UMary Allen
#13 Kuyimfuneko ukuqhelanisa injana kunye nezinja ezinobubele kunye nabantu, ukuze kamva injana ingaphuhlisi ubundlongondlongo okanye ubugwala obubangelwa kukoyika izinto ezintsha kunye nokungakwazi ukunxibelelana, ukwenza abahlobo abatsha.
#14 Kwiklasi yeenyanga ezi-4-5, sele kunokwenzeka ukuba ubonise ukunyamezela kunye nokunyaniseka. Kwangaxeshanye, eyona nto ibalulekileyo kukungayigqithisi, khumbula ukuba iiklasi kufuneka zizise uvuyo kuwe kunye nenja yakho, kwaye emva koko unokufezekisa.
#15 Kwiinyanga ezi-6, injana iqala ukukhula kwaye umvukeli wangempela uvuka kuye.
Uqala ukujonga kwakhona imida yezinto ezivumelekileyo kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, akaphenduli ngabom kwimiyalelo yakho, ukujonga nje indlela osabela ngayo. Ukuba akayiyo le nto injana ilindele ukumbona, ngoko unokugqiba ukuba ngoku awukwazi ukulandela imiyalelo yakho.