Mary Allen
Akuluakulu ndi amphaka amatha kusungidwa pamodzi, koma pali zinthu zingapo zofunika kuzikumbukira. Pezani apa momwe kusunga mphaka wokalamba ndi mphaka wamng'ono kungagwire ntchito ndi zomwe inu monga mwiniwake muyenera kupewa.
Kusunga amphaka achichepere ndi akulu limodzi kumatha kugwira bwino ntchito. Zilibe kanthu kaya ndi mayi ndi mphaka wake kapena amphaka ena awiri. Chifukwa chachikulu ndikuti ngati mphaka wamkulu amagwirizana bwino ndi amphaka ena kapena ayi: ngati mphaka wa amayi nthawi zambiri amakhala ngati mphaka imodzi, amatha kukana ana ake pakapita miyezi ingapo. Mosiyana ndi zimenezi, palinso amphaka achikulire omwe amayanjana kwambiri ndi alendo komanso achinyamata.
Ngati muli ndi mphaka wakale ndipo mukufuna kukhala ndi mwana, muyenera kulabadira zinthu zingapo.
Sonkhanitsani Ana a Mphaka Kuchokera M'misasa
Amphaka achaka chimodzi omwe safunanso kunena kuti "O, zokongola bwanji!" kulira nthawi zambiri kumathera m'malo obisala nyama. Komabe, amphakawa akhoza kukhala oyenera ngati amphaka achiwiri. Ubwino wawo ndi wakuti ali kale bwino ndi amphaka ena, koma akadali okonzeka kuphunzira ndi kusintha.
Ndikoyenera kuyang'ana makamaka paka wotere. Pa chaka chimodzi, amphaka amakhala othamanga, amphamvu, ndi okonda kusewera, osati othamanga kwambiri komanso opusa monga momwe analili theka la chaka chapitacho. Ndipo mphaka wamkulu woyamba akhoza kukhala wokondwa kuti sakuyenera kupirira ululu wambiri pa bulu.
Maphunziro a Achinyamata Olembedwa ndi Mphaka Wakale
Ana amphaka, monga ana agalu, amasangalala ndi chitetezo cha ana agalu, koma akakhala ochepa, osati nthawi zonse. Posachedwapa adzayenera kusewera ndi malamulo a amphaka akuluakulu. Amaphunzira izi kuyambira ali ndi miyezi itatu mpaka atakwanitsa chaka chimodzi, ngakhale gawo lophunzirira silinathe. Nthawi yophunzitsa ndi kuphunzira imeneyi ingakhale yothandiza pobweretsa mphaka wamng'ono ndi wamkulu, chifukwa mphaka wamkulu amavomereza mwana wamng'ono yemwe angathe "kuphunzitsa" motsatira malamulo ake, mwina kuposa mphaka wamkulu mofanana.
Ndi bwino kupewa anthu onyanyira
Zitha kukhala zovuta ngati mphaka woyamba sali bwana ndipo tsopano akukumana ndi mpikisano m'miyezi yabwino kwambiri yaukali. Pali zambiri zoterezi, zomwe zimatha ndi mphaka woyamba kukhala wokhumudwa kwambiri. Anthu asanyalanyaze mphaka wawo woyamba chifukwa choti kamphaka wokongola walowa mkati. Choncho, monga eni ake, pangani chisankho chodziwikiratu kuti mutenge nthawi ndi mphaka wanu wamkulu.
Cholinga chiyenera kukhala mtendere wapakhomo nthawi zonse. Ndipo mumapeza izi pophatikiza zilembo bwino.
Mwana wamanyazi amapita bwino ndi mphaka wakale wosungika. Mphaka woyamba wamkulu amalumikizananso ndi mphaka wa cheekier.
Ndibwino kuti musamaphatikize kusiyana kwakukulu kwa makhalidwe, mwachitsanzo, kuyika mwana wamphaka wamantha kutsogolo kwa Rambo tomcat. Ngakhale mphaka wokalamba wachete ndi mphaka wa cheeky, wokondwa sayendera limodzi.
Achikulire Amphaka Amafunika Kupumula
Si bwino kuponya mwadzidzidzi mwana mphaka pamaso pa wamkulu mphaka. Amphaka akuluakulu nthawi zambiri amafunikira kupuma ndi chisamaliro chochuluka kuchokera kwa eni ake. Sasuntha monga momwe ankachitira kale ndipo amafunikira chakudya chapadera. Mphaka wamng'ono yemwe ali ndi hyper siwoyenera kukhala bwenzi loyenera la mphaka wamkulu.