UMary Allen
Yakuba inja ibe likhoboka lebhola, akulula kangako ukwahlukana nomkhwa wokuba likhoboka lawo it. Akunakwenzeka, kodwa kufuna umonde kunye nenkathalo eninzi. Ezi ngcebiso zilandelayo ziya kunceda umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine ukuba azole kwaye onwabele ubomi ngaphandle kokudlala ibhola.
Kwi-junkie yebhola, ibhola ngokwayo ayiyona ingxaki yokwenene, kodwa ukuxosha nokubulala "ixhoba". Ukuphosa ithoyizi eyahlukileyo akwanelanga ukwaphula indlela yokuziphatha ekhobokisayo. I ibhalansi yangaphakathi lomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine kufuneka ifundwe ukusuka ekuqaleni.
Ukulahlwa ngokupheleleyo kweBhola
Izinja eziye zangamaxhoba ebhola zinokufaniswa nabantu abakhotyokisiweyo, njengamakhoboka otywala. Abasenakuphinda bafunde indlela esempilweni, ephakathi yokudlala ibhola kunye nemidlalo yokungxama, indlela yokuziphatha ekhobokisayo iphume kakhulu ekulawuleni oko. Ukuphinda ubuyele kwiipatheni zokuziphatha ezindala, ezikhobokisayo kufuneka zihlale zilindelwe ukuba ijunki yebhola ivunyelwe ukubaleka iibhola okanye ezinye izinto. Ukuyiyeka ngokupheleleyo imidlalo enjalo kwixesha elizayo kungqamana noko kufane kubizwe ngokuba yingqele, enokunceda amanxila, iintshayi namakhoboka eziyobisi ukuba ahlukane nokukhotyokiswa. Nangona kunjalo, iijunki zebhola azixhomekekanga kangako ngokwasemzimbeni kwizinto ezithile njengoko zixhomekeke ngokwasengqondweni. Ukusombulula oku kunzima ngokulinganayo ebantwini nasezilwanyaneni – kodwa akunakwenzeka.
Inja yakho elikhoboka lebhola iphantsi rhoqo uxinzelelo kuba isoloko ijonge izinto ezihamba ngokukhawuleza ekwaziyo ukungxama yaye isoloko ikulungele ukuzingela, ngokungathi kunjalo. Akanakuyicinga enye into, ayikho enye into ebalulekileyo kuye. Oku kukwanika uxinzelelo kumnini kuba ubudlelwane kunye nomhlobo onemilenze emine bunengxaki yokuziphatha, okuthetha ukuba umntu omkhulu. ubuhlobo babantu-inja akunakwenzeka kwaye i-junkie yebhola iye yaba yinto engalindelekanga. Ukulahlwa ngokupheleleyo kwebhola kunye nokusukela imidlalo yindlela kuphela yokuba izinja ezichaphazelekayo zizolile kwaye zifunde ukuba kukho ezinye izinto ezintle ebomini kunebhola.
Nikeza iindlela ezizezinye zeNja kwiMidlalo yeBhola
Ukuba uyeka ngequbuliso ukudlala ibhola kwaye inja yakho ayinanto ibambela, oku akuyi kulukhulula uxinzelelo lwayo kwaye iya kukhangela ukwaneliseka endaweni yayo ngokuthanda kwayo-kweyona meko imbi kakhulu ukuleqa ummelwane. cat okanye ukuleqa iimoto emva kwakhe nokuba sengozini yengozi yendlela. Ukuba ufuna ukwaphula ngokusisigxina umlutha wenja yakho kwimidlalo yebhola, kufuneka umnike ezinye iindlela azonwabelayo, kodwa oko akumchulumancisi, kodwa mvumele ukuba azole. Iindlela zoqeqesho kunye nemidlalo efuna ukuba agxininise kwaye asebenzise iimvakalelo zakhe, kunye nemisebenzi eqinisa ubudlelwane bakhe nawe, ifanelekile kule nto.
Kwakhona, khumbula ukuba izinja akufuneki zonwatyiswe imini yonke - zihlala zichitha iiyure eziyi-18-20 ngosuku ziphumle. ukulala, okanye ukozela ngoxolo. Ngoko akuyomfuneko ukuba umgcine exakekile ngaphezu kweeyure ezine ukuya kwezintandathu, mhlawumbi nangaphantsi, ekubeni naye esitya, ehambahamba, okanye enandipha ukuzilungisa phakathi. Ixesha eliseleyo unokwenza ukusebenza ngeempumlo kunye naye kwiiyunithi zoqeqesho ezincinci, dlala imidlalo efihliweyo kwaye ingqiqo imidlalo, zama thobela uqeqesho okanye umsebenzi wezixhobo ezithuleyo. Imiphunga kunye nenja kwakhona indlela enkulu nezolileyo yokuphucula ukuthembana nokuqondana phakathi kwabantu nezilwanyana kwakunye nokukwazi kwenja ukuzikisa ingqondo. Ukuba uziva ukhululekile kulo msebenzi wedwa, ungesabi ukufuna uncedo kwingcali, ekhethekileyo dog umqeqeshi okanye isazi ngengqondo yezilwanyana.