UMary Allen
Zibonakala zilungelelanisa ngokugqibeleleyo kubomi bethu bemihla ngemihla kwaye zingenamthungo kwiintsapho.
Sibathatha njengelinye ilungu loluntu kwaye bahlala sibaphatha njengomntu. Noko ke, asisoloko sizazi izinto abazifunayo okanye iimfuno zabo.
Ngokwahlukileyo kwizinja zethu, asikwazi ukuhlala sitolika indlela izithandwa zethu ezinoboya ezivakalelwa ngayo kwaye zeziphi iimvakalelo ezizikhathazayo okwangoku.
Umona kwizinja? ingaba ikhona na loo nto? Ewe, izinja nazo zinokuba nomona kwaye sifuna ukukucacisela iimpawu ezi-5 apha:
Inja yakho iqalisa ukugquma!
Ukuba umntu wakho omthandayo uyakhala okanye ukhala ngokukhawuleza, oku kungabonakalisa ikhwele.
Ubonisa ukuba uziva engahoywanga. Ukuba awuphinde uchithe ixesha elaneleyo naye ngenxa yokuba uvumele omnye umntu entliziyweni yakho.
Oku kungasebenza kubantwana, iqabane elitsha okanye esinye isilwanyana.
Inja yakho izama ukususa "umchasi"!
Nje ukuba ubambene nothando lwakho olutsha esofeni, umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine uza ebaleka aze azityhale phakathi?
Ukuba umthathe umkhenkethe kwaye ugobe ukuze ubulise enye inja, ngaba umtyhalela ecaleni umhlobo ongaqhelekanga onemilenze emine?
Nika isithandwa sakho esinoboya ngakumbi ingqalelo kwakhona, kuba unomona kwaye ufuna ixesha lakho kuye!
Ngaba inja yakho eyaphukileyo yenza ishishini layo kwigumbi lokuhlala?
Kwakhona ufuna ukutsala ingqalelo yakho ngesi senzo kuba uziva engahoywanga nguwe.
Akawenzi ishishini lakhe emva kwembiza yeentyatyambo, kodwa ngendlela yokuba ufanele ukhubeke kuyo!
Ukuthethisa akulunganga ngoku. Endaweni yoko, bekuya kumkhuthaza kuba nokumthethisa kufuna ukuba uthethe naye.
Ungaguquguquki, kodwa musa ukulususa uthando lwakho kuye!
Ngaba inja yakho ihlala ingena endleleni yakho?
Isibakala sokuba esoloko emi endleleni yakho sinokuba nezizathu ezahlukahlukeneyo. Une stress emsebenzini kwaye utshintshe ne routine yakho yemihla ngemihla kwaye akaziva ekhathalelwe njengakuqala.
Kodwa kunokuba njalo ukuba umntu omtsha ungene ebomini bakho kwaye uyakuthintela ukuba ufuna ukumnika ingqalelo yakho.
Zama ukumbandakanya ngakumbi ebomini bakho kwakhona.
Isithandwa sakho sibonakalisa ubundlongondlongo!
Ngoku kukho umlilo eluphahleni!
Awunakuyivumela le ndlela yokuziphatha, kunjalo, kodwa kufuneka ubone ukuba awukwazi ukuyigxotha ngokukhawuleza inja yakho ecaleni ngenxa yokuba unomntu omtsha ebomini bakho!