UMary Allen
Ukuqonda abahlobo bethu abathambileyo ngamanye amaxesha kunzima kakhulu. Ngokukodwa ukuba ukuziphatha kwenja akuqhelekanga.
Ezi ziphatha zilishumi zinokuba yimiqondiso yokuba inja yakho iyakoyika.
Inani elisithoba kuphela abachwephesha bezinja bokwenyani baqaphela njengophawu loloyiko!
Inja yakho ifaka umsila wayo
Inja entle engenakhaya eyoyikayo enamehlo amnandi ajonge epakini. Inja emthubi ethandekayo eneemvakalelo ezilusizi zoloyiko kwindawo yokuhlala. ingqiqo yokwamkelwa.
Kukho isizathu sokuba kusetyenziswe intetho ethi “tuck your tail” xa umntu esoyika into.
Xa izinja zisoyika, zitsala imisila phakathi kwemilenze yazo. Ngamanye amaxesha kude kakhulu kangangokuba ide ichukumise isisu esisezantsi.
Ukuba inja yakho yenza oku kakhulu okukujikelezile, inokukoyika.
Inja iyashwabana
Xa sisoyika, besiya kukhetha ukuba singabonakali ukuze kungabikho mntu unokusenzakalisa.
Nezinja zizenza zincinci xa ziziva zingakhuselekanga. Bahlala bezisonga kwiibhedi zabo okanye ezikoneni.
Oku kuziphatha kudla ngokubonwa ngo-Eva woNyaka oMtsha xa iziqhushumbisi ezinkulu zoyikisa inja.
Wabeka iindlebe
Ngokungafaniyo nabantu, izinja zinokujija kwaye zihambise iindlebe zazo kumacala ahlukeneyo, umzekelo ukuva ngcono izandi ezivela kumacala ahlukeneyo.
Ukuba inja ibetha iindlebe zayo emva, oko kuthetha ukuba iyazithoba okanye ivakalelwa kukuba isongelwa.
Nokuba yeyiphi na indlela, inokuba luphawu lokuba uyoyika inja yakho.
Umlomo omde ucandeke
Ukuba umlomo wenja yakho uvaliwe kodwa imilebe yakhe itsalwa ngasemva, oku kunokuba luphawu loloyiko.
Inja ekhululekileyo idla ngokuba nomlomo ovuleke kancinane.
Ukuba inja yakho ibonisa le mbonakalo yobuso naxa usekhaya, mhlawumbi ayiziva kakuhle.
Inja yakho iyakuphepha ukudibana nawe
Izinja zijongana emehlweni, zicela umngeni ukuba zilwe.
Ukuba inja yakho iyakuphepha ukudibana nawe emehlweni, inokoyika ukuba ungayihlasela.
Kule meko, kufuneka usebenze kubudlelwane kunye nomhlobo wakho onemilenze emine ukuze angasakoyiki.
Inja iyakuphepha
Ukuba inja yakho igcina umgama omhle kuwe kwaye izama ukukuphepha malunga nendlu, unokuba uyoyika.
Musa ukusondela kwinja yakho ngokugqithiseleyo, kodwa zama ukumbonisa ukuba awufuni ukuyilimaza.
Ukuba uloyiko luphelile, uya kusondela kuwe yedwa.
Amehlo akhe avuleke
Ukuba umhlobo wakho onoboya uhlala evuleke amehlo ebanzi, oku kubonisa ukuba uyoyika.
Ingakumbi xa ubona kwamehlo akhe amhlophe, uyazi ukuba uyoyika.
Ukuba ukujongile okanye ukuthe ntsho ngamehlo kodwa ejikelisa intloko yakhe, mhlawumbi ungunobangela woloyiko lwakhe.
Ukungcangcazela, ukuqina kunye nobungqongqo
Ukungcangcazela kuthetha into enye kuzo zombini izinja nakubantu. Inoba siyagodola okanye siyoyika.
Kwanenja ebonakala ixinene okanye iqinile isenokoyika.
Ukuba oku kuyenzeka rhoqo kwinja yakho, usenokuba wenza ngendlela eyothusayo.
Inja yakho ixakekile
Lo mqondiso kunzima ukutolika kuba kunokuthetha ukuba inja iyavuya kwaye yonwabile.
Ngoko ke kubalulekile ukunikela ingqalelo kwimbonakalo yobuso benja kunye nolwimi lomzimba.
Ukuba inja yakho ibaleka kwaye ixhumaxhuma, unokumoyikisa kwaye uya kuzama ukubaleka.
Ukukhonkotha kakhulu, ukukhala, okanye ukugquma
Ukukhonkotha kunye nokugquma kuthathwa ngokukhawuleza njengemiqondiso yobundlobongela. Noko ke, ngokufuthi isizathu solu gonyamelo luloyiko.
Inja yakho inokuvakalelwa kukuba ifuna ukuzikhusela phambi kwakho.
Ukubhomboloza kunokuba luphawu loloyiko.