Mary Allen
Amphaka sagwiritsa ntchito meowing wina ndi mzake. Nanga n’cifukwa ciani “akulankhula” nafe? Chifukwa chake ndi chosavuta. Timamupereka.
Ngati amphaka akufuna kulankhulana, nthawi zambiri amatero popanda kunena mawu. Ngakhale pakhoza kukhala kuwomba kapena kukuwa pa “makambirano” owopsa, nthawi zambiri kumakhala bata. Amphaka amadzipangitsa kumveka bwino kudzera mukulankhulana kwa thupi.
Amphaka nthawi zambiri amatha popanda mawu
Ngati amphaka awiri akumana, izi zimachitika mwakachetechete. Chifukwa amphaka amatha kuyimira malingaliro awo popanda mawu. Chilichonse chomwe chiyenera kumveka bwino pakati pa zinyama chimathetsedwa pogwiritsa ntchito thupi ndi fungo. Izi zitha kukhala kusuntha kwa mchira komanso kusintha kochepa pamawonekedwe a nkhope. Amphaka amatha kuwerenga mosavuta zizindikiro izi.
Ana amphaka amagwiritsa ntchito 'stopgap'
Ana a mphaka sanafikebe podziwa chinenero chamakono chotere. Pachiyambi, satha kuona chilichonse, ngakhale kuchita zinthu zosonyeza zizindikiro za thupi.
Pofuna kuzindikiridwa ndi kumvetsetsedwa ndi amayi awo, amawomba. Komabe, amangosunga njira iyi yolumikizirana mpaka atadziwa bwino ma signature opanda pake.
Akakula ndipo amatha kufotokoza zomwe akutanthauza ndi matupi awo, amphaka safunanso mawu awo.
Mphaka akufunafuna “kucheza” ndi anthu
Komabe, ngati mphaka akukhala ndi munthu, phazi la velvet limamuwona ngati cholengedwa chomwe chimadalira kwambiri kulankhulana ndi mawu. Kuphatikiza apo, mphaka amazindikira msanga kuti anthu sangachite pang'ono kapena ayi ndi zizindikiro za thupi lawo.
Pofuna kuti anthu azisangalalabe nazo kapena kuti zofuna zawo zikwaniritsidwe, amphakawa amachita zinthu mwanzeru: Amatsitsimutsanso “chinenero” chawo!
Izi sizingakhale zodabwitsa poyamba. Komabe, ngati mungaganizire kwakanthawi, ndikusuntha kwanzeru kwambiri kuchokera kwa omwe tikukhala nawo. Chifukwa mosasamala kanthu kuti anthu anzeru bwanji, mphaka amabwera kudzakumana nafe ndipo amalipira zolephera zathu zolankhulana.