sikhululekile ngokupheleleyo. Ikati iya kuthi ke iqwalasele "ixhoba" layo "lifile" kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo liya kuliyeka lihambe, likuvumela ukuba ulitsale ngobunono.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, kufuneka uphazamise ikati yakho kwaye unikeze ezinye iindlela ukwenzela ukuba iimeko ezinjalo ezibuhlungu aziveli kwindawo yokuqala. Umnike ikati yokudlala ukuze alume ngokusuk’ entliziyweni. Kuba ukuba ikati yakho inezinye iindlela ezinomdla, akanaso isizathu sokuphatha kakubi inkosi yakhe kunye nenkosikazi yakhe imidlalo yokubambisa amaxhoba – kwaye akunyanzelekanga ukuba wophule umkhwa wakhe wokuziphatha ngale ndlela.