Mary Allen
Haddii aad leedahay eey faraxsan, cajiib ah, oo aan dhibsanayn oo jeclaan lahaa inuu salaamo dadka kale, way adkaan kartaa mararka qaarkood inaad fahamto sababta milkiilayaasha eeyaha kale u socdaan ama u yiraahdaan maya. Waxaa laga yaabaa inaad dareento xanaaq ama murugo. Laakiin ha u qaadan shakhsi ahaan, waxaa jiri kara sababo badan oo ah sababta milkiilaha eeyga aad la kulanto uusan rabin eeydu inay salaamaan.
Sababta ugu badan ee uu milkiilaha eeygu uga fogaado shirku waa in mulkiiluhu uu u maleeyo inay "aan loo baahnayn" haddii eeydu aysan mar kale kulmi doonin. Mulkiiluhu wuxuu si fudud u malaynayaa in eeygu hore u lahaan jiray aqoontii uu u baahnaa. Kulanka eyga had iyo jeer macnaheedu waa xiisad gaar ah, eeyaha waa inay is hubiyaan, haddii aad nasiib xun tahay, kulanku ma noqon doono mid aad u faraxsan sida aad u malaynayso. Haddii eeydu ay ku kulmaan xadhigga, xadhiggu wuxuu hor istaagi karaa habka ay ula xiriiraan si dabiici ah midba midka kale ama wuxuu keeni karaa in iyaga ama milkiilayaashooda ay isku xirmaan. Markaa waxaa jirta khatar ah inay dareemaan cidhiidhi iyo inay galaan difaac. Sidaa darteed, dad badan oo eyda leh ma rabaan inay qaataan khatarta.
Waa maxay sababta
Sababaha kale ee aanad u doonayn in eeygu caafimaad qabo waxa ay noqon kartaa in aad taas u tababarto, ma aha in aad gaadho dad ama eeyo kale oo ay la kulanto. Eeygu waxa kale oo laga yaabaa inuu buko, dhawaan la qalay, ama haddii kale hoos u dhaco, laga yaabee inuu ordo ama mulkiiluhu aanu si fudud ugu jirin niyadiisa bulsho ahaaneed.
Kuwa leh eyga si fudud u gala walbahaarka, cabsada, ama xanaaqa, way ku adkaan kartaa in laga hadlo sababta eydu aanay u kulmin. In eeyga kale uu yahay "naxariis" ama "waa qaniinyo si hubaal ah si fiican ayay u socotaa" maaha doodaha in milkiilaha eeygu uu ka jawaabo, laakiin markaa waa inaad si xushmad leh u ilaalisaa fogaantaada.
Ugu Wanaagsan In La Kulmo Dabacsan
Dabcan, waxaa jira milkiilayaasha eey kuwaas oo jeclaan lahaa in eeydu ay sidoo kale la kulmaan, iyo ilmo yar, way fiicantahay haddii ay la kulanto eeyo badan oo kala duwan, fadlan dabcan. Habka ugu fudud ee lagu hubin karo xaalada waa in aad isha la yeelatid milkiilaha masaafo macquul ah oo aad waydiiso inta eeydu ay kala fog yihiin. Had iyo jeer way fiican tahay in eeyaha ay kulmaan dabacsanaan. Haddi aanay taasi suurtogal ahayn, iska hubi in xadhkaha goostay eeyguna ay is dejiyaan marka ay kulmaan.