Mary Allen
Kodi nthawi zina mumamva kuthamangitsidwa ndi mphaka wanu? Kodi amakutsatirani nthawi zonse - mosasamala kanthu kuti mukufuna kupita kukhitchini kapena kuchipinda chosambira? Pali zambiri ku izi kuposa momwe mukuganizira. Zinyama zanu zimakuuzani chifukwa chake mphaka wanu amatha kukuthamangitsani.
Mphaka Wanu Wazolowera Kukutsatirani
Amphaka ena amaloweza pamtima ngati ana amphaka kuti azitsatira anthu awo kulikonse. Izi ndi khalidwe lomwe ana amphaka amasonyezanso mwa amayi awo: Amawathamangira chifukwa kukhala pafupi ndi amayi awo kumatanthauza chitetezo ndi chakudya - mofanana kwambiri ndi kukhala pafupi ndi anthu.
Kutsuka ndi kuweta ana anu nthawi zambiri kumalimbitsa mgwirizanowu pakati panu. Amphaka ena amangotsatira anthu awo chifukwa cha chidwi kapena chifukwa amakonda kukhala nawo. Choyipa cha izi, komabe, ndikuti amphaka akakhala pambali pa anthu awo, amamva kuwawa kwenikweni komanso kupsinjika akakhala kwaokha.
Mphaka Wanu Amakuthamangitsani Chifukwa Imakukondani
Ngati mphaka wanu amakuthamangitsani nthawi zonse, ndiye chiyamikiro chachikulu: Wakusankhani ngati munthu amene amamukonda. Mwinanso adzakusonyezani kuti anakusowani.
Ngati simuli panyumba masana, mwachitsanzo, chifukwa mumagwira ntchito, mphaka wanu sangafune kukusiyani nokha madzulo. Mwinamwake akuyembekeza kutenga imodzi kapena ina yoweta ndi kusewera.
Umu ndi Momwe Mungabwezere Chikondi cha Mphaka Wanu
Mphaka wanu amakuwonetsani chikondi chake - ndipo mumamusangalatsa kwambiri ngati mumuwonetsanso chanu. Monga? Zimatengera zomwe mphaka wanu amakonda. Ngakhale amphaka ena amakonda kusewera mosasamala, ena amafuna nthawi yayitali yogonana. Pophunzira kumvetsetsa chilankhulo cha mphaka wanu, mudzaphunzira mwachangu komwe angafune kugonekedwa komanso momwe angakonde.