#16 Ithuba elihle, njengomthandi wezinja onamava, ukuzalisekisa umnqweno wakho wenkunzi yenkomo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukwenza into enhle kwisilwanyana esingenakhaya.
#17 Xa usiya umazi umhlobo wakho onemilenze emine, fumanisa ngembali yakhe kwaye uzibuze ukuba ungakwazi na ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zesilwanyana.
Abanye abahlobo abanemilenze emine kwiindawo zokuhlala zezilwanyana kunye neendawo zokuhlala zivela kubantu ababexakeke kakhulu kukugcina le "nja yezinja". Kusenokufuneka umsebenzi omninzi wokufundisa.
Funda ukuba kuthetha ukuthini ukuqeqesha izinja ezindlongondlongo kwiphephancwadi.
Ukuba i-chemistry ilungile kwaye uyamkela umngeni, unokuqiniseka: Uya kwenza isilwanyana senja sijabule kwaye ufumane iqabane elithembekileyo lobomi.