Ezi zinja zihlala zithandwa ngenxa yesimilo, ubukrelekrele kunye nokuzinikela. Banothando kakhulu kwaye baya kukujoyina ngovuyo ukuba ulele kwisofa, ukhetha ukuba kufutshane nabanini babo xa kunokwenzeka.
Ngokuqhelekileyo ababathembi abantu abangabaziyo ngaphandle kokuba babehlalisana kwasebuntwaneni. Kungenjalo, iimbethi-manqindi ziyakukhonkotha kakhulu kwiindwendwe ekhayeni lakho.
Iimbethi manqindi zihlala zingakhuli ngokweemvakalelo ixesha elide, nangona ukukhula kwabo ngokwasemzimbeni kudla ngokuyeka kwiinyanga ezili-18. Oku kuthetha ukuba ukufunda kwangethuba kusenokubonakala ngathi kukuthetha nomntu osisithulu, kanti enyanisweni akunjalo. Nangona kunjalo, ngaxa lithile, inja yakho ngokukhawuleza iyayiqonda yonke into obuzama ukuyifundisa ixesha elide.