Mary Allen
Muyenera kukhala mphaka! Komabe, popeza tikuyenera kukhala okhutira ndi kukhala munthu, ndi bwino kutenga mphaka ngati chitsanzo m'mbali zina za moyo. Werengani apa zomwe mungaphunzire kuchokera kwa mphaka wanu.
Ngati mutenga nthawi kuti muwone khalidwe la amphaka, mudzapeza nzeru zambiri panjira. Amphaka monga chosavuta: "Chitani zomwe mukufuna ndipo ingokhalani nokha!" Zikafika pazinthu izi, muyenera kumutenga mphaka wanu ngati chitsanzo.
Pumulani Moyenera
Amphaka mwina angatiphunzitse chinthu chimodzi kapena ziwiri za luso lopuma. Choyamba, phunziro loyamba pa malo onama: malinga ngati muli omasuka, zili bwino! Popeza sitidzapeza nthawi yochuluka yogona ngati amphaka athu, tiyenera kukhala ndi cholinga chogona maola asanu ndi atatu oyenera kugona. Kusapita kotheratu ndiko kukusokoneza kugona kwanu. Ndipo: Osayiwala kutambasula mukadzuka.
Khalani mu Mphindi
Amphaka amakhala pano ndi pano. Amayang'ana dziko lapansi - ndi ife - mopanda kuweruza. Amalimbikitsidwa kokha ndi chibadwa chawo chodzitetezera. Zolinga zobisika, njiru kapena chinyengo nzochilendo kwa iwo. Ngakhale anthu nthawi zambiri amanena ndendende makhalidwe awa. Iwo amatenga mkhalidwewo pamene ukubwera ndi kuchitapo kanthu pa izo. Saganizira za dzulo kapena mawa. Ndi njira ya moyo yomwe ilibe kanthu kochita (konse kwaumunthu) kudzikonda.
Lankhulani Momveka
Kodi ndi liti pamene munati “inde” pamene munayenera kunena kuti “ayi”? Anthu sanena kaŵirikaŵiri zimene amaganiza, kaya pofuna kupewa mikangano kapena kupeŵa kukhumudwitsa ena. M'kupita kwa nthawi, kukhumudwa kwakukulu kumawonjezeka, zomwe zimagwera pansi pa chigwa cha chete. Amphaka samasamala za izo zonse. Amakhala ndi malamulo omveka bwino olankhulirana ndipo aliyense amene sawamamatira amamenyedwera kapena kumenyedwa mbama. Zachidziwikire, sagwiritsa ntchito mawu akulu: duel yaifupi ya Starr nthawi zambiri imakhala yokwanira kumveketsa mbali zake. Amphaka ndi oona mtima motsitsimula.
Sungani Mwana Wamkati
Ngakhale ali ndi zaka zingati, amphaka samawoneka ngati akukula. Kutengera ndi umunthu wawo, amakhalabe ndi mikhalidwe monga chidwi, kusewera komanso kufunikira kofukizidwa ngakhale atakalamba. Amphaka amaphunzira moyo wonse. Iwo omwe amatha kulimbikitsa zabwino ndikuchotsa zoyipa amakhala ndi moyo womasuka komanso wosangalala. Sitepe iyi imafuna kumasuka, kulimba mtima komanso kosavuta kuchita limodzi kusiyana ndi kukhala nokha.
Dziperekezeni Kwa Ine Nthawi
Amphaka amathera gawo lalikulu la moyo wawo akukonzekera, pazifukwa zosiyanasiyana. Kuyeretsa kopemphera, mwachitsanzo, ndi njira yothanirana ndi kupsinjika maganizo. Amphaka amakhala osavuta: kamodzi kuchokera kumutu kupita ku dzanja, popanda madzi komanso ndi lilime lokha, chonde! Zowona, sitiyenera kukhala ospartan. M'malo mwake, ndi za lingaliro loyambira kudzitengera nthawi yokwanira nokha ndi thupi lanu.
Pitirizani Kuchita Zochita
Amphaka ndi zolengedwa za chizolowezi. Nthawi zambiri amasintha moyo wawo kuti ugwirizane ndi moyo wa anthu, makamaka powasunga m'nyumba. Ndikoyenera kukhazikitsa nthawi zoikika zodyetsera, kusewera limodzi, ndi zina zambiri, chifukwa chizolowezi chokhazikika chatsiku ndi tsiku chimapatsa amphaka chitetezo. Zochita zathanzi zilinso ndi cholinga kwa ife anthu: Zimatipyoza m'nthawi zovuta komanso zimalepheretsa zizolowezi zoipa kuti zitengeke. Amapanganso moyo watsiku ndi tsiku.
Yamikirani Zinthu Zing'onozing'ono
Ayi, simuyenera kudumphira m’katoni yapafupi, koma tingaphunzirepo kanthu pa changu cha mphaka pa zinthu zosavuta m’moyo. Mmodzi akhoza pafupifupi kuganiza kuti amphaka amabadwa minimalists. Saona zinthu zakuthupi kukhala zofunika m’pang’ono pomwe. Chilichonse chomwe amafunikira chimachokera ku zosowa zawo zachilengedwe: kudya, kumwa, kugona, chitetezo, chimbudzi choyenera, kucheza ndi anthu, kusaka kapena kusewera.