UMary Allen
NgeKrisimesi, abaninzi abanikazi bezilwanyana bafuna ukwenza into enhle kubahlobo babo abanoboya. Ngoko ke kule mihla akuseyonto ingaqhelekanga xa inja, ikati, ihashe, okanye impuku ifumana ikhalenda yeAdvent xa kusondele iKrisimesi. Iikhalenda ngoku ziyafumaneka kwiivenkile ezininzi. Abanye abathandi bezilwanyana bayakwazi ukuyila kwaye bazenzele ikhalenda yabo yobuqu yokuphatha kunye nezinto zokudlala zabo babathandayo.
Umnyhadala wothando: Abanini bafuna ukwenza into elungileyo kwizilwanyana zabo
Xa kuziwa kwiikhalenda zokuza kwezilwanyana, abanye abanini banemikhwa engaqhelekanga ngokwenene. Kuyinto eqhelekileyo kubanikazi bezilwanyana ukuba izilwanyana zabo ezincinci okanye ezinkulu zifumana into ekhethekileyo ngexesha leKrisimesi. Ngokwenene, ukutyhubela iminyaka, izilwanyana ziye zathatha indawo yamalungu entsapho epheleleyo kuluntu.
Ishishini leKrisimesi alinanzuzo kakhulu kuthi bantu kuphela kodwa lidlala indima ebalulekileyo kwizilwanyana. Iikhalenda ze-Advent zezilwanyana ngoku azifumaneki kuphela kwi-Intanethi kodwa nakwiivenkile ezininzi. Ezinye ziqulathe amathontsi eyogathi yeempuku, ezinye ziqulathe ukuphatha kunye neekuki zezinja, ukanti, ezinye ziqulathe amathoyizi abo babathandayo. Iprezenteyishini iyafana nje nabantu. Oku kudla ngokuba yibhokisi yekhadibhodi eprintiweyo eneminyango engama-24. Ikhalenda yezilwanyana ixabisa phakathi kwe-7 kunye ne-20 ye-euro.
Unxibelelwano lweemvakalelo kunye nesilwanyana sidla ngokuba sisizathu sokuba abanini bafune ukunika izipho kunye nokuthambisa abahlobo babo abanoboya. Emva koko, ewe, abathandekayo bethu abaqondi ukuba yintoni iKrisimesi okanye ikhalenda ye-Advent ithetha ntoni. Abakhathali nokuba bazifumana phi iziphatho zabo. Kufuneka nje ulumke ungonakalisi abantu obathandayo kakhulu ngokutya okuncinci. Ekupheleni kosuku, kubalulekile ukuba sonke senze into entle kumhlobo wethu onoboya kumbhiyozo wothando. Kodwa kufuneka usoloko uzibuza ukuba ngaba ngokwenene wenzela isilwanyana sakho into elungileyo, okanye uyayenza kuba ucinga ukuba ilungile.