#10 Yigcine intsha.
Ngalo lonke ixesha ulahla amanzi kwisitya somntwana wakho phambi kokuba kunikwe isidlo ngasinye (naphakathi kokutya, ukuba kuyimfuneko), kwaye emva koko ukhuhle isitya. Nokuba iqhekeza elinye lokutya linokwenza incasa yonikezelo ibe yinto ehlekisayo. Ngaphandle kwamanzi, injana yakho inokuphelelwa ngamanzi emzimbeni ngokukhawuleza.
#11 Ngena kwikhalenda yakho yezilwanyana.
Qinisekisa ukuba injana yakho ihlolwa rhoqo (ubuncinci kathathu kunyaka wokuqala). Oku kuya kuvumela ugqirha wakho wezilwanyana ukuba afumane isiseko kwimpilo yakhe.
#12 Mngenise ukuba uyagula.
Akulunganga ukwenza injana engakwazi kuzinceda "yilinde" ukuba iyagula. Ngaphandle koko, into ogqiba ngayo "akukho nto" inokujika ibe yinto. Kwimeko apho, uyakufuna ukufumana unyango ngokukhawuleza.